Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

My mom asked me last week to change the date of my wedding by pushing it back one year, I got upset but said we would push in back about 8 months. She keeps making excuses for us not to get married (ie I set the date for march and she told me it is cold and tends to snow) so after speaking with her so got mad and is now not taking my calls or returning them times 3 days! She is making me upset, my wedding is around way by one year and its coming up in one year so its been a ongoing thing for two years, she told me if continue with this wedding date she wont be in my pictures, all i have been is depressed and crying about the whole thing. I want to continue with my date but I am upset that she may get mad and not attend. Its not that she don't like my fiance, my brother thinks she is upset because we live in a apartment and I am just starting back to school in January and she thinks i am going to get pregnant and not go back...I am beyond stressed anyone have any advice?

2007-10-12 11:18:28 · 15 answers · asked by bblueyedstorm 2 in Weddings

You end up moving in with this person and have been living with this person for almost two years. The person who has the children is the bread winner of the house hold. Is it wrong for the person with the children to expect his or her mate to watch the children every Sat. just on Saturdays while him or her work? Should the person with the children not put that responsibility on them because its not their kids. Or do you think that person should take the responsibility because they live in the house hold and the bread winner is bringing home money to support everyone? Oh and the person with the children never uses their mate for babysitting for NOTHING ELSE but to work. Please give me your opinion ladies and gentlemen and let me know what you would do.

2007-10-12 11:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by chocoblitz 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay.. so I like this guy named David. He is in my grade and everything. So in the beginning of the school year he was new and on his first day he told me he liked me. The second day he told me he liked me. On the third day he asked me for my phone number.
I dont know if he was kidding or not. Well anyway i really like him and he always SMILES at me!!!! (: but i dont wanna go and ASK him cause im so shy around guys.. and i dont want my friend to ask him either. should i wait for him to bring it up (which might never happen)?

2007-10-12 11:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some guy asked me out 10 times even though i said no, someone told me that they like my breasts, and someone said that they wanna come in the girls lockeroom with me. Srry just wondering, i just think that its gross and if i should take that seriosuly.

2007-10-12 11:06:04 · 55 answers · asked by A$,! 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 4 years we have a child together. He is a ok guy doesn't go out does cheat on me doesn't abuse me but we don't get along. Our personalities don't mix we fight constantly and always talk about divorce. I love him but I can't live like this. My question is can you live with someone and not love them and just do it for the sake of the child?

2007-10-12 11:03:54 · 27 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30 and engaged to a great guy. We don't often have the desire to go out to bars or socializing much anymore. We go out to dinner weekly and visit friends a few times a month, but other than that we don't go "out, out" anymore. No drinking, hanging out in clubs etc....is this a normal progression? Or are we being anti-social?

2007-10-12 11:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i moved recently and ive been in school for about 5 weeks now. i got some new friends here (kinda of a group). so out of the whole group i like this girl and i wanna know if she likes me back.She is like...the only person that like says hi to me during periods out of the whole group.I have one period with her and we talk a bit and today she was feeeling sick so she wanted to stay alone for a while. so i went after a while and started talking to her, she was kinda like the only person she talked to today (at least i think she did) well so i really like her and shes being like...real nice to me so i dont not what to do. any advice??

2007-10-12 10:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom's taken my computer.
She says I have to 'Find it'
I've looked in every room in my house.
My Parent's room
The Living Room
The Dinning Room
The 'Office'
Kitchen
And in EVERY CLOSET!

Where would someone hide a laptop?
For example:
In a cabnet?
Or what Room?
[the rooms are posted above]

I'm very lost.
And I've run out of places to look.

Only Click Answer to HELP!
Don't say 'I don't know' etc.

:-(

2007-10-12 10:58:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, im in 8th grade and im soooo frikin short i want to be average. and i drink milk all the time!! y am i not growing.? i kno this isnt my final height. but wen will it happen? is there anyway to make me talller sumhow?

2007-10-12 10:56:52 · 3 answers · asked by Samantha♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well today after school my friends picked me up that were not suppost to be driving[like have their license/permit].
well we were driving and my mom seen me. and she told my dad and hes really strict. what should i do/tell them cause she seen me driving and im not old enough????
help thanks!

2007-10-12 10:56:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel that he is interested, because he looks at me a lot. Stares a lot, is very raspectful and tryes to make me jelouse a little bit, etc. But, when I try starting a conversation, he acts a little nervous and shy.
I have never hung out with him alone before, it has always been his best friend and my best friend because they are dating. Well when we were watching south park the other night he kaped looking at me and lafing when a stuped funny part came up and of course i looked at him back lafing. People say he likes me and all of that and I can just feel that he does because i have that gut feeling, but he hasent asked me out on a date yet. I dont know if he is just shy and cant find the words to ask me or if he wants me to ask him. And he seems like a shy type. SO what do you think of this and what do you think I should do?

2007-10-12 10:55:12 · 1 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

Embarrassed what do I do? Because I was on here and he came down and saw me to ask what I wanted to eat and I tried to change the page that was up and before he could see but it popped back up and he looked at it for about 5 seconds really good, but he never said anything about it he just simply asked me what I wanted to eat for dinner. I'm still embarrassed and I believe he knew it was me (My face wasn't on the picture). What do I do to ease the tension and forget about what happend?

2007-10-12 10:54:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-12 10:49:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy, whos waaaay out of my league and is liked by most girls and is 2 years older. Recently doing a school production with him, he kept looking over to me, laughing at my jokes, pulling my ipod out of my pocket and looking at everything on it but not listening to it :S and naturally like in conversation touching me (to varify not in a sexual way !!) just my stomach and hands. Do you think these are signs that he genuinely likes me, or is just ultra flirty and does it with all the girls, or is just nice and friendly? Men are too confusing!!

2007-10-12 10:44:42 · 3 answers · asked by PiecesOf_Me_<3 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF and I broke up b/c we are wanting two different things from a relationship right now. I (28 yo) would like to find someone to go the distance with and he isn't ready to find someone to do that with yet. He says he still loves me, misses me, but needs time to get his act together in order to be the man that I need. Which is true, but how can a man take such a chance to lose someone he claims to love so much? The only answer I have is that he doesn't love me as much as he thinks he does as I wouldn't want to just watch my loved one walk away.

2007-10-12 10:44:23 · 3 answers · asked by Holiday 3 in Singles & Dating

He likes both of us and I REALLY like him. She's dangleing him in front of me! She's a bestfriend... I don't want to lose her... what do I do about it???

2007-10-12 10:43:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna Howe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 10:39:58 · 26 answers · asked by memphisbelle1217 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the thing I would like to hunting and I like to fish but since my dad got remarried I can't. My stepmom is a vegiterran and I eat meat a lot, mostly ever night. But now my dad buys this nasty fake soy meat that tastes horrible. I mean don't get me wrong I like her and she is cool and all but I like to fish and I want to go hunting with my friends. If I talk to my dad he just say no. So someone help please.

2007-10-12 10:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey
well i really really really like this guy at my school. the problems,

1 he is in the eighth grade
(i am one year younger)

2 i knew him before school. he went to the same taekwondo plece as me and i think he liked me then but idk anymore

plus i see him with other girls all the time. (with guys too) i think he is just with his group and stuff but anyway

i really reallly like him. i want him to notice me without me talking to him (cause he is in 8 grade and if i talk ed to him i would look soooooooooooooo stupid! ya know?) well yeah, i know where his locker is but none of his classes. i really want him to notice me, even if he doesnt like me. i want to know if he likes me, but with soo many kids in teh school its hard to find someone if you are looking for them. well if you dont get what i mean then whatever but please hepl!

2007-10-12 10:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by chicken HEAD sTYle 3 in Singles & Dating

well basically i have been friends with her for about 4 years but now things have changed it didnt bother me as i thought it was because of us spending too much time together but now i do not know what it is she told me she found me annoying and said i should stay away from her i did that bus she started to talk to me then she puts a picture of me and her on her myspace and msn etc.. then she tuns around and calls me ignorant for no reason and then any oppurtunity she gets she will insult me but then if i confront her about it she just laughs and makes me out to be the drama queen something happened and i told her cousin it was all laughs and she knew i told her cousin and found it funny but now she acting like i have done something really bad what shall i do? am i over reacting or what? what shall i do im soo confused please help all answers appreiciated

2007-10-12 10:37:13 · 1 answers · asked by freefaller 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do my boyfriend said he was coming today to introduce his self to my parents. I told my parents about it and they said they don't want to meet him because they think he's a thug and that they think he is some older guy.My boyfriend said he is going to come anyways regardless because he wants to talk to them. I am really scared he may show up and my parents are going to be mad at both of us. We our both 16 years old and this is the first time a boy wants to meet my parents. I try to talk things out about it to my parents but they didn't listen to me. What do i do when he comes by im really nervous?

2007-10-12 10:36:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i no its kinda nasty but do girls prefer shaved pubs or not

2007-10-12 10:35:50 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan P 1 in Singles & Dating

I talked to my ex boyfriend last night. We broke up 2 months ago. It was really friendly at first. He said he was planning to call me. I asked him if he was seeing anyone and he said yes. I became very emotional. He said he knows am upset that he didn't try harder to work it out between us. Then he said he had to go. What do you think?

2007-10-12 10:31:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ii Cheated on mii b/f
But ii was drunk && am def.
really really really
SORRY!!!!
Angel <--(thats hiis name)

Please forgive mii baby


ii-LOVE-YOU!!!
♥


wiith all mii heart ii know ii mest up baby but am not perfect!
ii DO love you don't ever dought that ii know that ii gave you a reason but....iit was i mistake
Am askiing for a second chance but he woun't give iit to
me....
&& he is talkiing to another girl
who iis totaly a hoe! && every-one has
had her iin bed!

ii found out && yeah
ii kicked her ***!!
Cuz ii was jealouse thats why for him but we don't talk at all.........................DAMG!! what should ii do??

2007-10-12 10:30:14 · 10 answers · asked by ღ̣♥ E && A ♥ღ̣ 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so my sister told me that a guy is hurting her in gym.

1. Friday(last), he spiked a volleyball in her face. I don't know if it was on accident but still...she said she had a headace for two hours...
2. Tuesday, he smacked her on the arm , again, i don't know if it was on accident or not
3. Yesterday, he bumped into her and she slid on the gym floor.
don't know if it was on accident...
so, should she be mad at him for this?

2007-10-12 10:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2 years ago my husbadn cheated on me with another women he had a son with her and the way i found out is becuase he video tapes it and showed to me. I was not with him at the time I was having my baby in the hospitol and he was in the hospitol I forgave him and we got back together. Then I got him papers and he treats me really bad, I have four kids with him I do everything for him I cook everyniht clean and iron his clothes make his lunch everything and I still have sex with him even though I am tired. He calls me fat when I only weigh 145 I just had a baby in april he says I am a good for nothing and that he can get a better women. What should I do my head tells me to stay becuase of our kids and that I did not get married to get divorced I have been suffering for some many years and know I feel that no one will ever want me that is why I need him.

2007-10-12 10:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by Lost 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about dating sites such as: Myspace, Match, Eharmony, Yahoo Personals

2007-10-12 10:27:13 · 12 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay right so this i've liked since forever found out that I liked him, last year we used to be really good friends. I used to talk to him all the time then, I found out he liked this really nasty girl and started to ignore me. i think she told him that i liked him to start a rumor. But anyway this year he found out that i really liked him. Even though he's not going out with this girl I can't tell if he likes me. I really don't want to talk to him cause it would be extremely akward.

2007-10-12 10:25:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love him, don't get me wrong, but everything lately is driving me nuts. im starting to think i don't respect him much or that my hormones are just CRAZY...
just had a baby and im nursing, plus im the breadwinner, my job just pays more, and i don't want to put out. darn it.
he is a dork though.
im not leaving him, but do you ever find yourself feeling like your partner is annoying you?
what do you do?
oh and one more part....our car broke down, so maybe im just stressed.

2007-10-12 10:20:36 · 34 answers · asked by diana g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i am 13 years old and i am 5'4 or 5 and i weigh 107 pounds tell me the honest truth people do u think i'm over weight?

2007-10-12 10:19:14 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating