Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

my ex cheated on me and we split up he is now with the girl he cheated on me with this happened bout 3 months ago on wednesday he came to my work and kissed me full on!! and told me he loves me BUT WHY? help my head is messed up

2007-10-12 09:42:13 · 14 answers · asked by jerrylee 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my man with all of my heart. He's everything I ever dreamt of and more. We're getting married next July and planning our wedding day at home. We built a house together last year, and have been together for 4 years.
I know I am going to sound really superficial here, but I am still waiting on a proposal, and it's driving me insane. I really want that romantic moment, would love a ring.
I am not fussy or greedy. I dont care if it is not a diamond...I'd just love that heartfelt proposal and a pretty ring. I have talked to him about it and he says to be patient, relax and it will happen. I am not a patient person and he knows that....I just dont know what he is waiting for. I mean, the wedding celebrant is booked, catering taken care of...the wedding date is under 9 months away...I cant see any point in dragging it out any longer. He wont even go in jewellery shops, window shopping isnt even an option, because he gives them a wide berth. I dont understand what is going on.

2007-10-12 09:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by bluegirl6 6 in Weddings

so i met this guy, he seemed really nice and asked me out i said yes. But then he started texting my best mate quite dirty texts, very flirty. Me and my friend got into an argument about what she was texting him and she told me, and she felt really guitly about it i forgave her cos shes my mate and she did wish she hadnt responded to him. then another mate (a lad pretending to be a girl) started texting him and i felt sorry for him cos he dint know what was happening but he started flirting with her/him too! i dont know what to do about him though he keeps telling me he loves and saying hes sorry but i cant him now even though i like him alot, i dont know what to do, should i dump him or give it another go with him cos i like him so much

2007-10-12 09:40:33 · 19 answers · asked by Nobody Knows 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband does not dance and just wondering if it appropriate to slow dance with another guy? Just a friend, nothing more.

2007-10-12 09:40:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

having the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out that you love someone after that person walks out of your sight ...."

2007-10-12 09:38:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in 9th grade and the guy I like is in 8th grade and all I know is his name and that he plays football but I think he is really cute and the only time I see him is in the mornings on the bus but a County fair is coming and I really want to go with him and I dont know what to do because I am afraid that he will say no and then I will look like a fool...Im tired of playing the game with guys I want a guy to stay with for awhile and REALLY love each other so plz help me with everything...TELL ME EVERYTHING TO DO AND SAY SO I DONT MESS UP...(My name is Melanie and his name is Nick)

PLZ HELP ME and if you have alot to tell me tell me to add you so you can help me out and guys PLZ let me add you because you can tell me what you like and dont like
Thax
love always
Melanie

2007-10-12 09:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well today my class had a group presentation. I kinda messed up and got lost in some part of my speech. I saw some people not paying attention and I thought to myself "whats the point?" I then got mixed up with my speech and said things wrongly. My tone was also unsure. I hope this won't make people think I'm a stupid person... I didn't make friends with everyone yet and I wanna thats why I hope this won't make them dislike me. Would you dislike someone if they messed up on a speech or presentation?

2007-10-12 09:36:08 · 35 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

divorce? I got involved with him 3 yrs ago, he told me he was already divorced, with no kids. I found out 3 mos later that he had a5 yr. old daughter with his ex, then 2mos after that, found out he was still married to her. I accepted it, continued the relationship, from that point on, his ex has been unbearable. Talking bad about me to their daughter, not allowing him to pickup his daghter if i was with him in my own car so on and so on. As you can guess he left her and she wants him back. We broke up for 2 weeks in July but we were still hanging out.One day while we were together, his ex calls me saying that he was back with her (during this split) and they were trying to work it out, and that he was just making sure I was "set up" and ok, thats why he had been hanging out with me while we were split. When I askedhim about this, he said he was just trying to sweet talk her into finally signing the divorce papers, cause she had been prolonging it for over 2 yrs.What do you think?

2007-10-12 09:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by dnk0717 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i really like this boy at school but we are both pretty shy and i dont think he likes me as much as i like him but idk for sure...i no he doesnt like any other girl tho...we are just friends but since we are both shy we dont talk that much.

this weekend (sunday) we're both going 1 hr away to help some flood victims with our church group...we go to the same church youth group...and i was wondering should i talk to him about going out at all or just get to know him a lot more? cuz there would prolly be a few times we would be alone together doing something relating to the flooding tho
also we will be divided in groups...how can i get in his group w/out being the only girl and making it obvious that i like him? cuz idk if he'd like that or not
any answers will be great! thanks!

2007-10-12 09:33:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so seventh grade i liked rick a little bit. he was sweet, adn there for me, easy to flirt with. he made me kinda come out of my shell when i was getting over someone else.

then eighth grade, i kinda still liked "rick", but all this time he was like a sideline, fun to flirt with best guy friend, you know? we got to be even closer friends adn for a while, i thought he could be a good bf, but still wasnt sure if i liked him liek that or not.. and it also became apparent around this time that he liked one of my best friends. and though she was going out with "john", it was obvious to everyone she liked rick, too.

so i was like, yeah. go for rick, he's great for you. because to be honest i didnt liek him that badly. so she and rick got really close and he helped her out of a nasty relationship and then eventually they went out. just recently, however, they broke up.

and now picture, all along. that rick and i are talking, etc.
he tells me whats up, i give him girl advice...

2007-10-12 09:33:29 · 2 answers · asked by annabelle! 2 in Singles & Dating

i was looking on the computer and saw in the search window adult friend finder, girl on girl action and alot of other things. well i asked my husband and he said that he didnt know about the friend finder but he typed in the other sites to look at different positions and learn how to do oral. i was disgusted and long story short threw his clothes outside slapped him and threatened divorce. it hurts so bad. what should i do, should i believe him?

2007-10-12 09:32:22 · 20 answers · asked by neli 2 in Marriage & Divorce

obviously this means different things to different people.

2007-10-12 09:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this girl broke up with me to go out with my best friend. well ther would not b a prob. if my friend had not called her every night and hugged her and done stuff that showed her he liked her. do u think i have a right 2 b mad @ me friend???????

2007-10-12 09:27:53 · 13 answers · asked by ry ry 4 ever 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this wonderful guy 2 years ago and then we got seperated through school and then now we are in the same classes together, and I don't know if I should ask him out of if I should wait for him? I'm scared if I don't do it he will be too shy to ask me out. I also read this great quote lately "YOU never lose by loving, but you always lose by holding back" so I told myself that I would ask him out today but we were never alone, so I couldn't ask him out. Why is it so hard to ask him out and how should I do it? HELPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-12 09:25:49 · 3 answers · asked by Mj 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 09:24:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this girl in my school who everybody thinks is bi put me on this hot list.......... should i be really creeped out, and she always trys to be friends with me... help!

2007-10-12 09:24:41 · 36 answers · asked by tiaragirl9912 2 in Singles & Dating

So after everyone's response I left the pig of a boyfriend I had. And now Im extremely hurt!! with no place to live and no car but I have a great job! what do i do? I loved him so much and I want to be with him. But I don't want to be hurt by him anymore. What do I do?

2007-10-12 09:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

i been dating for about 2 years but i really want to split with my girl friend, but every time i split with her she always finds a way to get me back.

i have even turn my phone off next morning she turns up on my door step.

I really like her as a friend but she cant take NO for a answer.

the only way i can think of is cheat on her but i dont want to do that, as i'm a lovly boy.

2007-10-12 09:20:48 · 8 answers · asked by beboo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 09:17:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well there's this boy and i heard he was a racist so i asked him and he says I'm not i just not attracted to them and i would'nt date them but i'd still just be friends and he's really nice to me (i'm black) we're all like 12-14

does this make him racist

2007-10-12 09:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im afraid he'll get poisoned by my earwax. he always tries to lick it when we make out on the couch at my parents place not at his parents place though...is that strange? he says he likes the taste but i think he'll get poisoned...i mean i dont think it tastes that great!? he really likes to get in there and dig around. you think its ok? i dont wanna get an infection either...and is this like considered ear sex????? cuz im still a virgin there! well i guess no anymore :(

2007-10-12 09:15:04 · 9 answers · asked by Firefly1234567891011121314151617 3 in Singles & Dating

well..

last year i fell in love with a guy named Jason and i got in2 really huge problems in my life and i forgot him and i forgot that i was in love with him.. and i .. fell in love with another guy named damien and he's like... the no.1 liar on earth.. and he thinks he's all that.. now my question is..

how can i forget damien and fall in love with jason again?! cuz jason is a really gr8 guy..

i know this is a really stupid question.

2007-10-12 09:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-12 09:13:19 · 22 answers · asked by sky2slayer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently one of my guy friends told me his signature move to get it to move farther would be while making out to take the girls hand and move to his d**k.

So whats your signature move would you say? A move you seem to use all the time that does the trick like most of the time? doesn't have to sexual jus a signature move used with the opposite sex or the person you like?

2007-10-12 09:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by ONEnONLYme 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 09:10:25 · 58 answers · asked by peanutmunchkin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to say I love my Fiances smile, I love hes a gentlemen, I love it when we play Halo on x box 360, best of all when we pray together!

2007-10-12 09:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by Jade Marrie 2 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for two years and recently we broke up because we go to different schools. Plus, his parents said he needs to date other people. I love him so much and when I found out he had another girlfriend it crushed me. So I forgot about him and moved on with my even though it was really hard at first. Then he calls me out of the blue and says he loves me and wants to be with me and that I was his true love. But he is STILL with this other girl. Not only is it unfair to her but it is unfair to me too. I don't know whether to trust him or not. I don't want to get hurt again. I was just moving on with my life and he came back in it again. What should I do? Should I believe him or is he just saying this stuff? I'm so stressed please any help will be great!!!

2007-10-12 09:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Gracefully Lost 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 09:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so ive got a date but im not sure where to take her ,i was thinking about Universal studios ..is it good for a first date or ... ?

Im 18 ,shes 19.
Thanks

2007-10-12 09:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my problem: I have a boyfriend of 1 year and a half. I love him but he is extremely jelous. Ex: If Iam talking on the phone with him and someone passes by talking next to me, he starts asking me, "who was that?" & "were they talking to you"? It's gotten very annoying bc I dont have any friends at all! I left my friends bc he didnt like them. Now Im pregnant and I feel so freakin' bad that he thinks Im cheating on him. I mean I wear an engagement ring. I have his picture on my binders,on my phone and my car. He doesnt let me breathe for one moment and I feel that I have changed so much. I have him on my voicemail and were not even married. Why does he act like this with me? Why is he so jelous? Ive never ever cheated on him. Ive been faithful bc I was brought up that way. I feel so sad and lonely. He hurts my feelings alot of the times and now it hurts even more bc Im pregnant. Why does he do this to me? I mean, what else do I need to do to let him know that I will never cheat?

2007-10-12 09:03:54 · 5 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3 in Singles & Dating