You end up moving in with this person and have been living with this person for almost two years. The person who has the children is the bread winner of the house hold. Is it wrong for the person with the children to expect his or her mate to watch the children every Sat. just on Saturdays while him or her work? Should the person with the children not put that responsibility on them because its not their kids. Or do you think that person should take the responsibility because they live in the house hold and the bread winner is bringing home money to support everyone? Oh and the person with the children never uses their mate for babysitting for NOTHING ELSE but to work. Please give me your opinion ladies and gentlemen and let me know what you would do.
2007-10-12 11:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by chocoblitz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shouldent madder if you live with the person or not when you are in a relationship with someone that has kids you should be willing to help out if needed after 2 years you should relize that they are a package deal.you need to make the childern a part of your world too...GOOD LUCK
2007-10-12 11:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by I'M LISTENING !! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems like you are like a family now if you've been living together for 2 years, so yes, I think it would be ok to help the mate with babysitting the children once a week, if it were the other way around wouldn't you want that too?
2007-10-12 18:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by miki360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW ITS NOT POPULAR TODAY but anyway the truth is living together outside marriage doesnt make you grow closer, ' if he has two kids from someobe else does he care about them to support them??
were the 2 two of them married or like u just having sex living together also?? IF U love someone. it would mean u want to be with them united , it takes workand commitment. living tohether requires no commitment at all , , sorry if u dont like the answer but if u love him and he loves u then before GOD n friends have a full committment sealed in marriage. mj
2007-10-12 18:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one to answer because these kids are a part of your partner but i dont agree with you having to mind them every saturday bacause you did not choose this responsibility..you must of known that he had kids but you are not a babaysitter and yiu need to explain that to your partner.
2007-10-12 18:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've been together for two years, why not, but I would'nt assume you'd watch her kids, I'd ask..
2007-10-12 18:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ~Drea~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you only have to watch their kids for one night instead of seven, and they are supporting you, then i would thank my lucky stars.
2007-10-12 18:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong. if it were me, i'd expect the same thing. i mean, u do live in the same house.
2007-10-12 18:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by <3 luv <3 2 <3 much < 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋