Oh, the friend/enemy(you like "something" about them but you also wouldn't mind if they would leave the country permanently).
I see they have called but don't answer the phone half the time.
At work, I make myself too busy to chat.
But hey....they do the same to me.....
2007-10-17 19:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.
2007-10-17 19:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have frenemies. It's either I can't stand you completely or I can stand you completely. It's never half way with me, because I'm just not capable of doing that.
2007-10-17 19:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, i know what you mean. i just talk to her a bit and am polite, but secretly i hate her.
just being decent is good to prevent drama.
look up the song, Family Affair by Mary J Blige
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2007-10-17 20:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky_Vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frenemies are for reality tv shows. i spend my time developing fruitful relationships instead of being bogged down by immature hypocrisy.
2007-10-17 19:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat my frenemies bad
2007-10-17 19:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a lot to do with them. I usually am nice and smile but I won't do anything with them.
2007-10-18 04:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do the same as u......just make sure you don't trust them or start to depend on them.....its just that because of some reason u can't just say goodbye forever to them and i think its ok....talk when u want to...thats it!
2007-10-17 21:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Manjari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have that kind of friend relationships
because one i hate that person
i do not want to be associatted with that person in any way .
2007-10-17 19:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋