ok I've been friends with this guy a while and oneday it was really cold he asks me if I want to where his jacket I say no I'm fine the truth is I was freezing but anyway I kinda "like" him so I'm not sure why I refused but did I possibly hurt his feelings? does this mean anything or was he just being nice?
2007-10-17 12:17:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants to get inside you. hehe na i dont think it means anything cause my cousin offered me his jacket too and i said no although i was cold even though he forced me to wear
2007-10-17 12:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Baca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it means something.
But.....maybe it means it was cold and he was being nice.
I've done this before. When it was cold, and my friend was obviously cold. I'm hot-blooded and didn't need my jacket. I offered her mine (2 occasions). Both times she said no. When you say "no"......regardless of what his intentions are.....you are making your intentions clear. You are sending the message "I am not interested in you romantically".
That doesn't mean you've hurt his feelings (mine weren't hurt - although I did wish she had a romantic interest in me). If you had accepted his offer, he would have wondered if it was because he was your friend and you were cold or if it was because you were romantically interested in him or both. So he wouldn't have an answer. By declining his offer, though, you gave him a crystal clear answer....."I'm not interested. I'm so not interested I'd rather be cold".
Have a nice day.
2007-10-17 12:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he was just being nice the whole huge jacket/boyfriend thing is a little overexaggerated a guy should be a gentlemen and offer a girl his jacket when shes cold...thats just the right thing to do...if ur cold take his jacket and if u like him tell him take chances
2007-10-17 12:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 10:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by rosalee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you dont have to read that much into things. if you were shivering or hugging yourself or had your hands stuffed in your pockets to keep warm, then (my opinion, weigh it as you will) he was probably just trying to be gracious. chivalry is not totally dead you know.
i did not mean to kill all hopes you may have, it could be though that he was offering b/c he felt the same way, but the less you read into the small things, the more apparent the big things seem AND the less crazy you will be b/c you are not trying to decipher all of these tiny little things.
2007-10-17 12:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my boyfriend of 6 years offered me his jacket when we were "just friends"...
2007-10-17 12:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Carrot Tan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy that'll give you the shirt off his back in the cold isn't being "nice", he genuinely cares!
2007-10-17 12:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you! He might feel rejected.... but im not possitive! If you really like him, you should say somthing...you never know...he could really like you and feel like he just got dissed.... Maybe you should ask him about it. Ask him if he likes you. How he felt when you said no.
And If you dont like him all that much, just say it to him.
I hope I helped!
2007-10-17 12:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww he likes you, if you like him too go for him!
2007-10-17 12:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by a person whos cool like that 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋