Okay well my older brother is dating my best friend. and i my mom hates it. so i dont wanna it to ruin my friendship w/ my best friend. i think they should hide it. but they dont want too. they really do love each other. and i know they do. they wanna be able to be open w/ it in the family. like we can all go on family trips together w/ my other brother is girlfriend and me and my boyfriend. and my mom and dad.so he dont wanna hide. but my brother is a momma boy. and stuff. so he cant lie.but my mom is all mad when my best friend comes over and dont wnat her over all the time. but my mom loves her. till her and my brother fell in love.
we really need ur ideas and ur help. thank you so much!!
2007-10-17 19:27:50 · 14 answers · asked by loveyalots_2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is something that i remember:
Love your SISTER not her FRIEND
Love your FRIEND not his SISTER
2007-10-17 19:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by WILLS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said they're in love. Aren't you glad? You must not be judgmental & must not get in their way. Same thing goes to your mom, too. Think more of the pros instead of preoccupying your thoughts with the cons. Be an angel & be careful of what you wish.
2007-10-17 20:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by zynjen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i be attentive to this could sound like a cliche yet, You Dont be attentive to What Love Is, sorry yet at your age the affection has a tendency to be puzzled with infatuation. My advise could be to stand back and seem at your relationship with him in a independent stance. do no longer see him a potential BF yet as a replace as a perfect pal, somebody who you could relatively share your likes and dislikes with. If he could be your perfect pal he could be a solid boyfriend, attempt to be solid pals with him first... perhaps you will see him in a various mild? solid success, Rob
2016-10-13 01:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bridge between ur mom and ur bfriend...talk to your mom abt it, then ask her why she doesnt approve of her...remind her how she loved her before, when she was only your bestfriend and not your bro's gf.. she must learn to open up and accept that these things happen.. shouldnt she be glad that your bro ended up with your bestfriend? at least you already know her character and you know she wont cheat on him...
2007-10-17 22:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom doesn't like it without a good reason and either one isn't landing in jail because of the relationship, then that's her problem.
Not yours.
2007-10-17 20:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Doesntstayinvegas.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are grown adults nothing anybody can say will stop them really, so it's best to let it go and just be there for them.
2007-10-17 20:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay out of it.
your taking a chance of losing your brother and best friend if you get in the middle of it.
good luck and take care :)
2007-10-17 22:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by ash<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur mom's the one with the prob (no offense), not u, your bff, or ur bro... talk to her yourself as a third party member to try to keep the peace...
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2007-10-17 19:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by djdanger92 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will be attracted to who they are attracted to, and it is Gods business, nobody else, need judge.
2007-10-17 20:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Astro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it.
Wish your friend and your brother well, but stay out of it.
2007-10-17 19:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋