My girlfriend recently discovered that her best friend and sorority sister from college had just accepted a job in our area and moved into an apartment only a few miles away from our house.
For “old time’s sake”, the two of them decided to go out for a night on the town.
At some point during the evening, my girlfriend’s friend lost her keys, including the key to her apartment.
Since both of them were rather intoxicated, I was then called to pick them up.
Since her landlord wouldn’t be around to let her back into the building until this morning, my girlfriend told her friend that she could sleep on our couch until then.
However, when I picked up the girls, it was clear that sleeping was the last thing on their minds and they were both ready to continue partying.
2007-10-12 04:54:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As we were driving home, my girlfriend began complaining that because her friend had gotten implants, she would now have an advantage when it came to giving “titty sandwiches” (apparently, when they were in college, they had a competition to see who could give a better ‘titty sandwich’).
When we got back to our house, my girlfriend decided to prove that she could give a better “titty sandwich” and proceeded to give me one.
She then told her friend to give me one so that I could judge who was better (of course I said my girlfriend’s was better-it truly was-natural boobs are far superior to implants anyway).
Since I had started drinking at this point, I continued to judge their successive “re-matches” in which both girls tried to show that they were better.
2007-10-12 04:55:02 · update #1
As our cloths continued to fall off, and stay off, and we were getting increasingly intoxicated, I went from merely accepting titty sandwiches from my girlfriend to kissing her breasts, sucking her breasts, and eventually we started going further then that.
As we were “going further”, her friend decided to join us and my girlfriend certainly didn’t kick her out.
This morning however, as we woke up and my girlfriend’s friend was scurrying off to get back to her apartment, my girlfriend woke up, “hid” under the covers and kept saying “oh my God, I can’t believe we did that…” (I think it’s really good that she’s saying “WE did last night” which, I hope, means that she thinks that she’s just as responsible as I am)
After waving good bye to her friend, I told my girlfriend how much I loved her and helped her get ready for work.
2007-10-12 04:55:27 · update #2
Since I have off today, I’ve been trying to get ready for my girlfriends arrival home by washing everything and preparing a truly romantic dinner for the two of us.
Is there anything else you think I should do to prepare for the fallout that will inevitably follow last night???
2007-10-12 04:55:44 · update #3
All of this means nothing, if you have a strong relationship.....
Sounds like you should be OK, if she wasn't mad at you when she left..
Might even turn out good for "later"
Sounds like they might have done this in college,and may have planned this...
2007-10-12 05:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It certainly must be uncomfortable..... I wouldn't even bring the topic out, although must probably she will. If such is the case, don't grant it more importance than it really had. Just tell her that you understand you were ALL drunk and weren't really in control of what you did but that you aren't mad because of what happened and you don't want her to feel bad either.... PERIOD. No further comments, guilt trips, nothing. I think that, if she really was embarrased about it, she will want to speak about it as little as possible and forget it ASAP. Just reassure her of your love and that this meant nothing to you or made you think any less of her, and move on. The romantic dinner was a nice idea, just don't over do it so as to make it look like you feel guilty for something or are trying to be condescending towards your GF because SHE "made a mistake", etc.
2007-10-12 06:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have anything to worry about and don't even bring it up unless she does tonight at dinner and don't even answer any questions of who is better in bed..that will lead to trouble. I think that her intoxication lead her to do these which may have happened before with her friend, you never know. Your not at fault and you didn't do it by yourself you clearly were both in on it. If it's a thing that you both did one drunken night, then forget it. Don't ask for it to happen again if she doesn't...You had your fantasy fulfilled with the one you love, what else can you ask for? Dont feel as though you cheated or guilty, you pleasured both yourself and your girl.
2007-10-12 05:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know that if this is what she said the morning after, then you might not be the apple of her eye....all of you were drunk....
so step back a few steps, and let it happen if it was meant to be..otherwise, don't force it....
If you love to make love to her, that's fine, but is there anything else you love about her? list them before the dinner, and see if you truly love her...then you have to wait to see if she responds the same way....if not, dont' force it....
Good Luck
2007-10-12 05:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by lodger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if they both re-acted the same way this morning; YOU'RE SCREWED!! I don't know if there is anything you can do to prepare for it; you just need to be ready to deal with it. She may not have blamed you this morning; but I'll bet she'll be blaming you tonight. Best of luck to you.
2007-10-12 05:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, that's just one of the risks people take when they add playmates to their relationship. Hopefully it won't cause any serious issues...what's done is done, it can't be taken back so why waste time regretting it happened?
2007-10-12 04:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have everything covered. Just make sure you try and just not mention her friend or how cute she is or good she was at that one thing and you should be ok.
2007-10-12 05:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Die S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me she do not favor weed to make her alluring all women human beings favor to spread there legs its in there nature run after her *** because all women anybody is whores and that is a rattling reality. ~don't like my answer that purely to rattling undesirable.~ ~rattling guy~
2016-10-09 02:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gave me a HARD ON
2007-10-12 05:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Peter P 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋