Is that totally wrong of me to get turned on by it?
2007-10-12 05:02:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, it's pretty crass of him, but it's still a turn-on.
2007-10-12 05:06:34 · update #1
C'mon. He's already got a girlfriend and this is a stranger at a bar or restaurant..no chances of anything happening anyway so I wouldn't even think that deep about it.
2007-10-12 05:07:40 · update #2
I've never acted on it. Not that desperate to take someone else's man. There's plenty of hot single guys.
2007-10-12 05:10:18 · update #3
No, I actually slept with another girls guy, and you can call me what you please, but I was turned on the WHOLE time, even had an orgasm. It's not like I knew her or anything.
2007-10-12 05:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it is wrong. The guy is a cheater and even if he gets rid of the other girl to be with you are you ever going to be able to trust him? He could and probably would do the same thing behind your back. He has no respect for women.
2007-10-12 05:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be disgusted with him and sorry for her. You can't help what turns you on, but I would suggest to not react upon it, b/c he'll just do the same thing to you and why would you want another girl getting turned on while you and your guy are spending time with each other and he's disrespecting you and staring at her. EW...it's just gross.
2007-10-12 05:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me all the time. Especially when I dress up to go out. I do enjoy it very much if the guy is cute. But, I do not do anything about it.
If you are not married it is ok. If you are better looking than the girl he is with, what is the matter?
2007-10-12 05:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's a natural reaction that i don't think you can control really. it' s not 'wrong'. it' s just a thing that can happen.
he's hot and he's looking at you and you for some reason find him desirable.
we could talk about 'right and wrong' if you choose to have an affair with him.
2007-10-12 05:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each es own, Everyone has there fantasy. But that would not turn me on it would make me feel sorry for his girlfriend, I would look at him like a dog.
2007-10-12 05:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually is a major turn off to me. Who wants a guy they know is trying to fool around on his girlfriend?
2007-10-12 05:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it is almost as bad as cheating. If you had a boyfriend and he did that to other girls, would you be turned on? It to me is also a sign that he would not be someone you could trust.
2007-10-12 05:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys like to window shop, some guys do a better job than others...
When they look, I take the compliment and continue on...
2007-10-12 05:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I probably wouldn't pay attention. If someone appears to be "attached" I consider them unavailable and thus don't really watch out for flirting from them.
2007-10-12 05:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋