Okay so my boyfriend,son's father, crashed his car about a month and a half ago and I happened to lose my job around the same time.So everyday I would pick him up and drop him off at work. We were not living together before and he would come over about once or twice during the week and sometimes stay on the weekends. Well since the accident he had been staying at my house almost every night. I would drop him off at work pick him up and do the same almost everyday. Occasionally he would want to stay one or two nights at his own house(his moms). Well that's the background...here is the problem or maybe it's not. He got a car last week and he didn't come over on Monday and didn't hardly talk to me all day either, Tuesday he didn't come over, Today Wed. he said he would come over and then at about 7:30 pm I called and asked him where he was and he said he wasn't coming and was going to his boys house. I was like I told u this was going to happen and he said I was overreacting...hold on..
2007-10-17 15:06:59 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So he said I was overreacting and I told him no I'm not...it's true now he's not coming around cuz he had all that help from me and now he doesn't need it. He said I was physco and needed to calm down cuz it's only been two days cuz I saw him on Sunday actually for like 5 min on Monday morn. So what do you think feel free to ask question...I need help...grrrr.
2007-10-17 15:08:28 · update #1
Just for your background it's not like this is a short term relationship or anything we have been off and on for the last 5 years.
2007-10-17 15:12:30 · update #2
3 words.bye bye loser.he got you good.i would'nt waste anymore time on him.he obviously does'nt care about how he treated you,he does'nt even want to spend anytime with you.if you truly had a solvent relationship with him he would be standing by you watching your back the way you took care of him.put him on your list of someone you use to know.
2007-10-17 15:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by CHER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I understand this right he is your boyfriend but also your sons father so you got to deal with him no matter what I say give it a little bit of time back off don't act like you need him around which means do not call him let him call you. And next time he needs your help don't do it . No you are not over reacting
2007-10-17 22:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by MEMYMOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he veer used you like this before because if he has the obviously hes using you but if this was the first time and you two have been together for 5 years i doubt it. it sounds like the last few weeks that he didnt have his car he was with you 24/7 so of course hes going to hang out with his friends and catch up with them. but if he continually acts like this then its a problem
2007-10-21 21:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think ur overreacting i mean come on he WAS acting like he was using you before and now not even coming over..so that's perfectly normal!!
2007-10-17 22:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by wonderer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used you ..n now he's done until he needs you again....
2007-10-17 22:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋