i have a foot fetish and have been in situations where I have found my feet bumping into a gals accidently and I guess I wait to see if they move their foot away before I will move mine. Sometimes it has been with strangers but it has also happened with friends of my wifes and relatives to be honest I have been shocked at how much footsie these gals will play with me. I know they must not see anything wrong with it and I have told my wife and she seems to think it is alright too. The only thing that worries me is that because of my fetish I get more out of it than just playing. should I quit doing it or is it ok to keep on kepping on with it?
2007-10-17 01:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you answered your own question above when you said you get more out of it than just playing. Think about it, you are having some sort of physical contact with women who you are not married to for pleasure. That's not okay even if your wife seems to think so. I know it may seem harmless but what happens when you can't stop or footsie is not enough?
2007-10-17 01:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its like your scratching an itch... it feels good but still an itch... you just want to scratch it. the most dangerous part is that it will go more than just footsie. its quite inappropriate for a married man, even if your wife thinks its alright. if you dont want to be caught up in a sticky situation, you might just play footsie with your wifey, not other people.
2007-10-17 08:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is ok with you cheating on her? She really doesn't understand what your fetish is doing to you, does she? Perhaps you should tell her. Regardless, you are engaging in a non-consensual sexual act. You need to stop it before someone has you arrested. You have a wife, play with her feet.
2007-10-17 08:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a stranger tried to play footsie with me I would kick his leg very hard, it's imposing your fetish on other people. fair enough with your wife, but don't do it to strangers or you could end up with bruised shins.
2007-10-17 08:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you are married and not doing it with your wife I would suggest you stop. It can only lead to trouble.
2007-10-17 08:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by indyskinsfan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I`ve never had a desire to taste toe jam..
2007-10-17 08:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Watch the old Devine movie Polyester.....if you haven't already seen it.
2007-10-17 08:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah i would stop doing it. i beleive its not fair to your wife especially if you getting off on it.
2007-10-17 08:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Luke N 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it may not be 100% alright but it certainly isnt 100% wrong.
be careful
enjoy!
2007-10-17 08:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by QnA34 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
if its fun keep on
2007-10-17 08:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by MegaStar 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋