Does he want to be more than just friends?

Question

was wondering if my guy friend likes me as a friend or more. Here is a list of the following things that have happened.
1) He texted me asking how work went, if anything was going on later and if I made it home ok.
2) He has asked me to give him rides before
3) Asks to go places with me
4) Borrowed a pair of my sweat pants when he slept over my house during a party and kept them
5) He once joked with me when he slept over on how he was going to walk home at five in the morning to prove to everyone how close his house is to mine. He pretended to leave but really went downstairs and then laughed when i found him...then we ended up sleeping on the couch
6) He came over my house to watch a movie
7) Laughs at the things i do or say
8)wore my necklace
9) gave me a massage
10) Gave me the first cd that he ever made
11) Hugged me goodbye leaving for college
12) apoliges for small things
13)remembers small things about me
Do you think he likes me more than a friend and how do no

13) He also called me the other night but i missed his call so i called him back and asked what was up and he was like nothing i called cause i had to ask you something but nevermind i found out the answer.
14) never says anything about other girls
15) We went to a game together and during half time he called me cause we got seperated and said he was going to my car for a minute. After we got of off the phone i realized he didnt have my keys so i text him asking if he needed them he responded by " do you want to come up here" so i walked there figuring he needed the keys but he didnt and we just kinda stood there in awkward silence.
15) says im entertaining
16) he laughed at me when i said "yea you prob. hate me and responded with a " WHAT?? are you kidding me"
17) he makes little bets with me
18) remembers small things about me such as what im afraid of, and sports i played
19) introduces me to his friends

Answer 1

the way you put it.. sounds like he wants to be more than a friend

maybe that's because you want him to want that, though, so you phrase it like that... hmm I dunno :S lol

Answer 2

Take it from me... this guy is definately a "guy". As my mama used to say "life is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you gonna get." I've found that this also applies to relationships. This guy is definately in love with you!! I would recommend comparing your relationship with this fellow to a relationship you have with a different guy that is not interested in you so that you can see how different these two people think of you. If you don't have any other male friends to make a comparison, compare him to your dad. Does your dad ask you about work or check if you made it home okay? Does your dad ask to go places with you? Does your dad watch movies at your house with you? Did he hug you goodbye before college? Does he laugh at things you say or remember the small things about you like what kind of toilet paper you like? Now you can see that this guy is really in love with you because a normal guy wouldn't do all of that. I hope this really cleared things up for you! Go for it! Also... things number 1,2,3,6,5,7,8,10, 13.1, 13.2, 19, 15.1, 18, 17, 16, 15.2, 4, 9, 11, 12, and 14 suggest that he may very well be a gay-homo.

Answer 3

Unless this guy is gay, he likes you for sure.

Here's a myth I'm going to dispell for you......straight men and women can never be "just friends". Men are biologically designed and genetically predestined to try to sleep with women. This will over-ride any genuine motives for being "just friends". The guy who is pretending to be just a friend, will always want to sleep with you. Always.

The only rare exception to this certainty (besides the man being gay) is when the girl is unattractive, therefore, the guy's not interested in sleeping with her. However, even in this situation, the guy is most likely not going to want to hang around an unattractive girl, so the chance of a friendship evolving is not likely, unless there happens to be some strong common interests.

Answer 4

is he still in high school? how far apart are you now? a lot of the things you listed would be considered flirting by most. if you aren't showing any of the same behavior in return it probably won't go anywhere. did your sweatpants look good on him or what?
i couldn't help but notice you've asked this same question about 100 times now! if you aren't brave enough to talk to him can't you just ask one of his friends if he has a crush on you?

Answer 5

sounds like he might want to be your girlfriend, wearing your clothes and jewelry and all. Other than that, he just sounds like someone who likes to hang around you. Don't try to make something out of what isn't there. If he wants to be more, I am sure he will let you know, unless you are both really young kids, then you shouldn't be worrying about it anyway.

Answer 6

#4,#8,#14 makes it sound to me like he might be gay. borrowing your sweatpants...that seems a little odd to me.

maybe he just thinks of you as one of the guys. i have a guy friend who remembers a ton of stuff about me and is always giving me hugs and he has a steady girlfriend of whom he is very loyal. if you really want to know just ask him yourself. if you are honest with him chances are he will be honest with you.

if you are not returning any of the "signals" ...like remembering things about him, just calling to check in, complementing him, or not introducing him to your friends, he may just think your clueless and not want to confess how he feels about you.

best of luck! just be straightforward.

Answer 7

Why you are in a hurry to jump to conclusions ?