Do you as a wife find it disturbing knowing your husband "plays alone"?
2007-10-17 15:40:00 · 17 answers · asked by jim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heck, no. They do it because it's a "different" feeling and because they like to and they can. It's kind of exciting to think about, not to mention helping the situation when I get the chance!
2007-10-17 15:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not find it disturbing at all. There are times when I am not in the mood or otherwise unable (when aunt flo comes to town), and there are time when I want to and he doesn't, so we take care of ourselves. Also, I like to shower and play alone before we are intimate, to kind of warm up, he does the same earlier in the day so that he can last longer for me :) Hope this helps.
2007-10-17 16:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by shannanm2783 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that all depends, is he "playing alone" INSTEAD of taking time to "Play as a team"? If so, then yes, my feelings would be hurt. However, my husband works long shifts(rotating-sometimes days, sometimes nights), and we have 2 children (7y & 10y). It's sometimes hard to find that time together, in which case, if he NEEDS to play alone so be it. Regardless of what they say, most women do it too!
And as a couple of others here have said...I like the idea of getting to watch, that can be very stimulating!
2007-10-17 15:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by txmom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the best I ever had... my wife LOVES to watch and join in and also let me watch... seems to be very healthy for the marriage, and feed the appetite of the matrimony... I think it is one of the best ways to be completely open and trusting with each other, and is usually missing from marriages that don't work out.
2007-10-17 16:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , I don't because men "play" for more reasons then just wanting sex. Some do it because they feel a self controll over thier body, it relaxes them, helps them sleep, or just a way of taking out fustration. It a natural part of being human.
2007-10-17 15:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No (lol) .....he's know his penis longer than he has me! They've had a long and lovely relationship together...
He doesn't find it disturbing to know that I play alone as well.
2007-10-17 15:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me if I'm not there and he has an.......urge. But if I'm in the house and he does.....It bums me out a bit because I would like to join in on the ......playing.
2007-10-17 16:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't mind. Why would I? I "play alone" and we "play together".
2007-10-17 15:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sundays Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it just shows he has a healthy appetite! I also find it stimulating, to know he is playing (as long as he tells me he is thinking of me!)
2007-10-17 15:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask him to play in front of me. I find it hot. I know he thinks about me when he does it. :)
2007-10-17 15:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋