A while ago he was myspace scouting for women to have se with and I confronted him. So he has just recently started talking back to her.
2007-10-17 14:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by christina r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I keep thinking in the back of my mind that this cannot be hapening to me. About 2 yaers ago I was 6 months pregnaant with our 5th child a woman called my job and said she was sleeping with my husband when I asked him about it he swore that he didn' have anyting to do with it. I stayed with him anyway. I am so tires of not knowing a definite anwer.
2007-10-17 14:43:31 · update #1
I am sorry but your husband is out of line here and disrespecting you big time! You work outside the home and have 5 children and this man has time to be on myspace emotionally cheating on you with other women what the hell is wrong with this? This is only my oppinion here and suggestion but I would take a dam hammer to the computer and if I recieved anymore phone calls from strange women at work.....I would take the dam hammer to his head!!!!! I would give him one big ultimatum here and that is..... He is out and can pay the child support for 5 children and live in a gutter for all I would care. Do not let this man treat you this way and turn on him like a bull in a china shop! He is setting himself up to hurt you and this family so don't even let him go there. He is doing you wrong sweetie and you deserve for him to be better than that. You buck up on him like a bull here and tell yourself ..HELL NO and I MEAN HELL NO!!!! He would not treat me like this with 5 children to raise and have to put up with him acting single. If he wants to be single thats fine ...then he can talk and date anyone he likes on a budget romancing with them out to dinner at BURGER KING!!!!
2007-10-17 15:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe so, maybe not. Perhaps before you take any drastic action, you and he should see a therapist? It could be he feels you are not compatiable in the bedroom, and needs to find it elsewhere. Furthermore, it could be b/c he's lonely. Before your confrontation, you may have inadvertantly (Yes...it can be YOUR fault) pushed him away in some manner over something he feels ashamed about (finances, work, family troubles, health issues) and he needs someone who is more sympathetic towards him. I know you are his wife, and are supposed to be sympathetic, but maybe he does not feel you are sympathetic or understanding of him. After all, you are suspecting him of infidelity at this moment, so he is already in the hot seat with you. Its amazing how cold you can be without noticing it, until its too late. Try to loosen up.
2007-10-17 14:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by John L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is ironic because I just asked a similar question and its easier answering it for someone else. If he hasnt cheated yet hes thinking about it. I know its hard when you have kids but you got to tell yourself you are better than that. Heres something you can do. Google free keylogger and put it on your computer you can monitor what he does. It will give you the answers.
2007-10-17 16:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~The doctors Wife~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate Myspace because of reasons as such. But if he was scouting for women then that's a big 10-4.
2007-10-17 14:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by helpful one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time for him to go. But remember this, he has probably filled this woman full of lies and such, and once she or other women find out how many children he has, and has to support, they will have nothing ot do with him. But first you need to get proof of his infidelity, by securing a private detective, they can also get information off the computers hard drive of every conversation that he has had. Get as much proof as you can b4 telling him to get out. IF your state allows it, you can not only get child support, but alimony as well......this should teach him to keep his you know what in his pants, and other women from wanting to have anything to do with him, once they find out that he has no money to spend on them.
2007-10-17 15:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds so much like the beginning of the end of my marriage. Phone calls and all. Myspace needs to go. If he wants to prove to you he is faithful, then he won't mind giving up the computer and cell phone (text messages).
2007-10-17 21:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice that you refer to him as your husband...by now he should be your EX! Yes he is going to cheat, he found this woman while scouting for people to have sex with!
2007-10-17 14:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a divorce is in the near future, no one deserves a man like that.
2007-10-17 14:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think ur husband is cheating on u... and u better confornt him head on and ask him that u know everything and that there's nothing to deny... its best to talk to him immediately otherwise.. it might turn worst instead for the better.. talk to him... ask him whats wrong with ur relationship...
2007-10-17 14:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by skeptic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it most likely he is. Did he tell you he was talking to this woman? If not and you caught him I call that cheating.
2007-10-17 15:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by s f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋