Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

My cousin who was like a brother to me was murdered 3 months ago. His childhood love, the mother of his 12 year old son, his fiance has already moved on. i'm angry, furious and hurt about her speedy process. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Should I confront her like a mature adult(she's sneaking)? Help I have so many emotions....

2007-10-12 03:11:15 · 20 answers · asked by msos4real 1 in Family

My name and his ex wife's name sounds the same. (For anonymity),Say my name is Linda and the ex's name is lisa.Lisa and Linda starts with the same letter and first syllable starts the same way.So the frist time it happened,we just finished having sex.He wants me to pull the sheets up so he says,"Lisa, can u pull the sheets up?"and im like,"WHAT?!!?"and he was embarassed and schocked at the same time but was laughin hard too.I didnt like it of course.I made a big deal out of it that first time but i everntually fograve him.It has happened a few more of times now but I understand it really sounds the same(they have been divorced for a long time now maybe 6 or 7yrs now.)Last night,he was on the phone and he was referring to his ex wife but said "my wife"!So now im really pissed.This is called a FREUDIAN SLIP--a thought consciously repressed but UNconsciously released.But he hates her and i know that. But what do i do?i dont like it!Should I be mad at him?There is no excuse now right?

2007-10-12 03:09:34 · 12 answers · asked by switbaby9 3 in Marriage & Divorce

the year 20007 grandmother are take care there grandkids should we worry about this

2007-10-12 03:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you think about it, these kind of women indeed have the power in a relationship because they give it,, no no no im not looking for a pushover, and im not looking for someone to control, i mean the type of women who can let a man be a man to her and in return be appreciated for all she is ?

I am going out with such a girl, the thing is she can talk about both the genders being equal and totally equal, i think that wonderfull because she can put herself and respects the other gender too, im totally in love with her just because she see`s me more as a human then a man,, and in return thats what i do,

2007-10-12 03:05:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now that the wedding/reception is done and over with, I have 10 disposable cameras... some of them are pretty much full so I will go ahead and get those developed, but the ones that just have a few pictures on them, should I use regularly until it is more full? I know when you get cameras developed they charge you per picture, so I know it would be cheaper to get 5 pictures developed rather than 25, but if Im only getting 5 pictures out of the camera, was it a waste of money on the camera?

What would you do? Finish filling the cameras? Or get them developed now?

For the record, my digital camera broke a couple months back, so I always use disposable cameras (until I can get another digital)... I usually have one in my purse with me...

Thanks!

2007-10-12 03:05:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was just wondering out of curiosity, is it just in my family, or does every family have a member that they would exclude from a bar-b-que, party, or other family gathering. I have an uncle that drinks too much, and when he starts drinking he always starts a fight. So we don't invite him to anything that we do and I just wanted to know is this common in other families as well. Your input would be greatly appreciated!

2007-10-12 03:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by ~Cheta K.~ 6 in Family

2007-10-12 03:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by seventin59 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my GF said she kissed her best guy friend becoz he asked a kiss from her..i feel so messedup about that...plz tell me ppl how should i react to that

I dnt wont to breakup with her I LOVE HER SO MUCH

2007-10-12 03:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by gu7i 1 in Singles & Dating

ask your father(or other significant male) for your hand in marriage??

Do you think it's an old tradition that should be forgotten or do you believe more people should go back to doing it that way?

Thoughts and opinions?!?!?!

2007-10-12 02:57:25 · 41 answers · asked by obsolete_allurement 4 in Weddings

My sister (who is 18) is living with a guy we all dislike. He is 11 years older than her, tattoos all over his body, peircings on his face and nipples! My parents are doctors, most of our fam members are professionals. This man is nice and all but has criminal records in the past. He is 29, has a GED and is still working on associates degree. No permanent job either. She used to live with my husband and i before she turned 18 for 6months. And my husband wants her to find a good quality man. So now everytime my sister is over (at our house), my husband doesnt want being around her anymore because he said he is constantly reminded of my sisters stupidity and he doesnt like it. i feel the same way but she IS my sister! so now i feel like i cant even have all three of us together! i dont know what to do now!

2007-10-12 02:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by switbaby9 3 in Family

ok last month on the first , my cousin was suppossed to leave to her home in florida. she and her child's father ended up getting in an argument he took her child said he was not going to return her and made her loose her flight. he eventually gave her child back but now she was unable to fly back home. so she asked if she could stay in my house until she could change her flight, since i knew she had nowhere to go and it was only for a couple of days i agreed. A week passed and she told me that she had to go to court the 3rd week of sept and she might as well wait instead of going to flr and coming back. so she did that, now during this time her and child's father reconciled and apparently got her pg AGAIN! the agreement was that after she went to court she was going to arrange her flight , but now that she has found out she is pg , she is stalling. yesterday she just told me that she made an appt and its on nov 7. so basically she is implying that she going to be here till then.

2007-10-12 02:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

They lived with us before but paid nothing I told them that they would have to help out this time no more free ride.I take care of the baby for free which prevents me from working.They fell behind on their bills cuz my son was out of work so they need time to catch up.They lived with us for 3 years before rent free.
So what would be a fair price?There rent now is 550 a month plus electric

2007-10-12 02:51:07 · 10 answers · asked by pyoung82 2 in Family

My soon to be ex started sleeping with the newby less than a month after we broke off relations. Think it can last or is it just a gap filler?lol

2007-10-12 02:50:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my boyfriend went to a party last saturday without me because my mom wouldn't let me go so he tells me that he met this girl and that she sat on his lap the whole time but i mean i know its not like cheating but isn't it kind of messed up and lately things haven't been going so well i've been considering a break whats your opinion plzzzzz????

2007-10-12 02:49:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a man or women is bitter acting toward their ex, even when the ex has tried to make amends with them for the children involved's sake, would you suspect it's b/c they still have feelings for the person?

2007-10-12 02:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents paying for the reception but his parents gave us money for other stuff??

2007-10-12 02:41:43 · 17 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

I have a 16-yr old son who is soon to be 17 years old. School just started last month, but has managed to get suspended for the third time yesterday. He is even beginning to act out at home by smart mouthing me. I have never allowed any of my children to just say what they want to say to me, not have it ever neen acceptable to continue to get suspended. I am ready to put him in a military school, but I dont know if this is the Christian thing to do. Can someone WHO IS A CHRISTIAN please help me with this. I need some good parenting advice.

2007-10-12 02:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by notablewoman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in a relationship for a little over 2 years and I have a 10 month old son. Every so often, the topic of marriage is brought up. His parents push the subject alot and I just don't feel the need to get married right now. I'm happy in the relationship, although there are some things that need to be worked on. I don't think it matters if we are married or not, my son is being raised in a stable environment. I just wanted to see what everyone else thought...

2007-10-12 02:37:22 · 24 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so last night i asked what i should do since i have major feelings for thiis girls here is the link to the question... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqILen9nK9wM0gIh8aQGKQvsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071010182133AAOpqco ..... ok well i told her how i felt and like i started cryin when i told her b/c she is wit a girl so she said no for right now... well like she txt me this mornin and said that mabey we should just be really close friends and see how it goes from there b/c she have really strong feelings for me back then and now i have become like a best friend to her... well she still said that she wants to be really close friends and see were it goes from there... keep in mind she has a g/f.... so what should I do i really care about her and like I want to date her... should I keep close to her and just wait it out?

2007-10-12 02:37:10 · 4 answers · asked by TiffanyB 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a bit behind in college (22) but am very interested in a college on the east coast. I'd be living with friends while going and would love nothing more. My mother is very negative. She says I'm a loser, worthless and nothing compared to her friend's kids who already graduated (even though one of them had three kids by my age because she's a call girl on weekends; nope, she has a college degree so she's a beacon of inspiration).

I told her that I want to move to get my degree, and she threatened me with the following:

1. If I move, my grandparents will both die. Keep in mind they're both 70, but are very active and have no health problems.

2. If I move, my mother will have daily strokes, heart attacks and seizures (she has none of the above and is 47)

3. If I move my neice will grow up and I will miss it. My neice is 6, and would be 8 if I decided to return.

4. I will get pregnant by "all sorts of men" if I move. !

She does this day after day. How do I deal?

2007-10-12 02:32:03 · 9 answers · asked by guess 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering if ladies enjoy phone sex as much as guys do..I recently tried it and really enjoyed it, but it seems like women aren't as interested in it as guys are. Any reasons for that? I'd love to hear honest answers!

2007-10-12 02:31:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's a good student, very mannerable and out spoken. She has a bad talking habit. She wants to be the most popular girl in her middle school. I give her everything she wants(if possible), and all I ask is to do good in school. Her grades are average(75-low 80's), I want better grades. I want her behavior in class to improve and I've tried talking, punishment and even taking away cellphone and TV. What can I do?

2007-10-12 02:31:33 · 20 answers · asked by msos4real 1 in Family

I have a friend who got involved with an attached guy before. She also had a boyfriend at that time. They belong to same group of friends to whom they had to lie to because of their situation. Realizing that what they were doing was wrong, they decided to separate. Now the guy is about to marry his girlfriend. Some of their friends think his girlfriend should know about his past relationship because apparently he did not only got involved with my friend but to several girls also. Should the truth be let out in the open? Who is to tell the girl about this truth?

2007-10-12 02:31:10 · 12 answers · asked by j.anne 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 02:30:41 · 15 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

Some men have wet dreams to the point they have an orgasm. Do females have the same type of dreams and wake up wanting some?

2007-10-12 02:24:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I met my boyfriend at the bar after he got off work. We were only there for an hour then they closed. Some of his friend were going to go to a house and have a bonfire so we went. I finaly left at 3 to get home and go to bed...I had to work at 8 this morning. He stayed. I woke up at 7 this morning and he wasn't home so I got ready really quick and went to see him...at the bar. He just told me to take him home, so I did. He is always very short with me after a long night of drinking. He asked me why I do this? I just wanted to see him this morning. After I left for work he messaged my phone and said "Don't ever come here again!"I live with him so I have to come back home. We have a door that we don't have a key for that he can lock from the inside...and he did. He just messaged me "You are a S L U T." Most of the time it is just because he is drunk. I don't think that he means this stuff. It still hurts me though. Please let me know if you have any words of wisdom? Please!!!

2007-10-12 02:18:34 · 17 answers · asked by Don't be taken for granted! 3 in Singles & Dating

how do you find chubby girls? do you like them because they are cuddly? or do you prefer model-like skinny girls?

2007-10-12 02:16:32 · 26 answers · asked by chunkygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i'm getting married in about four weeks my parents arranged this marrige, and I didn't have a say in it and i'm just going to have to marry this guy because my parents said so, I don't even like him he's nasty and rude and has ZERO manners should I do the Julia Roberts on him and be the runaway birde or should I just jump in the forever boat to hell?

2007-10-12 02:14:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

After knowing this man for a year now.
After listening to all the affectionate words ever created 4 love.
After trusting him completely depending on his actions & words.
After even preparing myself to his promises of marriage.
After all these previous "Afters" Only and only yesterday I found out that he is a complete liar and a cheater. He cheated on me and broke my heart. I was having an bf before & cheated on me as well but he was stupid and not clever to take all that time to fool me as that b a s t a r d. Oh God, I was never able to sleep yesterday when I got sure that it was him cheating ... just cried & cried, yelled and shouted. I am sorry ppl, I need nothing but to pity me and sustain me by simplest words. I am never able to love again. My heart is blocked embracing these cheating injuries. He told me "Trust me" now, I wont be able even to trust myself to trust any man again.
Just pity me ... am in a mess.

2007-10-12 02:11:04 · 24 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

It's reported that many celebrities and wealthy singles joined millionaire dating site MillionaireCupid.com! I did not believe it until I did a search on this site. From the history of this website, I learned that charlie sheen has joined this site and met a lover here.CNN has reported this before. Why did the celebrities & millionaires love this kind of millionaire dating site?

2007-10-12 02:07:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating