today was themost best, adorable day of my life.today,i met my onlnie friend and meeting him was something i wud never forget. he's d kind a guy i really wanted in my life. we walked and spent time togehter in the park, movie. I truly miss him.the prob is tht, he's going back to him home overseas and will only come back next year. b4 leaving, he gave me a french kiss and a hug. i know normal kisses is fine, but french kiss, and he placed his hand over my shoulders. it all happened in a "sudden". what does it mean? i feel sad tht he's going back this sunday...
2007-10-17 01:56:49 · 15 answers · asked by Mi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its infatuation... but then don't move too ahead.. you miss him so stay in contact wit him through phone or net...
do your best.. get over with it.. :)
2007-10-17 02:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend forcing yourself to move out of your parent's house, maybe go to University and live there. That is the best way for you to have experiences with people and to get you comfortable with yourself in the outside world. I think I'm probably a lot like you. I moved away at 19 and went to school 2000 miles from home. I had a really great time and found that I enjoyed friends (and boys) a lot more than I'd thought. It didn't last thought because when I was done with school after 4 years away I ended up back at my parent's house. It's just a matter of forcing yourself to do things you don't want and that you know makes you uncomfortable until you find the place that will give you the most happiness. On a side note, I have a few friends with social anxiety who take medication which has helped immensely. I've always been hesitant about that stuff so have never tried it or been diagnosed but it may surprize you the changes it can make.
2016-05-23 03:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by hang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, you seem confused as you have true feelings for the guy returning home and his reaction seems less emotional. Here you need to understand the essence of life i.e. every thing comes to end sooner or later. The relationships also behave the same way. While parting with a loved one is always painful, it also makes you mature with better understanding and provides you opportunity to look for another relationship which may, who knows, turn out to be more attractive and fulfilling. You have to learn to abondon the out of reach and carry on with life which is always full of promises and surprises. Go ahead with new enthusiasm. Good luck.
2007-10-17 02:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have options here... If you feel that strongly about him and he feels the same about you, go with him. Or just wait until next year, but honestly, being with someone overseas and apart for a whole year, would sort of be setting yourself up for hell. Odds are he will meet someone else, as will you.
2007-10-17 02:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think, maybe it was only lust. Stop and think through your feelings. If it is love, there is time. Talk with each other and get together if it is truly love, and in that case, make your whole lives together. Do not make your whole life on the basis of one kiss.
2007-10-17 02:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by CarlisleGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Although he's going back overseas, there is no reason that the 2 of you can't keep in contact. A year really isn't all that long, it just seems like it.
2007-10-17 01:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing with your life at the moment? Ever fancied travelling? Use it as an oppurtunity to travel and get streetwise and have the time of your life! If you fall in love you fall in love, if not you still can have an amazing experience and meet loads of interesting people along the way!
Thats what I would do!
2007-10-17 02:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason you can't remain in contact & stay friends if all else fails, it will hard to keep a long-distance relationship with him that far away.
Just don't sit around & wait on him...There are other guys out there, who are probably right around you. And you only met this guy one time
2007-10-17 02:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by bectasy2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awh, i know how you feel, i met my boyfriend 3 months ago for the first time.. hes in dublin, in in cork.. so its a nightmare.. whats worse is, hes from dubai, so will be goin home in 2 years when hes finished college here.. its been tearing me apart..
i think the frenchie is a real sign he really likes you.. but the goin overseas could be hard..
keep in contact whether or which.. you never know what might happen..
2007-10-17 02:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you really like this guy... He is leaving so there is only so much you can do. If he feels the same way about you as you feel about him... maybe you can re-connect when he comes back!
Good Luck!
2007-10-17 02:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by think about that~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are ok, his kiss was a tease.
moveon and dont think about it especially if he is in the service
you could be one of a million-protect yourself and put his email address, screen name and real name into google to check for hits
I am in big sister mode now but better to be safe than sorry
hope this helps
2007-10-17 02:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋