please help me i want to know if my boyfriend loves me. we havent even kissed or held hands. Does he really care about me. He calls me everyday and gives me compliments. But are they true
2007-10-17 11:53:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl..give it a chance..don't start pushing it..let it happen naturally...take your time..falling in love is going to take time. you have to first prove to each other that you are worthy of each other and that will only happen when u spend more time together..everything seems like it's going like it should...wait..be patient..don't be so hasty..if you say something...you will ruin it..just take your time..guys don't like to be pressured..you have not even kissed..how can you jump to love??? are you nuts?? love is the last thing that happens..
spending time together, getting to know each other is the most important thing..how can love happen when you don't even know each other that well..maybe he wants to take it slow...you need to back off lady! or you will lose him..don't be needy..let him come after you..if u already knw you are crazy about him..
2007-10-17 12:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by mercedesgal63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you are rather young. Just ask him. If he says no, then don't get bummed out. Love is a really powerful feeling. Just because he is your boyfriend doesn't mean he has to LOVE you. Sometimes it takes a while for the "L" word to surface. Talk to him about it. Tell him your feelings and ask him if he would like to take a step further. Guys are shy too. Too often girls think guys should make the first move. They couldn't be farther from the truth. Boys are scared too. Good Luck
2007-10-17 18:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is, I believe, NO EXPLICABLE WAY to know whether somebody truly loves you. Caring and thoughtful actions point to some serious interest. If the person is very young it is probable that there exist feelings behind an interest, but it might only be the feeling of excitement.
One thing to check would be how "thoughtful" his compliments are. If they aren't classics like "nice hair", "nice dress", but such that they couldn't be said to any girl they indicate he was THINKING about you, which signifies some interest.
2007-10-17 19:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nick P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how long have you been dating? Women tend to fall in love alot quicker then men. With men it takes time. If he loved you, you would definately know. Otherwise it might just be a crush at this point and you havent gave it enough time to turn into love.
2007-10-17 18:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by ajriggs26 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How is he around other women? What does he say to his friends?
You're never ever going to be really sure. Even if you spend your lives together, there is always the possibility that you're both there simply because your not some place else.
Eventually, you have to trust.
2007-10-17 18:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the problem is with simply "taking it slow". I know guys get a bad rap for always trying to go for the gold...but not all men are like that...be happy, sounds like you found a gentleman!
If you like him a lot and this really bothers you; talk with him. You'll get your answer...Good Luck!! : )
2007-10-17 19:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by bessiedarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. You cannot rush it and when he is ready to express his love then he will. You cannot force emotions. Also, its good to form a strong friendship that involves trust. Take it easy for now and enjoy the time you spend and getting to know him. Love takes time.
2007-10-17 18:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by rely598 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key. Sit down with him and have a serious discussion of where you guys are at now in your relationship and where you want to go from here.
2007-10-17 18:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by St. Louis Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are all about trust. Anyhow in the meantime follow your gut feelings and your first instinct.
How old are you anyhow?
Well anyway he does seem to like you a lot though!
2007-10-17 19:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been going out? If you haven't been in the relationship long, give it some time before you bring up the "L" word.
2007-10-17 18:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Freethinker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋