Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

Ralph has been trying to see the kids-that doesn’t work. I have tried to be an adult (thinking I was the problem) and reconcile with you to help the situation-that didn’t work. I don’t what in the world you are thinking April but you need to really start thinking about your kids and get past the whole bitterness act. You are their mom, you are the one responsible to do the right things for your kids. I know you probably have people in your ear such as your mom, and Rachel and whoever else. Your mom is going to resent Ralph and so on (you’re her daughter and no mom wants to see their child hurt or treated wrong). My mom has been there too. Now Rachel, I know she is your friend and she’s been there or whatever but I mean look at her life, her situation is way worse then yours. Her kid’s dad does her so bogus and he has like 500 kids (after her kid) but I don’t even know either of them at all so I wont even get into that b/c it’s not my business. The point is there comes a time when you

2007-10-12 05:06:23 · 3 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Singles & Dating

Is that totally wrong of me to get turned on by it?

2007-10-12 05:02:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 05:00:57 · 28 answers · asked by Bella 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After I got DUI. I can't concentrate on women anymore. My friends pushing me to know someone cause they all in relationships but me. I can't running around them and being singe. Should I dating bcause of my friend or what?

2007-10-12 05:00:36 · 9 answers · asked by vu_tran764 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a talk with my aunt and she told me that my mum is emotionally needy which I feel so too.

I'm 16 but never had a sleepover because my mum doesn't allow me too,fearing that I would be raped or tortured by my friends. When I told her that I am invited to an all-girls-only sleepover( no fathers,brother, no male basically),she forbid me to do so because she thinks it's unneccessary.

She also forbid me to go swimming with my friends (in a pool) becasue she thinks I'll drown. She only allows me to swim if she comes along. It's so embarrassing because I'm the odd one out. All of friends don't have their mums tagging along when they're swimming. Furthermore, she doesn't know how to swim but she insists on coming because she thinks that she can save me if I'm drowning by IMMEDIATELY shouting for help.

In addition, she goes about every other day,asking whether I love her. It's driving me nuts!

Recently,she doesn't want me to go college because she's afraid of loosing me.

2007-10-12 04:58:21 · 3 answers · asked by charlotte 2 in Family

i found the wedding dress i want but we r not getting married until april 2009. is it too early to get it now or should iwait until it gets closer to the day?

2007-10-12 04:57:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-12 04:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by hello 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating for years now and I have always waited a certain amount of time b-4 sleeping with a guy but what I have learned in my years that it doesn't even matter! You can sleep with a guy soon after meeting them and be with them for so long or on the other hand you can wait to sleep with a guy and still get left by them. It's a risky situation.

2007-10-12 04:56:24 · 28 answers · asked by Kee-Wee 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend recently discovered that her best friend and sorority sister from college had just accepted a job in our area and moved into an apartment only a few miles away from our house.

For “old time’s sake”, the two of them decided to go out for a night on the town.

At some point during the evening, my girlfriend’s friend lost her keys, including the key to her apartment.

Since both of them were rather intoxicated, I was then called to pick them up.

Since her landlord wouldn’t be around to let her back into the building until this morning, my girlfriend told her friend that she could sleep on our couch until then.

However, when I picked up the girls, it was clear that sleeping was the last thing on their minds and they were both ready to continue partying.

2007-10-12 04:54:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am planning to stay at my girlfriends this wkend because her parents are out, so supposly I will windeed sleep with her at night.

However she has told me she was bedtime incontience (I think thats the right word) and she has to wear some adult diapers at night. Should I be worried that I will wake up next to a girl in a sagging wet diaper?

Its all abit strange for a 17 year old girl to be earing diapers at night.. Nonetheless it doesnt bother me, but does anyone have any support of advice?

2007-10-12 04:53:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry - I haven't been to a wedding in a long time, and am unsure of how much is appropriate for a cash weddign gift. This is for my niece. I would say we are fairly close with her and her husband to be.

If it has any bearing, there are 5 of us attending the wedding (my wife, myself, and three kids age 8 - 10). Don't not if it matters, but we are in the North East U.S.

Any thoughts?

2007-10-12 04:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I work offshore for two weeks at a time. I pay my ex wife child support and alimony on the 1st and 15th of each month. I am working now and my ex wants to pick up my check today, forge my name on the back and cash it. I told her no. She is very upset and is making me feel guilty telling me she has no money left, and is getting my 7yr old daughter to call me and make me feel bad. She is only nice when she wants something...Am I wrong here?

2007-10-12 04:51:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or a hooker, or a prostitute? I think so but some of my friends disagree. What about a girl who jumps into bed with her boss to get a raise or a bonus? Isn't that same a hooking?

2007-10-12 04:50:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was recently asked out on a date with a ugly 36 year old guy. I am 21. I hate to hurt his feelings and tell him I don't like him because he is sooooo sweet. I AM STUCK IN THIS SITUATION HELP!

2007-10-12 04:49:09 · 62 answers · asked by Sierra A 2 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I ask him a question he answers back with a question all the time and he doesn't like to talk about ''us'' or our relationship.It's like all we have is sex.Waht are some approaches to help him communicate with me better?

2007-10-12 04:47:47 · 3 answers · asked by Toni 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw this on an episode of House MD (the best medical drama show ever), two elderly people who were presumed to be married to each other, had different colored wedding rings of. It turns out that they were married to other people but they were hooking up with one another. One has gold, the other one either silver, platinum, white gold or something light. Is that true? Are married couples supposed to have matching wedding rings? I never knew this. I'd like to know before I get married & buy the wrong rings. Thanks for your answers.

2007-10-12 04:47:25 · 25 answers · asked by Razor Snake 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My coworker states his wife does not like to go to social gatherings with him but he likes going out and always has. They do family things together, but he likes to go hang out with his friends on the weekends. They are argue about it all the time. He does stay out a little late, but has never given her a reason not to trust him. She tells him to go out but gets upset about it when he does, but when he doesn't go, she says you can go out. Is it fair that she doesn't let him go out just because she says she's grown up and doesn't feel the need to go out any more?

2007-10-12 04:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Mona25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In Idaho, where do I get the forms? The courthouse? What all do I need? I want it to be Quick, Easy, and Cheap. this would be an uncontested divorce. We already know who gets what, so how do I get things going and do it ourselves?

2007-10-12 04:46:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like lip stick, gloss, balm,...brands, all that.....Thnx!

2007-10-12 04:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

i was with this guy since i we were both 13. we lasted through out my high school. i graduated a year earlier. we got into a lot of quarrels over the 3 and a half yrs we were together.at the start of this yr.. just b4 i turned 17 i had a fight with him and i was sick and tired of his "cheating" ways. we broke off. after a few mths he got with another girl from my highschool. she's a year younger. since i was already out of that sch it didnt bother me so much. but now he calls me up from time to time just to chat. but when i called him up for help he actually put his new gf on the line on a conference.and he didnt tell me. so i vowed never to contact him again. but now he started calling me up again. what does he want? plus i'm migrating in dec. and he knows about it.

2007-10-12 04:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Nouveau Roturier 2 in Singles & Dating

I am currently divorced after about 4 months now my ex-wife now wants to start hanging out. I am really not sure what her intentions are, but i thnk she wants to still have somekind of relationship. Now I am seeing someone else now and although that relationship isn't that serious yet, I don't want to have any kind of relationship other than a friendship. I think she may have gotten this idea, because her best friend is divorced and her and her ex mess around and they are with other people as well. This isn't for me, even if I was single.

I don't mind having contact with her, here and there, but the idea of us going out for a drink is out of the question. I haven't told her that I am seeing someone and I thought that she was seeing someone, so maybe that's over and she wants to have some part in my life. The divorce hurt me financially and emotionally and I want to move on, but I don't want to hurt her feelng either. What would be the best approach?????

2007-10-12 04:40:42 · 31 answers · asked by David 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She's out of my leauge in looks and personality, but for some reason she cares for me. she's a friend but, she shows a lil bit of jealousy when I talk about other women, she does it playfully. Like an idiot one day I broke and told her how I felt about her, long story short, after she got her breath back, she told me she wasn't ready and she just got out of a relationship a couple of months ago. heart broken, I started treating her like one of the guy's and a friend but now she's starting to flirt show jealousy and interest like she did before I told her how I felt. It messes with my head, im trying to be strong but I wan't her. I can call her cute names like babe, honey, sweetheart.. etc. and she doesn't even mind and she's even said them back a couple of times, but I feel like im going crazy not knowing where to stand. Theres a lot of little deatails im leaving out but, From a 3rd person perspective please tell me im not wasting my time or chasing something thats not there.

2007-10-12 04:40:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 04:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 7 weeks now. Both our spouse past away from cancer. my new husband has 3 daughters, 11yrs, 14 yrs, 171/2 year old. I have a daughter 17, and son 21. We went to a teacher parent conferance for my husband daughter,(17 1/2 year old) she is senior, but taking junior courses because she failed them last year. was informed last night she is not doing her homework and fail to pass in essay on college/ research. She also had to write and essay on Woodrow Wilson due today. When we arrived at home I asked her " how the woodrow wilson coming along" Well, that didn't go over to well , I was told i was stepping over my boundies. and don't confront erin anymore about her school work.this young lady is stubborn: selfish;lazy; on VERY, confertational. Irish blood I guess. Was I wrong for saying something? What ever I say to her she runs back to daddy and complains and argues with him. Should I say out of this area(school work) and let him handle it?

2007-10-12 04:36:43 · 37 answers · asked by Gracie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this girl to the movies...Well I like her and so I asked her, and she said: "Well How Do you mean?"

and I said "Just as Friends"

and she said "Ok but if it's just friends why can't it be a group of friends??"

and I kinda dogded the question, and she ended up saying yeah she would go with me but "As Friends." Does this mean that she doesn't like me and there is no use trying to date her? I know that a lot of people go on a first date just as friends so I was wondering what you guys though?

P.S. and how do you think I should have answered her question concerning the group of friends...?

2007-10-12 04:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by GJ 2 in Singles & Dating

The seller reduced the asking price to $90,000 today. The house has a foundation crack, with some damage to the bathroom walls. A repair inspection was done and the cost to repair the foundation totaled about $4,800 - $5,000.

Other than that, the house is in good condition, with original hardwood floors. I know the seller is anxious to sell the house.

2007-10-12 04:34:50 · 8 answers · asked by zone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 04:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 04:34:36 · 7 answers · asked by kate08 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 04:32:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I have finally come to a equal number of people on both of our sides for bridesmaids and groomsmen. I just found out threw my fiancee that one of his friends does not like me but she is a bridesmaid. She didn't like that in the beginning of our relationship 2-3 yrs ago we had problems(arguing, breaking up) that are now wayyy resolved.

Would you have or keep someone in your wedding that does not even like you?

I told my fiancee I was taking her out and that was final, this is not just our wedding but it is MY wedding too.

2007-10-12 04:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 in Weddings