Embarrassed what do I do? Because I was on here and he came down and saw me to ask what I wanted to eat and I tried to change the page that was up and before he could see but it popped back up and he looked at it for about 5 seconds really good, but he never said anything about it he just simply asked me what I wanted to eat for dinner. I'm still embarrassed and I believe he knew it was me (My face wasn't on the picture). What do I do to ease the tension and forget about what happend?
2007-10-12 10:54:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What if he tells my mom? I feel sick now!
2007-10-12 11:01:01 · update #1
I WANNA CRY!
2007-10-12 11:24:12 · update #2
That would be so embarrasing!
If you really think your dad knows it was you in the picture, you can either not mention it, it will be a little embarrasing, but just act like nothing happend.
Talk to him about it and explain you hope hes not mad.
Or you could lie, and say it wasnt you, it was just a photo of someone messing around or something.
Hope he doesnt mind =D
2007-10-12 10:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
OK I'm gonna give this one to you straight.
I would say you're under 18, if you're in your bedroom and scared of your dad seeing your computer? OK.
So. The first big thing: WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING POSTING PHOTOS OF YOUR CHEST ON THE INTERNET???
Obviously your parents and your school and the media haven't said enough about how dangerous it is to do those things because there are stupid, dangerous predators out there who will really love the whole idea of finding that and then tracing it back to its source...
Are you nuts?
Your dad will probably wonder why you were looking at a photo of another woman's chest, if he didn't figure out that it wasn't you. I suspect that the tension is on your side because you think he is suspicious. One of your other answerer's is right-- he may know very well about all that already. And he'd be worried but possibly unsure what to say or how to say it.
Take the pictures DOWN, child. And then tell your dad that you did it (he'll be grateful for the honesty, even if he blows up about it on the surface), accept that he may lecture you about the dangers of it, and then have a good talk with him about self-esteem and why you felt it necessary to show your chest to complete strangers.
Sort yourself out, girl, you're wading in dangerous territory. Take the mature route now and get through this, for your own good-- and your own safety!
2007-10-12 11:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by LJG 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you hadn't been doing something you shouldn't, you would not have been embarrassed. Stop published photos of body parts or sections, clothed or unclothed. You have to understand that there are some very scary people out there who would like nothing more than to hurt you and truly humiliate you. Remove the photos, then you won't have to worry when Dad or anyone else who loves you enters the room. Don't say anything to Dad, he made his point while at the same time respecting your privacy. But this is a matter of trust. Let him be able to trust you...remove the pictures. Protect yourself. By the way, hug your father.
2007-10-12 11:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by teacupn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, pardon me for thinking this is bullsh*t because you posted an almost identical question about a casual girlfriend who was staying over seeing you naked. And in that question, asked the same day as this question you were 15. Do you really think some of us are so dumb that we don't notice a user flooding various rooms
2016-05-22 03:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your embarrassed by the fact he saw it you should be embarrassed anyone sees it. Everything you put online can be accessed by anyone and it stays in an archive. Any place important you ever apply for a job to scours the Internet checking on possible employees to see what kind of people they are and they do not hire you if they dont like what they see. Better to learn this early on. The Internet can ruin a reputation, its like a marker that follows you through life.
Dont put anything on the Internet you would be embarrassed about or could ruin your reputation.
Learn to impress people through other ways.
2007-10-12 11:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you stop posting pictures online that could get you in trouble, both with your parents and with predators on the internet. You are feeling embarrased and ashamed because you know that your behavior was not what your parents would expect of you. You have disappointed them. Your father is probably either waiting to sit down and have a conversation with you until after he's discussed it with your mother, or hoping that you will get things straightened out on your own.
2007-10-12 10:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1 of 2 things~
1) Quit putting pics of yourself on the internet for all too see if it is to embarrassing for your own parents to see.
2) If you had no head in the picture then maybe he has no clue it was you anyway!
I personally like the 1st option!
2007-10-12 10:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by CRAZYGIRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you understand that what you were posting wasn't appropriate. Perhaps you should think about how you want to be perceived by people. If you were embarassed for your father to see it, then why would you think it was okay to post online where people you don't even know can see it? Shame on you.
2007-10-12 10:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by TxsWitchWAB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short term....do just as he is...ignore it. Obviously it works for him not to bring it up, perhaps it is best for you to do the same.
Long term... remove the photo and always remember that if something is on the internet.... anyone can see it at any point in time, even your parents.
2007-10-12 11:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. first of all dont post pictures of your chest anywhere and do not send pictures ofyour self to anyone unless you want it found on the net Mate.
I think weve lernt a valuble lessen 'ere!
2007-10-12 10:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋