Ralph has been trying to see the kids-that doesn’t work. I have tried to be an adult (thinking I was the problem) and reconcile with you to help the situation-that didn’t work. I don’t what in the world you are thinking April but you need to really start thinking about your kids and get past the whole bitterness act. You are their mom, you are the one responsible to do the right things for your kids. I know you probably have people in your ear such as your mom, and Rachel and whoever else. Your mom is going to resent Ralph and so on (you’re her daughter and no mom wants to see their child hurt or treated wrong). My mom has been there too. Now Rachel, I know she is your friend and she’s been there or whatever but I mean look at her life, her situation is way worse then yours. Her kid’s dad does her so bogus and he has like 500 kids (after her kid) but I don’t even know either of them at all so I wont even get into that b/c it’s not my business. The point is there comes a time when you
2007-10-12 05:06:23 · 3 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have to think about what is the right thing to do as a mother, an adult. It’s obviously your decision at this point since Ralph hasn’t went as far as getting a lawyer about it all yet. I mean I don’t understand why it is so hard for you to grow up? Okay Ralph did you wrong-we get it, but in all reality here-he really hasn’t done you all that wrong because as I will say time & again-you knew he was with me (maybe he told you other things to make you think there could have been a real relationship between you two-
2007-10-12 05:07:18 · update #1
I don’t know) but you allowed him to do anything he has to you, you went along with it knowing he only came to you when WE were having problems….you INSISTED on having yet another kid by him even after seeing what is was like with Cieara. You are just as responsible for this mess as he is. He & I are tired of hearing the April victim story-“Ralph didn’t do this two years ago, and didn’t buy this 3 years ago and (even though I have already let him see Cieara since) now I am going to use that as an excuse because I am salty that he didn’t really want ME”.
2007-10-12 05:07:39 · update #2
Well **** girl-act like a desperate hoe that’s how you are going to be treated. You gotta have respect for yourself before anyone else is going to respect you. And I am not trying to talk crap and tear you down, I am just being real. That’s what needs to be done. Somebody needs to be real with you. Ralph hates even trying b/c you play these dramatized unnecessary games all the time when all he wants to do is set up a time where he can come get you guys’ kids and be a dad. You complain about him not being there but then refuse to let him when he tries. Straighten your life out, you want to be left alone supposably but then when you are left alone you continue to act like a child and prank our phone. You are 20 something yrs old with two kids. Seriously, re-evaluate your situation here.
2007-10-12 05:07:48 · update #3
u should summarize it
2007-10-12 05:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't a question, but why don't you have court ordered visitation, and a cop to make sure it gets carried out. They only victims I read about here are the two kids. All of you should grow up and put the kids first, and forget about all the drama. That is what the court system is for, to help settle disputes that kids can't settle.
2007-10-12 12:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think not this has nothing to do with you as i understand the letter but you know best
2007-10-12 12:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋