He likes both of us and I REALLY like him. She's dangleing him in front of me! She's a bestfriend... I don't want to lose her... what do I do about it???
2007-10-12 10:43:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna Howe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A best friend wouldnt use a guy just to torment you.Step back and let things run its course, they will either get married one day or break up.
2007-10-12 10:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's "dangling" him in front of you, she's not a friend.
thats a horrible mean thing to do.
HOWEVER
if shes not literally trying to brag about having him as her bf, and you're just mad about it, that is different. i'm sorry, but if shes dating him then she has a right to and ...idk im really sorry but there is nothing u can do. you could go out with him when they break up but she might not be ur friend after that.
you're better off finding a different guy..i know its tough but whats worth more: a guy that you might date for a few months in high school or a best friend that will be at your wedding?
i hope you make the right choice.
2007-10-12 17:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bestfriend is imore important to you rather than that guy, just let them be happy.
You will meet another man in your life.
Smile!
2007-10-12 17:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by princessqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..both of you: GET YOUR HEADS TOGETHER & FIND A BOY FOR EACH OF YOU AND NOT TO SHARE.
Best friends shouldn't be fighting over boys & you should be happy for her if you both like him..even if it does upset you. Suck it up and be a friend.
=]
Goodluck.
ashummz05@yahoo.com
2007-10-12 17:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes him too. and thats why shes going out with him. and maybe he doesnt like you because if he did then he would of asked you out and not her.
2007-10-12 17:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um....
tell her about it or something.
talk to her
if she is really ur bestfriend than she should understand...
2007-10-12 17:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch both of them.
2007-10-12 17:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋