Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

I have a very strong sex drive but my g/f does not. She just can't get in the mood any more and it's driving me crazy. It's been going on for 2 years now and I'm not at all sure what to do. I've tried romance several times and many other things. Is this something that would ruin the relationship for you? Would you leave or stick around and wait for her to hopefully regain her drive?

2007-10-12 07:19:59 · 26 answers · asked by Gary 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seperated from my husband for a couple of months and we are getting a divorce. I started seeing this other guy, who is a PA at the doctor's office my daughter goes to, about a month ago. And my husband accused me of having an affair with him all the time and I know that his mom put that idea in his head because she thinks I'm a skank but that's not true though. My mom says I shouldn't be dating at all though because it doesn't make me look good in the divorce proceedings, but I'm not sure if that matters. I want to keep our daughter but he says he wants to fight for custody but will it really have an effect on that? And am I right to be dating again?

2007-10-12 07:19:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 07:18:40 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to find places to honeymoon that are not going to cost a lot. Looking for something outside of the main US. Weddings and honeymoons are not about how much you spend its about being there with the one you love, so I don't want or expect a lot of money to be spent. We would like a place where the US dollar will go far.

2007-10-12 07:17:30 · 20 answers · asked by g_kira1 3 in Weddings

Do you ever try to get to know people whom you don't find pleasing on the eyes?

I do because I don't feel threatened by them.

2007-10-12 07:14:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like one time I let my friend borrow money because I liked her a lot...... but then I found out she was taking me for granted, I told her about it and said I didn't appreciate it. Is a door mat someone who doesn't stick up for himself?

2007-10-12 06:59:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to ask you a couple of questions, please answer:
1. Is it hard to get a perfect life?
2.Is it hard to get the perfect one?
3. Is it hard to face your fears?
4.Is it hard to find the meaning of life?
Or is it just to hard period?
If it is then please give any resluts to make it easy, cause life shouldn't always be so hard.

2007-10-12 06:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by Orange Juice 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It gets so frustrating. I am so tired of being rejected just cause she isnt in the mood. When we do have sex it is amazing. The next day after sex she is still happy from the night before. So I know she is being satisfied. Can anyone tell me what I can do to get her in the mood? Nothing to direct she gets upset if I come out and ask for it says its a turn off and then I get upset if I wait all night and dont get none when we go to bed. I have been thinking about just going down on her at night when she is relaxed but I dont know if she would get upset she has been working alot and I dont want to push her to far. What can I do please help me?

2007-10-12 06:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Tim H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

evicted for being two days late on rent no biggie at first thought it would give us a chance to save some money here and they and get a house finally . Well it started off we were to buy all the food that is pretty pricy when feeding 5 adults and 3 kids( my brother who is 20 still lives at home too) but i agreed knowing i needed to help i also started helping with the animals and daily cleaning no problem well all of a sudden since they wanted to run the ac now they told me to start giving them 200 a month to help with that plus what ever else i possibly could. And after a week or so they all stoped cleaning treating me like a maid. So i told my mom today that i was tired of it for one im helping and my brother isnt he stays in his room and they pay his way for everything. My room is the old living room and i share it with hubby and kids but we have not privacy since its the room everyone walks through. Why should i be expected to do it all and is there any ideals to how i can handle

2007-10-12 06:54:27 · 16 answers · asked by Buga Boo 1 in Family

My husband is madly in love with me but I am not sure I feel the same way.. A few weeks ago I told him I wanted a separation and some how between him and my family I agreed to stay and try to work things out. Since then he has became a different man a great man. He is constantly pampering me and telling me how beautiful I am, doing spontanious things. He is trying really hard, but I am afaird that it is to late... I am not sure what to do b/c I dont want to hurt him at all.. What do I do???? Is there something I can do to change my feelings towards him??? Help!!!!

2007-10-12 06:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by amanda k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last week I went to walgreens and then I saw her, the moment I did she stole my heart. I tried starting a conversation with her just by asking her where the batteries were located (I knew where they were). When I was paying I made her giggle when I told her to wait up because my mom was bringing some cheese, but I was mistaken and it was actually bread.

I noticed her name on the receipt, but that's the only type of conversation I had with her. I know I have to ask that girl out, its just like a deep feeling I have that tells me I have to go out with her. The question is how? I don't know if she has a bf so what would you do if you were me?

2007-10-12 06:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kuervo 4 in Singles & Dating

This world is crazy now....everything is done differently. Would it be weird to ask a guy to marry me? We have been together for 6 yrs. I am just kinda embarresed what other people would think? Like I am forcing him or what....LOL

2007-10-12 06:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by Sadbrowneyes13 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 19 years old and thinks he knows everything about everything and I swear to god I am about to just tell him not to talk to me anymore because I get so sick and tired of his attitude. He is always complaining about how my parents won't give him money when they can barely support themselves. I need some help before I unleash my wrath on him! Btw I am 25 and NOT mooching off of my parents.

2007-10-12 06:46:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-12 06:45:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 06:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I need help on choosing which type of gown would look best on my figure. I'm 5'6" at 120lbs measurements 34-27-35
I have two options either to do the traditional wedding gown tube and a puffy bottom like this one...

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2294&prodgroup=10

or
2) Something more fitted and attention to my figure like this one...
http://www.perfectbridal.com/Jordan-Fashions-Bridal-Gowns.html

2007-10-12 06:37:10 · 17 answers · asked by ABC123 1 in Weddings

my wife and i recently started playing domination and submissive role playing games. She is the dom.

while teasing and humiliating me, she began to mock and ridicule the size of my small peni3.

she was BRUTAL!!!! I know it was in role and part of the game, but it really hurt my feelings and self-esteem. Especially if maybe she thinks it's true.

Should I say something to her about it?

Thanks!

2007-10-12 06:36:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like let you borrow lots of money, give you jobs, give you compliments, and really look after you.

Kind of like a door mat but because he loves you :)

2007-10-12 06:35:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm not a very good flirt when i'm trying to be, but when i'm nottrying to flirt, i tend to attract the boys more. this guy that i'm just friends with thinks im flirting. how do i let him down easy without ruining our friendship??

2007-10-12 06:31:38 · 20 answers · asked by KiSs KiSs 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband talking to another woman on the phone. They have been coomunicating for about 2 weeks now. I found out by calling the number on his cell phone which he had under a male's name. She was very vague and said I had nothing to worry about and hung up. My husband said he just wanted to show me other women wanted him and I need to appreciate him more. I would have never found out if I didn't call. What to do.

2007-10-12 06:26:48 · 33 answers · asked by Putta Rat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a bit of a 'pickle' - But what would do [or have you done] if you and your fiancée wanted to get married, but money was an issue. What is the smartest decision to make? I don't want to go into debt to get married--putting stress on us and what is supposed to be our happiest times, but I don't know if putting things on credit cards, etc. is standard. We're saving but with just that it will take a lot longer than we want to wait. It's not going to be extravagant, or huge, but I do want it to be nice!

2007-10-12 06:24:29 · 23 answers · asked by CaliGirl760 1 in Weddings

2007-10-12 06:17:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it different angles or pace? I've seen guys in porn and it looks like their pretty much doing the same thing, in and out...in and out...lol. What is the technique that separates the good from the bad. By the way I've never had sex, if you couldnt have guessed that already...lol. So all info from the LADIES will be gladly accepted.

2007-10-12 06:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 06:14:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I liked a guy who had a girlfriend (I didn't know). He showed interest by doing small little things, nothing major. We really didn't speak much, just flirty. It spans over a couple months. I flirt w/him but show interest in other guys also and he gets so mad he starts to yell and be mean and then start harassing me! When I approached him in front of his co-workers, he starts denying that I even exist! How to get even?

2007-10-12 06:11:16 · 32 answers · asked by jenn's answers 2 in Singles & Dating

what is going on in out side life

2007-10-12 06:11:03 · 10 answers · asked by goofball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my man for two years. He just recently started complaining to people that I don't have sex with him enough. I mean come on 1st off we live with his MOTHER ! We Do have sex though we have sex every 2-3 days mabie 4 sometimes, but he wants it like every day 3-4 times a day if he can get it! Yesterday out of the blue he comes up to me and says he knows what his problem is. He said his problem is me not paying him enough attention! He talks about me horriable to other people like we NEVER have sex and like I am so crule to him but I am not I love him! But should I make myself un confortiable and just **** him every day like he wants or should I do what all my family saies and put him to the boot ? I mean I am an intelligent young sexy (if I may say) woman. I feal like I do alot for this man. When I tried to move out last week for good resons he cried and said he needs me. I mean okay how much emmbarrasment over this do I have to take ? Is there any happy median ?

2007-10-12 06:07:38 · 46 answers · asked by michaelxx89 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a cute guy on my Yahoo Personals match list, but some of his pictures show him being very overweight, while others show him slim. The photos aren't dated - so how can I find out what he looks like now?

2007-10-12 06:06:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i used to have a crush on this guy, after a while I stopped liking him. I had told about 3 of my friends i had liked him, but now i didnt. so today my friend (ex friend NOW) told my NEW crush about the guy i used to like. first of all i told her to tell NO ONE, and now my crush thinks i like the old guy, and he thinks i dont like him, cuz i think my crush likes me too. so he probably thinks i have no intrest now!! WHAT SHOULD I DOOOOO??

2007-10-12 06:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

I have been married 6 years now and have been friends with my husband for over 11 years. For the first 4 years all he wanted to do was be with me. Then he started going out with his friend ocassionally, then often, then almost every night and day.I found out he was having an affair for over a year and confronted him. He just ignored me and allowed me to move out not caring what i did. He then went to be with her not wanting me to know. This happened in our house. I finally decide to let him go although wanting to save the marriage as we had a child now 3. He said he wanted to try and i moved back. I don't know if i can forgive him. I think about them all the time. Now he still doesnt want to stay home. Even in a storm. I feel so alone.

2007-10-12 06:01:02 · 20 answers · asked by minnie 1 in Marriage & Divorce