She's 35, I'm 22) I had a older woman friend come over for the second time last night, and while I wasn't shocked, I was alittle surprised by her words and her actions. Now, that I got too know her I don't want any part of her, and most likely will never see or speak too her again( she's a family friend) But are conversation was weird because she started talking about having SEX with a 20 yr old in Mexico and how she has a 21 yr old and a 23 yr old right now... So, I know that her having 2 other dudes is gross, but i want to know WOULD YOU GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE? She even said she likes guys to TAKE CONTROL. I didn't. She was looking for candy and saw that I only had Breath Mints...IS THAT A SIGN? SHOULD I HAVE JUST KISSED HER? she did say NO. I really don't understand. Am I in the FRIEND ZONE?
2007-10-17 18:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Yes, she was leading you on. (Cause I know you're feeling slighted)
2. She said "no" because she was "supposed to". She wants you to be the one to look bad if your family finds out.
3. She's dirr-ty dude! Sta hay awa hay! Do ya need to go back to sex ed????
Hope that helps.
2007-10-17 19:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jellicle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hunny, take pass on that and move on to someone your own age. She obviously derives some kind of pleasure from pursuing young guys. She is no good for you. You still have a lot of exploring to do, do it elsewhere.
2007-10-18 01:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounded like she wanted you in her stable and was hoping for you to come on to her.
Why are you chasing these old cougars? Are you that desperate to get used and tossed?
Find someone more your equal.
2007-10-18 01:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a scene from "Y Tu Mama Tambien"
2007-10-18 01:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by JonnyBravo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋