i moved recently and ive been in school for about 5 weeks now. i got some new friends here (kinda of a group). so out of the whole group i like this girl and i wanna know if she likes me back.She is like...the only person that like says hi to me during periods out of the whole group.I have one period with her and we talk a bit and today she was feeeling sick so she wanted to stay alone for a while. so i went after a while and started talking to her, she was kinda like the only person she talked to today (at least i think she did) well so i really like her and shes being like...real nice to me so i dont not what to do. any advice??
2007-10-12 10:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i dont want other people in the group to know because i think 2 of them like her too
2007-10-12 11:00:50 · update #1
Just keep hanging out and being nice to her. As long as she is nice back and receptive to your company, I say enjoy the friendship you are building. If something comes later, that is great-- at least you guys will have been friends first. Don't rush it.
2007-10-12 11:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Joy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel better when you are with her than when you are with the rest of the group, try to be most of the time with her only. Talk to her on the hallway, say nice things. Eventually, she will figure out that you've liked her. Secrets can't be kept for a long time you know. If you have the guts, tell her what you really feel and if it doesn't go the way planned, than maybe she wasn't the right girl for you.
2007-10-12 11:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to a school dance or out to eat after school. Have some one on one time with her to see if she likes to hang out with you with out the group. When you two are more comfortable to share and talk about things that you don't usually talk about in the group setting, then tell her your feelings. It takes some time to figure out what girls are thinking at a young age. The older you get and more practice the better you will get at it. BUT... Men will still never know what women are really thinking.... ever!!!
2007-10-12 11:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Odrama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're off to a decent start; just continue doing what you're doing in terms of being attentive to her. It sounds like it has the potential to be mutual because she's being attentive to you, too.(Or at the very least, you have your foot in the door). By the way, keeping the rest of the group in the dark while you try to make things a little more solid with her....good move. Good luck.
2007-10-12 11:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is to relax, my man. Just keep talking to her and be cool. If she really likes you it will obvious fairly soon. You just gotta be patient. That is unless you just want to risk it all and ask her if she is interested, but that would take some of the fun and drama away. I would just relax, show her you like her by simply being nice and see what happens over the next few weeks.
2007-10-12 11:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,well,well. start a conversation to her off just talking about how long ya'll been friends.Tell her since ya'll are friends then ya'll can talk to each other as friends and just be nice and ask something like,"what's worng?''or "is it anything we need to talk about?"i am trying to tell ya se will strat to see that you like her as a friend,good enough to talk about her problems.girls like that kind of stuff.i really do.just try that and then ina bout a week ask her about her plans.if she aint do nothing ask her out.but first it can start off with some of the people in the group and then with her.
2007-10-12 11:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her anyways. If you get rejected then so what? There are way more fish in the sea. Besides it's going to be a long time until the female population declines! So go for it!
2007-10-12 11:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by kitsumiti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know how old you are, if you're like 13 to 15 you can't drive so you really can't take her anywhere, 16 and up you can take her out somewhere, don't date her for the wrong reasons, don't be ashamed that you like her but don't have a crush on her, just tell her straight up, i like to hang out with you sometime and if you want to hang out with me, let me know cause i'm just a little lonely for a guy sometimes and a woman to keep me company is a good thing for me cause i won't have to feel that lonely
2007-10-12 11:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should wait a few more weeks, try to get to know her a little better.. and when the time is right... do something really cute like the little kid thing like: I like you, Do you like me check yes or no then have the yes or no box.
It would be cute and sweet.
2007-10-12 11:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know her more and hang out more. Ask her to do homework with you or something. Andd when you are more comfortable with her than ask her.. Tell her you 2 can still be friends if she says no. Hope it works out! =]
2007-10-12 11:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋