help i dunno wat to do she is my best friend and my parents say she is a bad influence i still havent told her bout it....
2007-10-17 12:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She does sound unstable and they might have a point. Maybe you need to convince them you are stable enough to handle those friends?
2007-10-17 12:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The are scared you'll get emotionally drawn into her battles of self image and hurt yourself. Or worse, be in a situtation where they cannot help you. Friends who do bad things or painful things or thing society does not allow can cause your reputation and your life to be in jeopardy.
Your parents want you safe and sound, the world is full of things they do not want for you, since any parent wants good things to happen to thier children, not bad.
Hurts your feelings, or makes you sad, but they do what is best at the time for your health. Ask them what you should do. Maybe they can help.
2007-10-17 12:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by lithuim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 10:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by rosalee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need to realize that it's the worst thing to keep people away from self mutilators. I would have them do some research so that they can understand that it is important for others to be around them.
If you chose not to, then you may have to see your friend in secret until things blow over. Your friend needs you.
2007-10-17 12:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would defenitly tell her about it, make sure that you talk to your parents and make them listen and open their eyes that this world isnt perfect and as long as you like her and she isnt harming you then i would try to convince them to let you be with her, look at it form the parents point of view and it wouldnt be good if you daughter went from being nice to mean because of this girl. hope this helps!
2007-10-17 12:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the parents and do not go behind that girl once again, Your parents know much better than you, Yours ,
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2007-10-21 12:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you will talk to her and try and get her help. and that if you dont no one elce will.
And reasure them that you wont do it.
Than tell you friend.
And see what happens.
2007-10-17 12:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Cassie Wassie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont want u to turn out like her
2007-10-17 12:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by peace and love :)!!! ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋