Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

I want to move out of CA because it's too expensive, etc. I want to move to Arkansas and she knows people that will give me a job... but she refuses to do anything or help me out. She is always like this. What can I do? Maybe I can ask my aunt for help? I don't want to stay with her. I want to be on my own, but I do not know anyone and I think that's the best way to get a job from word of mouth!

2007-10-17 16:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by creep show 1 in Family

Fact One: Boyfriend is MISERABLE when his 17 year old is mad at him and makes me her "bestest pal" and is OK when she's mad at me and he's her "bestest friend ever"
I think today may have been the last straw, I left her a note on the frige asking her not to eat my lunches for work, and she left me one in return (a not nice one) and taped a Midol to it.
Shes NEVER home for me to let her know what is in there for my lunch, so how else but a note am I supposed to tell her?
So today,while visting his sister he told her that I left her a note with a Midol taped to it!!!!
I can't take the flip flopping anymore! He says that he's told her that she needs to try to get along with me, but I'm tired of her treating me like crap, and then never apologizing, and expecting me to be nice to her!

2007-10-17 15:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by screaminginside75 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Help I do not think I am gay!!? ok here is the deal! naked guys do not turn me on but naked girls do.
The first time I when to a ladies only club the guys there did not turn me on so for my bf Dday i took him to a guys strip club and not only was a big tun on for both I like it better than the girls one. Same when we watch porn I like to see at the girl better than the guy.I love dick for sure but i do not see my self with a girl they just get me horny? What the hell is wrong with me?? any advice????

2007-10-17 15:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by LA_Stang_CHIDALGO 2 in Singles & Dating

He got really mad when he knew that his parents knew, in about 20 seconds he called the police, took the sim card out of his cell phone, went into his room and got all of his money, and went outside to wait on the police. He was high then. What had happened was that my dad was making a statement, not literal, but he said, " If you bring drugs into this house again, i might have to kill you." That's when he freaked out. He has gotten in trouble before and we have taken him to at least a hundred Narcotics Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous meetings. Yet he still hasn't changed. We won't pay his bond because we think that the drugs will take control of him and he might do something he will regret doing. BTW, the drugs were some kind of pills and pot.

2007-10-17 15:57:42 · 5 answers · asked by UhOhKid 1 in Family

if you are on early college classes and really good in school, and a guy you like is just regular.....would you still like him????

2007-10-17 15:57:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so im friends with this guy. I guess you could say we're turning into more of friends with benefits..because we like each other. I have no idea how anyone would know this, but he was going to come over to my house and hang out or w/e. i didnt tell ANYONE that, but like a few days later jon said like 10 ppl came up to him and asked "are you going to screw sam" and he was like no, thats not true?? (which is good he said that, because we dont want to look like whores) why do people concern themselves with others bunsiness?cant guys and girls just be freinds without being talked about? But, my question is, How can i get people to stop asking and thinkin that we are ganna have sex? and How would they even come up with the idea that we were?

2007-10-17 15:55:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I ran away from my Dad who was abusing me and I have nowhere to go and I have no support is there any where I can go for a week or two?

2007-10-17 15:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by Angel eyes 2 in Family

Okay so recently my mom and I have been fighting more often, usually at the end of the day. We've always fought about trivial things, but I've been noticing a certain coldness to her voice now. Am I imagining it due to getting older, or does she really hold a sort of watered-down contempt for me?

2007-10-17 15:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by rbw_cynical 2 in Family

anyone?
i know he should but hes kinda shy..

2007-10-17 15:51:11 · 4 answers · asked by LuvaYuu♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I look pretty good. People always say I'm very handsome. I never had any girlfriends because at school I never talk to them because I don't like to talk. Can this be a turn off? If someone doesn't talk does it seem like they seem to arrogant and come off as a snob sometimes?

2007-10-17 15:49:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-17 15:49:10 · 7 answers · asked by bn 1 in Singles & Dating

touch your leg

is that flirting

how often does this happen in flirting situations

2007-10-17 15:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by Rickkkkay 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl in my music class that I have noticed but have started to see that she was pretty. Ok last week in class she gave me kinda long eye contact, she kinda had like a soft look with a TINY smile on her face. She was talking to another guy and she kept on looking back at me when she was talking to him. She did it twice. Yesterday I was going to the parklot and she appeared out of nowhere. I don't think she noticed me but I wanted to talk to her, but I was scared. Today however in class she glanced at me and we left class around the same time however when she held the door open she didn't pay me any attention, like i didn't exist, she glanced over her shoulder at me."

2007-10-17 15:47:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i'm in college. In my last class i was talking to this girl "Lee".. Just normal school stuff and then she asked about my major and i asked her...Well the class before this was a lab class, which she wasnt there and she got placed in my group (we had this little conversation after that). Well she wanted to copy the data from the lab but she said she'll just get it next class, which would be tommorrow (i made a copy of it tho), but she gave me her email address cause i had to get a calculation for something but she really donesnt need that info yet cause of the stuff she has to copy.. I emailed her but kept it simple and just about what the lab in class was like.. she didnt email me and its been a few days.. so is there a way to tell if she likes me??
i hope this didnt sound to confusing..

2007-10-17 15:46:55 · 3 answers · asked by twiztid642 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so if a guy likes you, sometimes they act like they don't like you. Its really confusing. Like this one guy was like offending me every day, and then told me he really likes me and want to go out with me, its like what?! Its pretty stupid, no girls are gonna go for guys who annoy them. Why do they do this?!

2007-10-17 15:46:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated a guy for about a month after which i broke off with him. I told him that i wasn't ready for a relationship yet to spare his feelings but the reason i called it off was that he was moving too fast fo me. He told me he really like me alot and started to talk about living together and futur children. We decided to remain friends. This way i could get to know him better without the sexual tension. We saw each other at work almost everyday but about 1 month ago he started to behave weirdly. One minute he so friendly and the other he is so dry. Sometimes he laughs and complements my outfits and the other he passes by me with a quick hello. He hardly calls me and just the other he rings me to ask a favor to go with him to this place that he won a prize for something. He always give that glance that he is still interested in me but he never makes the effort to make a move or try to find out what the problem was between us or try to make things work especially if he still like

2007-10-17 15:46:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A long time ago, a close friend asked me to promise that I'd tell her if I was ever thinking about hurting myself. We got in a fight last week and I spent the weekend wanting to kill myself. I haven't said anything to her, and don't know if I should because she's going to feel like its her fault.
From my current point of view, there's nothing to be gained by telling her, and she's going to feel horrible about it if she knows. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she finds out later, she'll both feel guilty about it and be hurt that I didn't tell her.

2007-10-17 15:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you as a wife find it disturbing knowing your husband "plays alone"?

2007-10-17 15:40:00 · 17 answers · asked by jim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. I really like him. He’s on my soccer team, one of two guys. Everyone in school hates him and they make fun of him lots.
I know he’s depressed. He makes comments about killing himself and just going away and giving it all up. And I don’t know what to do. Should I tell him something? I was depressed last year and I know alone I felt. But I can’t even really be nice to him cause he broke up with one of my close friends who still kinda likes him.
And what he did to her was wrong. Because he broke up with her the day after they, you know.
So, I have no idea what to do because I really like but I hate him. And I’m worried about him if he is depressed. And I wanna be really nice but I’m trying to help Kelly through this too cause she’s not over him. And I have to pretend I don’t stare at him the way she does understand exactly how she feels.
I wish I could just be really nice to him cause that’s what he needs, but she gives me a dirty look if I smile at him.

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2007-10-17 15:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by xf in a :)x[ 4 in Singles & Dating

Lately i feel like my brother has been a total dick to me. As weird as it may sound, its mainly because i like working out and take pride in how well i can box and cardio etc. but my brother being 29 while i am 17 is really starting to brag about how well he is doing, like he is doing a lot better in boxing n stuff than i am, and that got me down enough, but now he started gloating about it. This has really gotten me down cuz its really all i can think of right now, and the day after tommorow im supposed to work out with him but i dont kno what im gonna do, im really upset with him...me and him always had a close relationship, which is hard to have with an older brother at my age especially, and now this is starting to really annoy me and i can see it making us drift away. Any thought on what i should do would be greatly appreciated

2007-10-17 15:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPYMANFROMRAMADAN 1 in Family

It's easy to find places online, but you don't know until you see it. Anybody have any suggestions?

2007-10-17 15:37:53 · 9 answers · asked by cfuchs05 1 in Weddings

If you were a junior, maybe senior, would you date a sophomore?

2007-10-17 15:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said oh i took it and i asked her for it and she said i spent it so i got mad and started yelling at her cause i have to go to the store to get school supplies for a prodject and now my dad wont take me to the store do u ppl think this is fair

2007-10-17 15:36:54 · 6 answers · asked by theluvanumbaonfan 1 in Family

If you have a bff or a really close friend and you give them a hug. guys think that your all lesbien or sumthin. or like if you call another girl hun, or sweety, and when they say they love each other like in an e-mail. guys think that is lesbien. i know for one i am not a lesbien but i do give my friends that are girls hugs and stuff and sum guys take it the wrong way!!! why??

thats all i want to know is why!?!?!?!?!


and no offence to any of you girls that are like that cause i'm not tryin to be like that. one of my bff's is one so i can't hate on some one like that.

~!*Lita Boo*!~

P.S. Love Ya!

2007-10-17 15:35:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my phys. ed instructor in college is kinda mean to me I would say. I play racquetball and there are 4 ppl in my class including me and I am the only girl. Anyways, he will ONLY tell me and whoever the person I am playing, that whoever loses the game has to give him pushups. Well he never tells the the other 2 guys in the class that. He is always on my butt about stuff and says I am being lazy about how I play.Yesterday, he was playing a guy and so I watched to get some tips, and he came out of the court and said he didnt call time out and I needed to go play my classmate, but the guy he was playing TOLD me to come watch. I dont know.. he just always picks on me and some ppl say he treats me like that becuz he might have a little crush on me. I cant really tell though..he just says stuff to me and will sometimes smile afterwards..like when he told me I owed him some pushups if I lost the game. Oh yea I asked him why he always picks on me and he someone has to keep me in line.

2007-10-17 15:34:45 · 3 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Friends

2007-10-17 15:32:00 · 35 answers · asked by CUQUIS 1 in Weddings

it stared with the dance and i was going with my freind Travis as freinds we wre going out side he was talking to me next thing i no were freanching then a guy comes around the corner and the whole school finds out the next day HELP!!!!

2007-10-17 15:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Ginny 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is difficult. He needs psychotherapy really badly, but he doesn't believe in it. I do not speak to him. My sister does not, nor does my niece. This has been going on for nearly 20 years. We've each experienced different things that caused this. He's an angry control freak with obsessive compulstive disorder and possible psychosis. My parents backed him all along even tho he until recently got angry with our mother after the last family gathering she hosted. Because he's difficult and my niece refuses to go to small gatherings he attends, my mother chose my niece over him to invite. My sister and I have no problem being in the same room with him. My mother made a poor choice and now her son refuses to speak to her. She has apologized and admitted she's wrong. My Dad has talked to him and asked him to seek help. He won't budge. My father wants my niece, my sister and me to email him and tell him to get help. I'll do that, but I don't think it will help. Then what to do?

2007-10-17 15:28:23 · 6 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2 in Family

wasn't answering his cell phone at close to 10PM. He left for work at 6AM & he always answers his phone unless he's at the bar when he's not supposed to be nor has he checked in with you all day. I called the 2 bars that he usually hangs out at, but they said he wasn't there & we haven't been getting along the greatest lately! In fact, we hardly speak, see or touch each other anymore! He works sooooo much & his days off are spent shooting pool w/ friends & napping! I know I should trust him, but I can't help wonder.....

2007-10-17 15:27:30 · 31 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

please voilate this question and see if it gets back to me, please! thanks!(oh and i love how this ends up in the dating category, still something to laugh at, for me, I need brownie bad!)

2007-10-17 15:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating