Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

Ok so about a month ago or so the judge ordered me to give the father more custody of course he did this so his child support would go down cause he is having baby #3. (my daughter is #1) so this is after the fact. Now my thing is I have had her full custody since the age of 3. Now that he has joint the money went way down since i'm a full time student and a part time employee so they feel bad for him and made me take a even less amount because I am not a full time employee. Which is ridicuolus.

Now to my point. I need money of course for her schooling. She is in sports, music, reading books, picture day and he doesnt help with any of this. What can I do. How do I have the courts see all this. I am a hard working mother but this is how the systems screws me. PLEASE HELP! ANy advice?

2007-10-12 09:03:44 · 7 answers · asked by rainymar143 2 in Family

2007-10-12 09:02:16 · 41 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

I really like (maybe even love) my best guy friend. (I don't want to say his or his friend's name on the internet, so I'm gonna call him Bob and his friend Fred) And his girlfriend broke up with him about 5 days ago. I really wanna ask him out, but I don't want it to be too soon. Ya know what I mean? Well today when we awere walking to realated arts I walked up beside Bob and started talking to him, then Fred said, "Hey Makenzie, do you like Bob?" Then I said, "Yea." Then Fred asked me about 3 or 4 more time, "You do?" And I kept saying, "Yea." Then Fred said, "Do you want to go out with him?" Then I said, "Yea, but he never would." Then we had to go into different classes, so we didn't finish talking. [[Me and Fred]] Me and Bob have both related arts together and he was ascting completely normal. BTW, when me and Fred were talking Bob was standing right there and heard the whole thing. Do you think that Fred was asking me out for Bob?

2007-10-12 09:01:29 · 10 answers · asked by Makenzie♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I been hanging out with this guy for about 6 months now. I met him in a class this summer and we started studying together. He asked me to go out once, but I couldn't find a sitter so I couldn't go. After that one time, we would only study together. During summer II, we had another class together and he ended up being my lab partner. We started spending more time together. He would buy me lunch and give me rides home even though I lived really far. During the fall, we don't have anymore classes together, but we still find time to hang out. We talk every other day. How can I tell if he likes me or he just a really nice guy?

2007-10-12 09:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by nutritionist 1 in Singles & Dating

So I'm getting married soon and all my decisions that are left are just the details part, like songs and such. So I'm wondering if any brides out there (past or present) or just anyone who’s been to a wedding that wants to help, can help me decide on some things:

1) I need help with picking a Bible verse out for the wedding. I'm looking for something different that hasn’t been read at every other wedding ever preformed like, “Love is patient, Love is kind”, you know the ones I’m talking about, they’ve been read in most all wedding and in most all movies.

2) I'm also thinking of maybe having someone read a poem, that’s if I don't pick two Bible verses. What are poems you think are wedding appropriate that are just really beautiful and are all about love and stuff? Something like, "I Carry Your Heart" by E.E. Cummings.

3) What songs would be good to be sung during the wedding ceremony, my sister and cousin are going to sing a duet and I want some good ideas for songs.

2007-10-12 08:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by LondonFalls 3 in Weddings

Does a man have the right to try and take his partner to court to obtain full custody of children instead of joint custody?

2007-10-12 08:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by Miss J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think? Have you or would you do it for your SO?

2007-10-12 08:55:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 08:55:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do?

2007-10-12 08:52:53 · 18 answers · asked by lady smily 13 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with a really nice guy. We are good friends, everyday his girlfriend comes over to talk. We all get alone very well. But recently, she comes over 25times a day. He stops his work to talk to her, she gets jealous when he talkes to other friends, even if he is in a conversation with someone else, she walks over saids, excuse me, and interupts the whole work enironivent should I say something? She has become very rude. Should I say something?

2007-10-12 08:52:16 · 7 answers · asked by Handson 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and me had planned this lil vacation for this weekend to go to san antonio and take my daugther to fright fest but she has come down with either food poisoning or a virus i told my boyfriend to go with his friend but he wont...i dotn want to leave my daugther behind but my parents are saying they will watch her for me since hes already paid for the hotel...if i go though i will fill like a bad mom what should i do

2007-10-12 08:51:09 · 2 answers · asked by hostile 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 08:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would be the perfect place to take a girl on a first date ??

Id appreciate any ideas!

2007-10-12 08:49:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is not sexually satisfying?

2007-10-12 08:49:06 · 27 answers · asked by Lioness 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have been going out for 4 mos and in the beginning he loved the chase. He liked going after me and I enjoyed it too. But now that he's got me as his gf I'd like some suggestions on how to keep him on his toes. I'd like to keep the relationship exciting and still give him that thrill of the chase w/o playing any mind games. Any suggestions?

2007-10-12 08:46:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

got to know him bcz he is my church mate. then he told me he luvs me. i knew he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. and also she has other girls [he is a player] i told him i couldnt manage to establish an affair with him bt kept on insisting. to make matters worse he is free to come to our house my mum has no problem with that bcz she knows him too. yesterday he came to our house found that i was alone, he grabbed me and kissed me like hell. what should i do, he is taking advantage with me should i tell my mum?

2007-10-12 08:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was a guy I was dating for a while about 5 years ago. I had to move away, but since then we have always kept in contact with emails and phone calls. Recently he emailed me a 'confession' and told me that he fell in love with me when we were physically together and that he still loves me to this day. He also said that he feels a connection with me he has never felt with anyone else. Do you think it is possible for this guy to love me even after all this time has passed without seeing each other?

2007-10-12 08:43:28 · 16 answers · asked by moon&stars 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are planning for our first dinner soon. We are not dating as yet. She is going to New York for the first time and wants to see Mama Mia. Can I buy her the premium tickets as a gift. She has not asked for them but I think it will be a nice surprise for her when she gets seated in the first row. I really dont care if we hit off together in the future or not but would like her to have a memorable first trip to the big apple. Is that ok ?

2007-10-12 08:36:39 · 5 answers · asked by jimmy_00r0pq 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 08:34:56 · 15 answers · asked by Malcolm S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 08:33:57 · 25 answers · asked by Dear Whoever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 08:28:42 · 4 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7 in Singles & Dating

Okie Dokie, what do you think about this? My husband and I dont always see eye to eye and the other night one of our friends stopped by our apartment to hang out and see what we were up too. I dont mind hanging out with this person but sometimes his attitude is what kills it for me. Well anyway, when he came into our house he brought his dog in with him without even asking if it would be ok. The problem was that we had just gotten a brand new livingroom set earlier that day and as soon as the dog came in it ran and jumped right on the couch. (By the way, it is a black leather). I got mad because it wasnt cheap and this "friend" didnt even ask if it would be ok! (Plus, it was my birthday present) I got mad at my husband because he didnt say anything and he didnt understand why I was mad. I would like to know what you guys think and if I over reacted. Thanks in advance!

2007-10-12 08:27:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am attending a wedding this evening and I have unfortunately come accross a financial hiccup. When I replied to the invite I was fully expecting to bring a gift of money to cover my plate and then some. Since then I have had some money problems. I did not want to cancel since it was too late plus I am sure that it would be rude to make them pay for the plates. I was wondering if I could send a card with a check to them in the next month or two? Thanks for the input!

2007-10-12 08:23:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-12 08:22:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To have true friends around you? Friends that you can count on to be there when you're at your worst because they care about you and they know you care about them. Can you say that they know you'll be there for them when they need you?

2007-10-12 08:21:23 · 15 answers · asked by , 3 in Friends

My husband and I had a baby a month ago. For the past few weeks he has been stressed out about work and spends most of his time in the evening on computer games instead of spending time with myself and our new baby. I don't feel like I am getting the support I need, but worried that I may be being too demanding...

2007-10-12 08:20:36 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

all you older people on here, we all love out little fledglings,(kids) but be honest now,,, are you a little pleased now that they have flewn the nest....

2007-10-12 08:19:47 · 18 answers · asked by linseybaby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked because tody we had a homecoming parde and one came past me (she is in one of my classes) and asked why you hanging around a bunch girls and i did know wat to answer to. so is it ok to hang out with girls

2007-10-12 08:18:04 · 6 answers · asked by sean a 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u think should i think about becoming a sex guru?

no, im just kidding. i just need friends!!!!!

just friends to whom i would like to share my experiences about everything, sex,kids, spouse etc.......

2007-10-12 08:17:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

let say you work together in the same office share jokes, ideas and even enjoy the same sports , food , movies and events and you got involve how would you handle this situation?

2007-10-12 08:14:39 · 18 answers · asked by sally 1 in Weddings