I don't want to sound like a super jealous guy, but should I be worried.
2007-10-17 12:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by JoeClyde 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes. especially if she does this often. alcohol lowers inhibitions, and i think most people have done things they regretted in those situations. i know i have (before i was married), and thankfully i didn't let it get out of hand, but it easily could have if i hadn't stood firm. if you trust her, you may decide to let it go, but i think you have a right to voice your concerns (come on, you know how men are!). it's not that you don't trust her, it's that you don't trust the men. if do not to accuse her of anything she hasn't done, you are not being super-jealous. it seems like a legitimate time to speak up.
2007-10-17 12:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by hh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a girlfriend that went to a Bar after work with male co-workers, She wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore.
I should be the one she wants to keep company with. Especially if she goes to a Bar.
2007-10-17 13:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are going as a "group" from work and its not every signle night - let her go b*tch about work and the boss with her work buddies......
If its with just 1 or 2 male co-workers, then I'd say be careful...
If its a regular thing and encroaches on YOUR family time together - then you are well within your rights to bring it up, but as a "I don't get to spend as much time with you as I'd like to...." thing, not a, "I think your sleeping with Ed from accounting....." type of thing.
2007-10-17 12:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time dude. It takes a lot to fall in love and it isnt easy. Maybe just try getting out more and make it a point to meet someone new everyday or at least once a week. Women dont normally approach guys on their own unless they are desperate...I think you should try and meet someone your own age...maybe try out one of those dating sites...just be careful with that stuff...I would treat that as a last resort but no harm in trying.
2016-05-23 05:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a group of mixed people, I wouldn't worry about it. And if it wasn't all the time. She probably just wants some fun time with coworkers outside of the office.
2007-10-17 16:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by trapeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i aggree with tx. i used to do that, and the reason was i had a crush on one of them. but it might b diff for her, she might just enjoy there compay. ask if u can come along and see what reaction u get. if shes like yeah good fine, then nothiing to worry a bout but if shes really cagey about it maybe u should think twice
2007-10-17 12:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she invite you? If she doesn't ask her why she wouldn't be excited to introduce you to her co-workers. NO MORE JEALOUSY you will have your answer.
2007-10-17 12:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by rukidden99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you join them one evening? If they try to exclude you or don't seem thrilled that you will be there, then you have something about which to worry.
2007-10-17 12:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
"cheating" is anything you do that you would NOT do with your boyfriend/girlfriend looking over your shoulder.
2007-10-17 12:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless she sleeps with one of them ?
let here b
if it going to happen , it going to happen anyway,and you cant or wont control it
2007-10-17 12:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋