I liked a guy who had a girlfriend (I didn't know). He showed interest by doing small little things, nothing major. We really didn't speak much, just flirty. It spans over a couple months. I flirt w/him but show interest in other guys also and he gets so mad he starts to yell and be mean and then start harassing me! When I approached him in front of his co-workers, he starts denying that I even exist! How to get even?
2007-10-12 06:11:16 · 32 answers · asked by jenn's answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would I "look desperate" or stroke his ego by retaliation?
2007-10-12 06:23:01 · update #1
Just ignore him he sounds like a jerk
2007-10-12 06:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Manga&Anime Lover 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off. Don't give him a second thought. Thinking about him can make it hard to think about someone else. Don't give him anymore space in your consciousness. When he comes around, don't go out of your way to be extra mean or nice to him. Only people that matter get anything extra. Just freeze him out and cut him off like a mole you're trying to remove.
He will be confused and intrigued at the same time. Don't just "act like" you've moved on - seriously move on. Treat him like he was a speed bump on the long road of your life. One of many speed bumps that are simply part of life. One day it'll be a cheating, possesive boyfriend, the next it'll be an overbearing, incompetent boss. You wouldn't obsess over your boss right? Don't waste your energy. He doesn't deserve it.
2007-10-12 06:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by leniere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better ignore this person and keep your distance he sounds like a crazy person.
Some men, we had some from the middle east who think that women are supose to do what they say and they gather them like flys. They get violent if the girl shows an interest in other guys. Even thought they can have many women on the string.
that is their custom and they can court and marry several at a time. But if the women is unfaithful she can be burried alive for adultry. So stay clear of men with that mentality.
2007-10-12 06:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
seriously, this guy is so not worth your time and energy. My advice is to act like you could careless and when you walk past eachother act like your too busy to even notice him. This will drive him crazy. This gets him where it hurts the most, his ego. When you mess with a guys ego they will try everything to get your attention. Then you will have him right where you want him. But just remember you don't want to be with a loser like him. Find someone who treats you better and doesn't have a girlfriend and just be happy. Your happiness will be the icing on the cake. You will have the sweetest revenge
2007-10-12 06:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. The best way to get even is to not even waste your time "getting even" - it will do nothing but stroke his ego - you would just be spending more time on this guy (even though it's not in a positive manner) - why waste time that you could better spend checking out new guys or hanging out with your friends? Don't waste your time on a guy who's a jerk. You'll only regret it.
2007-10-12 06:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by 12BNBDA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him . why do you need to get even .
What is there to get even about ??
The guy is not showing interest .so what .dose it hurt your ego
Serves you right for flirting with every guy you see.how do you think what the guys feel like .you flirt with one .then you turn your attention to a next guy ...you are lucky it ended this way .and him not calling you appropriate names you deserve.
2007-10-12 06:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that he don't own you. He have no right to be mad and harrasing you.
Ignore him...don't entertain him anymore. Don't ever accept any apology if he tries to ask you. Keep distance from now on. If he will harras you again report him to the police.
Forget to get even it will only worsen the situation.
2007-10-12 06:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by poorguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man or woman who gets that mad is NOT one to trifle with. He may have serious issues. Don't antagonize him. If you guys never dated and he's acting that way he may be imbalanced. He could get violent. STAY AWAY!! For your safety. You never know what other people are capable of until they react. If you try to get even he could get angrier or hurt you. THe best way to get "even" is to stay safe and find someone better and worthy of your attention.
2007-10-12 06:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by carolm0108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about getting even. The best way to get even would be to not say anything. You'll see. It works. Stay away from this fellow and watch who you flirt with next time.
2007-10-12 06:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, and if he yells at you, tape record it secretly. Then show it to everyone and make him look stupid. But seriously, just ignore him otherwise. Best not to deal with idiots in the first place.
2007-10-12 06:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by average person Violated 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy answer - just go attend some anger management classes.
Pffft.
2007-10-12 06:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋