my boyfriend broke up with me today.
out of no were.
we were doing perfectly fine today, just normal as always until when i got home from school, he texted me saying we dont belong together, and we should break up. he showed no sighns he was going to break up, i dont know what to do! i mean, he was hanging with his friends when he broke up with me.. was it because of them? do you think he would take me back? tell me what i should do about it...
2007-10-17 15:19:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if he would take you back, would you want him back? Chances are, it will probably happen again. Especially if he knows you will be there when he is ready. Normally, I don't offer adult insight into a teen relationship. My advice is to go about your life (in front of him) like it doesn't bother you at all. It will let him know that the world doesn't revolve around him. At least, in your eyes. The easiest way to tug at a guys heart strings is to let him know he's not the only one out there.
2007-10-17 15:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first I am sorry for what you may be feeling due to the breakup.However ,it was tacky to text a breakup to you,it shows a man without class or feelings or decency.I do not think his friends had anything to do with it---did they tell him to end it the way he did,did they tell him not to give you a reason or an explanation for breaking up since you guys had no known problems? Even if he later on wants to come back to you, please show him the door and wish him the best.Then find your self a guy who will love only you ,care about you, support you.and consider you the salt of the earth.
2007-10-17 22:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's shallow and not deserving of your companionship there girl. If I were you and he came up to you tomorrow and asked to get back togeather I'de say " No way in the world" There are a lot of nice guys out there, and he seems to not be one of them. If he had any concern for your feelings whatsoever, he wouldn't break up with you on a dime. It's odvious that he has no concern for your feeling at all, so I highly recommend just moving on and not even thinking about taking him back.
2007-10-17 22:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by pK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as nothing is certain as to why did he broke up so i can't suggest anything to 100%
but try n find out as to why did he broke up wth u
n if the reason is genuine
then i prefer moving on
as life never stops
n if he comes back to u
then do what ur heart says but at the same time don't forget ur brain n eyes
2007-10-17 22:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by lifeisfrndship 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
If he didnt even have the guts to tell you face to face, he isnt worth your time.
His friends probably had something to do with it, but the best thing for you to do is move on, and live your life
2007-10-17 22:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by ~LaurenRose~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jordan, you probably don't want to hear that there are plenty of other guys out there, but it's true.
Move on from this guy. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you, and you don't need someone who will treat you so carelessly.
2007-10-17 22:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by michnjonaustin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke up with you by texting to do then he's not man of nuff for you.
2007-10-17 22:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with his best friend
2007-10-17 22:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by mrdanno2003 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what a jerk!! forget about him and move on!!
2007-10-17 22:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋