ok I'm 16 you could say I am very mature for my age safe sex supper smart gorgeous in shape and actually work for every last dime I earn and spend ok so theirs this guy I have gotten to know very well he is very attractive works out has a job owns a house and is very impendent he is smart and lovable so he is 26. Is it wrong for me to have feeling for him? Is it wrong for us to have a relationship? Is the age difference to big? (No it's illegal crap pleas!)
2007-10-17 11:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by Cherish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could could get in big trouble if he touches you or you have sex. It doesn't matter if you consent, it is statutory rape and he will go to jail. Also you shouldn't be having sex til your married or atleast 22. Your not a mature as you think you are, you just think too much of yourself right now.
2007-10-17 11:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I know you said no it's illegal crap - but --- you have to be careful, cuz it is and unless your parents approve he could get in big trouble, so be careful okay - and as for the age difference - the age difference is not too great if neither of you is bothered by it. I am 9 yrs older than my boyfriend - we have been together for over a yr (he is almost 22 now). You sound like you have your s h i t together pretty much for someone your age - thats awesome, alot of people much older than you are not as responsible. The only problem you may have is down the road, you will want to experience things he already has, and it could make him bored or you bored for that matter. .
2007-10-17 18:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I no alot of marriages that have couples of 10 yr differences, but not that young. When u are young 5 yrs is a HUGE difference compared to being older- 10 and 15yrs compared to 50 and 55yrs. So it would be sort of strange, u just starting to drive, and him already driving, having a house, working. 10 yrs, is an o.k. age difference, but not at 16. If u really get to no him, I definitly think that it is O.K. to date
I hoped i helped some
Good luck!
2007-10-17 18:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by XlivesXforXrockX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I won't even go there with the illegal trip, cuz you already know the bizness............But it does sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. And I have to be honest with you. As I was reading your question, I'm sayin to myself,.........what's the problem? He sounds really mature for his age, which is extremely rare for most men. So if it aint broke, don't fix it.
Good Luck
2007-10-17 18:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the age difference is too large - for now - tell him to check back when you are 22. he will be long gone. You will be over him. You will be glad you had fun. And he won't go to jail - because like it or not - it is illegal and it is illegal for a reason - because you are too immature to know what is best.
But you are also too immature to listen - so go make your mistakes - just NO CHILDREN and NO DISEASES please - we are tired of paying for kids mistakes.
2007-10-17 18:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by vegasrob89118 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong for you to have feelings for him, but I think you should wait a few years before acting on those feelings, for the sake of both of you.
Good luck
2007-10-17 18:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound mature enough to handle the age difference. but remember he could get in trouble with you being underage. be careful.
2007-10-17 18:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong for you to have feelings for him. but i don't think it works with such a big age dif.
2007-10-17 18:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Amber K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes yes sometimes no
2007-10-17 21:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by kk kkkkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋