2007-10-12 04:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me me me me me me terrance is a bad husband
2007-10-12 04:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyAKA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I look at it...nothing in life, not even marriage, should be regretted if a bad situation comes up. Things happen for a reason...for us to grow and become strong or to just basically teach us a life's lesson. So no, there is no regret for me being married.
2007-10-12 11:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right after I got married, I regretted it. I thought I had made the wrong decision...I was young. I got scared that I'd made a mistake in getting married. But after we'd been married for about seven months, that passed and I knew that our marriage wasn't a mistake. I think that everyone goes through a stage of regret when they get married...but now I'm very happy that I did. I love him so much.
2007-10-12 11:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tisha 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i do, which is why i divorced him later.
EDIT: for those who feel self-righteous about marriage: sometimes extenuating circumstances are cause for divorce. it's not that those of us with regrets have no clue on what marriage is all about, nor does it mean we gave up too soon, nor does it mean we didn't know the person well before getting married. people change sometimes for the worse, and marriage reflects those changes. i did not realize being married meant i needed to stay with an abusive husband who went to prison for arson and drugs and b & e...guess i should have stuck it out a little longer to see if this time he'd finally get his act together (sarcasm). get off your high horse and realize there are many differing circumstances that would split up a relationship.
2007-10-12 11:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by sleepycatz1972 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes do and sometimes I don't. I just wish that I had known my husband alot better before we were married. He has loved me since we first met. He was about 18 and I was almost 20. We did not see each other for 34 years and then he came back into my life. He does love me and I do love him lots but he can be so darn hard to live with sometimes. I sometimes feel like I don't have any respect for him. I have threatened to divorce him many times and that breaks his heart when I say that. I was his first love.
2007-10-12 12:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret getting married as well. However, now that she and I are apart, we have become good friends.
That was really our problem. We were great friends but never managed to carry that over into a relationship.
2007-10-12 11:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by C. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret getting married at all. I was fortunate enough to find someone who is practically perfect for me.
2007-10-12 11:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who regret are those who doesn't have a simplest idea what is the marriage life is.Most think it's sex.No man there are more than that in a marriage life.If don't get married you will never take your life serious.
2007-10-12 11:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by anjelniki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i guess most do after a while of feeling not loved and cared for ,because we do get so cut up in the everyday life and like to forget a lot of importance in our life we take for granted.Being assured by existence and words that dont mean much after only hearing them over and over.The real care and showing as well as proving stays on the last thing in the mind,but are so importand to all of a us.And yea the way we are a lots of times of making ourselfs always available and doing everything without a toubt ,gives a assurance of not having to give what we want and need.We bring lots of time the wrong point across of beeing so carring and giving.Its like there is nothing there for them to have to fight for to keep us anymore.But truely we are doing this with our own actions,and therefor dont get the actions we want .So yea its hart to bring the point across,but availability is a big factor we just dont see alots of time and do to ourselfs in bad results.Where we just dont get the action of getting love showed like we would like to .I still to regret of getting Married the 2nd time arround and think a lot of times that i should have stuck to my desition i mad after my first Marriage.Which is not ever to get Married again..Once made the wrong move and dont want to make it again with my 2nd time arround .Nexttime i def,wont anymore..Why shouldnt it be ok just to live together without being Married..I never would again thats for surden .....So Yes count me in ,i regret it for the 2nd time,so you can actualy count me in twice on that one,most def.
2007-10-12 12:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by siggi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i reget things that happened in my marriage (divorced 4 years now) but i don't regret the marriage because i got some beautiful things out of it
2007-10-12 11:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even after a divorce...If I would not have married I wouldn't have my beautiful children.
2007-10-12 11:42:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋