Bestfriend?

Question

The last month or so, my 'bestfriend' who ive been bestfriends with for the past 6 years has been getting so ugh.
if i post a bulletin on myspace or something saying im upset or mad or not in a good mood or something she finds a way to make my life even worse!! Even if shes not intentionally doing it! Like okay im like overly stressed and i posted a bulletin about it and i cursed a few times and explained people only to hit me up to cheer me up. So then like 5 minutes later i get a aim from her saying "You curse too much and its not too cute boo". I know it seems stupid but that just ticked me off! and last week i had a bad day and she kept being sooooo obnoxious and random on aim omgg and she was definately purposely doing it! And then when i try to say something about it she gets overly self defencive! help please :]

Answer 1

just ignore her for a bit. stay away and avoid her. run if you have to.

then talk to her and tell her what you think of her.

then kill her if you're good at covering your tracks.

xoxo

hope that helps, sweeetie.

by the way, 'punctuation could be better' (lol-im acting as your friend')

Answer 2

That doesn't sound like a friend to me.

There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.

Answer 3

i have had friends like that -- its so annoying!! about the best advice i can offer is just do your best to stay away from her just for a few days or a week. not saying totally ignore her cause that will just cause problems but you know what i mean, dont sign on aim, or try not to talk on the phone much, etc, just cut your contact where you can, sometimes u just need a break! :) this usually helps me.

Answer 4

i can feel how you feel because i had one friend.I think she is really kind and not said anything that is bad and not truth about me.when i know that she said something bad and something that not truth about me.i just ignore her and not talk with her.After a few day she ask me some questions i just answer the questions that i want to answer.Then she feel bored with me and feel angry with me.after a few month she come to me and said sorry because make me feel hurt and said something that not truth about me.she know that it was her fault.thats why she come and says sorry to me.so you just do like me or follow what your heart says.I believe that your friend will come to you and says sorry if not.your friend is someone that not know what means a bestfriend.oneday she will feel regret because not says sorry to you and not appreciate you as her bestfriend.so,good luck for you...=>

Answer 5

the best way to get..her is to tell her my parking lot is full and i have no time to let ure nagative rent space in it or laugh and say ya ok ure cute. lol ha ha ha