This is my problem: I have a boyfriend of 1 year and a half. I love him but he is extremely jelous. Ex: If Iam talking on the phone with him and someone passes by talking next to me, he starts asking me, "who was that?" & "were they talking to you"? It's gotten very annoying bc I dont have any friends at all! I left my friends bc he didnt like them. Now Im pregnant and I feel so freakin' bad that he thinks Im cheating on him. I mean I wear an engagement ring. I have his picture on my binders,on my phone and my car. He doesnt let me breathe for one moment and I feel that I have changed so much. I have him on my voicemail and were not even married. Why does he act like this with me? Why is he so jelous? Ive never ever cheated on him. Ive been faithful bc I was brought up that way. I feel so sad and lonely. He hurts my feelings alot of the times and now it hurts even more bc Im pregnant. Why does he do this to me? I mean, what else do I need to do to let him know that I will never cheat?
2007-10-12 09:03:54 · 5 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to sit down with him and have a serious talk. I never understood jealousy like this...I rarely go out with my boyfriend (we like spending time at home with an occasional dinner and such). I'm out every weekend with my girls at parties, etc, and he's out with his friends and we've never had a major problem. That you're pregnant concerns me because this is causing you stress that you don't need. Maybe his ex cheated on him, or something to that sort and thats why he's like this. And you gave up your friends, which means you gave up your support system outside of him. What happens when you and him fight, you need a girlfriend to go to. How old are you? And him? He maybe immature....he's definitly controlling you. It may be time to let go if he can't change....you changed...so why can't he.
2007-10-12 09:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably his own insecurities, hes afraid you will find someone better than him. Just reassure him that you are his and no one else interests you!
2007-10-12 09:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you ever get this involved with someone like that?
2007-10-12 09:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, there is nothing you can ever do to let him know that you will never cheat...........this is a form of abuse and you can do better than that.........
2007-10-12 09:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, he is a controler.
2007-10-12 09:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋