i need help!?

Question

this all started around march when i noticed my girlfriend txting her friend alot (a guy) so one night i he sent her a txt when we where asleep from him saying talk dirty to me.... she swore she never did but i had feelings saying otherwise... she has lied to me b4 about small things and i think if she would lie to me about small things i think she would lie about anything.... well just a few weeks ago i found another txt on her phone from a diff guy saying: nice tit pic i want both nxt time.. and i adressed it to her and again i had a feeling she was lieing. im really confused and the more i type and think about the occurences the more likely it seems she is cheating on me. what is your opinion? and how should i adress this issue with her withought breaking up with her... i just want the truth

and also i know being able to trust one another is a huge issue. but since i know she has lied to me about numerous things could she ever gain that trust back... i know it really depends on me, but has it ever happened?

Answer 1

She may be only txt cheating and not really hooking up but it might lead to her getting together with another guy if it keeps up.

Answer 2

If you know that she is cheating and stay there, then you get what you deserve. She seems to be awful busy talking to other guys, so there is something missing in your relationship already. She is looking for something else while still stringing you along. If you think you deserve that kind of treatment, life with a ho and insecurity about your future then stay where you are. Good luck

Answer 3

i'd not suggest you to have a talk with her. because i think she'll again lie to you. she's never going to give you the right information. what you already know is enough. i don't understand why do you still don't want to break up with her? of course she's cheating on you. so you want to be with a cheater? she has cheated before, still cheating...and i think, will continue cheating in future. however, its your choice. but i think, the best way is to dump her and go for another, who's at least better than a cheater.

Answer 4

I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are in high school don't get too serious into relationships. It is hardly worth the time you put into it. I know from experience.

If she talks dirty to other guys and show them pictures, that's just the kind of person she is.
Don't try to change her because you won't, simply move on. Because you sound more serious about this than she is

Answer 5

Okay, Chances are is that if you are finding texts on your girls phone that says "Nice Tit Pic" then she is definantly talking to other guys. Doesnt neccassarily mean she is cheating. I am willing to bet that she is thinking about cheating if she has not already. As far as you addressing it without breaking up with her well thats going to be hard. Take it from a female when we get caught we get mad and we get smarter. This means she is going to get mad that your going through her phone and if she is lying about it then she will get very defensive. Then she will realize that she needs to be smarter about it and delete the texts before you see them. Honestly if she is lying to you and texting other guys why do you want to be with her?

Answer 6

you dont wanna face the fact that she needs attention from other men. You know that if she's not cheating, she will be soon. She already has the guys lined up.
If you don't wanna break up with her, you'll have to accept her the way she is.

Don't try to change her, that'll never happen.

Answer 7

if you want the truth i don't think you're going to get it from her....and you already know it don't you? dump this little wh*ore and find someone who is going to treat you with a little respect and not turn on and talk dirty to anyone and everyone she can......and you are soooo right.....if she's going to lie about the little things then there going to be no problem for her to lie to you about all the guys she's probably already banging......dump the wh*ore and get on with your life.....you probably deserve better

Answer 8

ok, if you think she is cheating on you, then why do you want her? And if you do not trust her why do you want her? Ask her why she is texting so much to these guys. how long have you two been together?

Answer 9

just tell her u want the truth, tell her that if she wants to date other guys or mess with them, break up with u first, cause truthfully, i think that when ur in a relationship, loyalty is very important.