If you think about it, these kind of women indeed have the power in a relationship because they give it,, no no no im not looking for a pushover, and im not looking for someone to control, i mean the type of women who can let a man be a man to her and in return be appreciated for all she is ?
I am going out with such a girl, the thing is she can talk about both the genders being equal and totally equal, i think that wonderfull because she can put herself and respects the other gender too, im totally in love with her just because she see`s me more as a human then a man,, and in return thats what i do,
2007-10-12 03:05:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can I disagree?#
2007-10-12 03:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are the facts to support the statement that the highest percentage of feminists hate submissive women?
the fact that your g/f respects both genders as equal and see you more as a human than a man does NOT MAKE HER SUBMISSIVE.
So perhaps you may need to reconsider your definitions of a few of those long words you are using! for example, i dont have a degree in feminism (you obviously don't either) didn't think the majority of feminists HATED women, submissive or otherwise.
Just enjoy the relationship you are having rather than getting upset about nothing.
2007-10-12 03:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Siamese Triplets 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I am a feminist or not, but I just have a problem with "submissive" people in general, men and women. There is a difference between compromise, which is listening to someone else's side of the story and giving in every once in a while, and just being a total doormat. I actually know more men than women who are the :submissive" ones in their relationship. You should see how many of my girlfriends have these boyfriends or husbands who just sort of walk around on eggshells all day long, living in fear that they're going to pi$$ off their lady. On the other hand, I have other girlfriends and relatives who begin every sentence with their husband's name and what HE thinks about a subject. For instance, I could say, "What color towels are you going to get for your new bathroom?" and she would say, "Well, Bill says he doesn't like colorful towels, so I'm going with white." Or even about things directly pertaining to her: "Bill says he doesn't like me with highlights, so I'm dyeing my hair back to brown." I just want to say, "Well, what do YOU say? I didn't ask about BILL!!!"
Seeing your partner as a human with differing opinions and a unique personality is the ideal situation in a relationship, and congrats, because it sounds like you have that going for you. But when someone gives up their identity in order to please their spouse, then that is the kind of submissive behavior I have a problem with.
2007-10-12 03:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 03:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by ammon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't really know the roles of Dominate and submissive.
A submissive accepts the symbol of the Dominate.
The Dominate has to pursue the submissive and there is a lot of involved in this process.
It is not something that you just up and do.
It is all about truth and respect for each other. Many just see the harsher side of it and do not look deeper into it
I am glad you found a lady respects you for you and vice versus.
That is what true love is about
2007-10-12 03:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by mick987g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a feminist can be a real feminist if she hates other women, since feminism is all about being there and trying to help your fellow sisters.
I am sorry to say that in my opium, the only way to be a real feminist is to love & cherish all other women, no matter what their charactor or points of view may be, and to try and help them out of situations they are unhappy with.
Anyone calling themselves a feminist, all the while hating submissive women - isnt a feminist, rather a d*ckhead, sorry to say.
2007-10-12 03:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because feminists want women to hate men like they do and be superior at all times. It's a shame really, as it upsets the natural order.
2007-10-12 03:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are explaining is not submissive.
Submissive is giving in to everything her partner wants instead of being also assertive for her needs. Feminists don't like submissiveness because that is the opposite of what they are fighting for.
2007-10-12 03:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by CC 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Being a feminist doesn't mean one hates men! It's fighting for gender equality, same as religious or racial equality.
2007-10-12 03:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My grandfather told me a good relationship was one where each person would give 90% and take 10%. I think he was right.
2007-10-12 03:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they feel that submissive women are weak.
2007-10-12 03:09:57 · answer #11 · answered by wolfeex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋