I like this guy. I really like him. He’s on my soccer team, one of two guys. Everyone in school hates him and they make fun of him lots.
I know he’s depressed. He makes comments about killing himself and just going away and giving it all up. And I don’t know what to do. Should I tell him something? I was depressed last year and I know alone I felt. But I can’t even really be nice to him cause he broke up with one of my close friends who still kinda likes him.
And what he did to her was wrong. Because he broke up with her the day after they, you know.
So, I have no idea what to do because I really like but I hate him. And I’m worried about him if he is depressed. And I wanna be really nice but I’m trying to help Kelly through this too cause she’s not over him. And I have to pretend I don’t stare at him the way she does understand exactly how she feels.
I wish I could just be really nice to him cause that’s what he needs, but she gives me a dirty look if I smile at him.
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2007-10-17 15:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by xf in a :)x[ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And normally I would totally agree.
I have always put my freinds before guys cause most guys are jerks.
i'm so confused.
2007-10-17 15:44:49 · update #1
If he ever put me in that kind of situation, I would slap off his freaking face.
I'm not that kind of girl.
But when he's alone, he's not sucha jerk and he's really sweet and sensitive though he would kill if i told him that
And I know he was using Kelly which hurts even more
2007-10-17 15:46:43 · update #2
And I know everyon will probably say o well just get over him and I ve tried and I thought i was until he said something that made me remember why i liked him.
And I fell for him again.
Ive tried hateing him too but that doesn't work causwe I do hate him. But I dont.
make sense whatsoever?
2007-10-17 15:50:01 · update #3
If this person gives things away, or have a method for suicide in mind - THEN worry.
It's a tough situation, I'm sorry I don't have more, but you're a good person for trying.
Write me if you want to talk.
2007-10-17 15:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god. Never like or date an ex of a friend. You have to think are you willing to scarfice your freindship with Kelly (Off topic : Ironic becuz that is my name too Yay!!). Most probably that is what will happen if you two end up going out. Is he that worth it? Besides he dumped the poor girl the day after? How good of a guy can he really be for you? You deserve better find yourself another guy. Trust me. Just be his friend if your concerned a/b him being sucidel.
2007-10-17 15:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by JJNYC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 00:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He is acting the way he is to get laid. You friend is proof of that. He is using the sympathy factor so he can get some. Don't let him mess up your life like he did with your friend.
2007-10-17 15:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by ihatelilac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a couple more days.
then let him know you're their for him.
ive been through this before.
it was sooo much stress on me i went for cutting
its probably gonna be a love hate relationship
2007-10-17 15:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by ihaveissues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoes before bros.
It's not worth it to lose a friend over a guy.
2007-10-17 15:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋