Now my ex boyfriend hes a sociopath and he decided to break up with me today, a day before our one year aniversary. He broke up with me cause i was gone from my house for about 20 mins to get a new cellphone cause it wasn't working. He said that he drove by my house and didn't see my car and i told him where i went and he said that he was going to go down there and see but he didn't. So instead he decides to break up with me and accuse me. He said that i'm the only girl hes ever loved which is bull cause sociopaths can't love and i knew he truely didn't love me from the start buy the away he would verbally abuse me. But the question is, since he broke up with me and hes a sociopath do i have to worry? Cause i heard there very dangerous people which he is....nuts!!! Or shouldn't worry about him coming around anymore cause he broke up with me and i thought sociopaths hate when you break up with them and thats the time to worry. Please let me know thanks.
2007-10-17 12:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by lovebird2009 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I isn't your boyfriend's job to keep track of you every second and freak out if you aren't at home for a few minutes. It sounds like your boyfriend is a total psyco and has control issues. Do not take him back, move on and be glad you found out before you got married. I don't know if he is "dangerous" or not; try to avoid contact with him if he has keys to your house get the locks changed ASAP. You might even have to get your phone number changed. I suggest you procure some pepper spray just in case!
2007-10-17 12:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking Up With A Sociopath
2016-10-04 05:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by golden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read about a 3rd of what you wrote and I found myself wondering why the hell you would be with a sociopath to begin with? Trust me you are better off sociopath have no conscience and they have many capacities don't find out the hard way let him go....and from the bit extra I have just read he has control issues #1 RED FLAG! Be glad he is leaving because there is a chance otherwise your only way out could end up being a body bag!
2007-10-17 12:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by TootsiePop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he diagnosed a sociopath? The fact that he broke up with you is good and unless he trys to renew the relationship, you are off the hook. Just keep it cool and don't provoke him or you could be asking for trouble. Be glad you are out and don't look back. Flee is the key.
2007-10-17 12:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My opinion could be to take his skill away and confront him with "backup" hiding interior reach and use ANY skill necessary to make him leave her on my own. What she will do is get a restraining order, which truly, won't do something. could even make him mad adequate to come back after her. Restraining orders do no longer deter everyone. Sorry, even though it relatively is in basic terms a noticeably pointless situation. you're speaking approximately somebody (him) who isn't appropriate in the pinnacle. If he cared approximately going to penal complex for an afternoon, he could of left her on my own a protracted time in the past. She might desire to get an aswering gadget and not answer the telephone. if she's chatting with him, even to tell him to leave her on my own, it truly is rationalization for him to maintain bugging her She might desire to get a enable to hold a hid weapon and someway enable him be attentive to she is armed and is no longer afraid to apply it. minimum, carry a extensive knife. element is, to no longer be a sufferer waiting for this guy to strike. The cat and mouse pastime is only that, cat and mouse. So, while the mouse turns the tables and spies on the cat?....and makes use of a video digicam to record his each and every pass (each and every time he's close to her) it truly is a solid thank you to enable him be attentive to that she's observing him and it relatively is solid documentation for the police. i could enable anybody in her construction be attentive to roughly him. i could placed up his photograph everywhere....enable human beings be attentive to his face. i could tell anybody at paintings and placed up his photograph there too if conceivable. the element is....he gets skill over her if she shall we him. He needs to regulate her. yet while she's waiting to teach this around and make it a soreness for him to be bothering her. He can end. She could attempt to forget approximately approximately him, yet which could backfire. I choose the confrontational type with something like this. I hate stalkers. The LEAST she might desire to do is carry A VIDEO digicam and element it at him each and every time she sees him. Then she will placed up it on youtube and enable the worldwide be attentive to roughly this nut. The greater people who be attentive to roughly him, the fewer he can hide and watch her in secret and the fewer he gets his jollies approximately doing this. = he will bypass away on his own. and he or she's have been given documentation that he's bugging her.
2016-10-13 00:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said he's a sociopath...why were you dating him?
it kind of sounds like you're a little nuts too.
2007-10-17 12:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
how do u know hes a sociopath??
2007-10-17 12:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by lost_in_afantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oyur bf has some serious issues. Stay away from him.
2007-10-17 12:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋