Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

2007-10-12 10:19:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And is any music supposed to be played when they enter the church? (If so, which?)

2007-10-12 10:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So I asked the other day about a romantic gift for our 10th anniversary. I was told that guys don't 'do' romance. I received a lot of 'sexual' answers.

OK, I get it.

So, after thinking about it for a day or so I remebered something my husband said. We were watching Death Proof the other week and when "Butterfly" did her lap dance, he said.. "You know, you look like her!".

We are staying at one of those themed hotels, and I thought I'd surprise him with that lap dance.

Think he'll like it????

If you haven't seen it, here's the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L57k3gn9UKY&mode=related&search=

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2007-10-12 10:18:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or which song did you choose to be played at your wedding?

2007-10-12 10:17:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im in trouble with my mom because the spanish teacher called and said i talk too much and im flunking but im not and now my mom wont let me do cheerleading activities or talk on the phone or go anywhere what can i do

2007-10-12 10:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you do when you lose interest in sex with somebody that you love very much and want to be with for the rest of your life? I love my fiance, but I can't do it anymore. Do I do it anyways and pretend to like it so I don't hurt his feelings? Or do I tell him the truth and make him feel like he isn't good enough or something. I don't want to hurt his feelings. It isn't that he isn't good enough. I love him and I used to really enjoy it, but I don't any more. Also I'm not sexually intgerested in any body else. What is making me not interested anymore. Could something be wrong with me?

2007-10-12 10:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He told me yesterday and I was shocked (he's 22). I've been successful with other guys, but I've only tried once before with him. He's had other girlfriends, but none have been able to do it for him. Do you think they weren't good at it or is it more difficult for some guys? Any tips will help

2007-10-12 10:15:40 · 13 answers · asked by lucky me 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not looking for that one right now but when i am sexually with someone i want them to tell me the truth. When i ask them are they sleeping with other people i want them to tell me so i know how to protect myself it is not that hard to do guys!!! So why is it that they have to lie about something u wont get mad at?? and then when u do ask them if they are sleeping with other people they will look u right in the face and tell u NO.....When u already know they are u just want to see if they can tell the truth forf a change!! OOHHHH this is a good one they always get mad when u call them out and tellin them u already know and they just lied to u in ur face lol and then u tell them its ova. They get mad?? why is that ??? lol all i asked for was the truth!! and u cant even give me that??!! why the hell will i want to be with u. They dont understand i see it as u disrespect to me and there will be no reason to try to work things out with them!! why are most men like that???

2007-10-12 10:15:12 · 4 answers · asked by More then one on this account 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with her for about three months, and i found out somehting very odd last night. she told be that she had a "thing" for stomachs. and i am not talking about mens bellies or womens bellies, or any particular type of belly either. this girl has very strange desires. she told me that she would be sexually stimulated if she were to eat to the point of being sick, and then if i were to rubb her belly and litsen to it growl.

what should i do?

2007-10-12 10:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Jerry R 1 in Singles & Dating

greasy hair?
bad breath?
talk to much?
to quiet?

you tell me?

2007-10-12 10:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were on summer vacation when it was midnite. he came and knocked on my door and when i answered it he went up my shirt and french kissed me then my boobs and then my period! i kinda liked it till the end

2007-10-12 10:12:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HOW CAN YOU...
how is he there when im here and when im there hes there too but hes not here!! and im f******g there and here!! i dotn get it and hes there but im there too but hes over there doing that. and im over and here and there doing this!!!!!!! omg! someone help me!! how can he be there if hes here... and vise versa. but if im here how could i be there if im here cuz im not there im here~!! but if hes there then im there too.. but i cant be there cuz im here!!

2007-10-12 10:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by xheyyyyx 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a brat brother who is so spoiled!!! My mom will give him whatever he wants. We have just been notified that all our credit cards have been canceled and that we dont make enough money in a year to pay off all the debt. And now he wants 2 games that together should cost around $90. My mom will give him anything he wants just so she can be over having to deal with him curse every swear word there is, literally destroying our house, and starving himself.

Ok, so one time, he was playing a video game, rit? And he kept losing this one level. Every time he lost, he said these words, "OH FUC* BASTAR* HEL* NO!!! YOU STUPID GOD!!! WHY DO YOU DO THIS TO ME YOU FUC*IN BITC* BASTAR*!!! I HATE YOU!!! WHY DID YOU CREATE ME IF ALL YOU WERE GOING TO DO WAS MAKE MY LIFE A LIVIN HEL*!!!!! FUC*IN BASTAR*!!!" Then he knocked down a few end tables, pushed over the couches and kept playin until he won. I told him that it wasnt god's fault and he cursed at me lik 100 times n threw a chair at me...

2007-10-12 10:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by 4evr_dreamin 2 in Family

im 15. my gramma is busy. she's sick with a cold. i havent seen her for two weeks and i miss her. she is always hanging out with friends. i call her every few days. whenever i ask her to do something, she makes excuses like "im busy or "i dont feel too well." but yet she still can hang out with her friends. i used to see her every few days and now i see her every few months. i cry for her every night. help! i hate her now! she wont even call me.

2007-10-12 10:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it should stay under two minutes.....I just need a good example of a speech...classy and elegant, thoughtful.

2007-10-12 10:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by Reese 2 in Weddings

2007-10-12 10:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two weeks ago I finally met up w/ the guy I had been talking to via online.
I thought it went awesome. He played with my hair, held my hands, kissed me, etc. He called me that same night too.
Anyway, the whole next week he texted me, IMd me, etc….
Then this past Sunday I brought him soup cause he was feeling sick and we made out a little bit and
Then he asked me to leave about 20 minutes into it cause he said he “wasn’t into it”….he said “probably cause I’m sick”.
Anyway, this whole week he has IMd me like it was nothing…and I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from him.
Today he wrote to me and asked me “do you have plans for the weekend?” The he went on to say “were those words inspired by me” with a huge smiley face?
I had sent him a little poem last night…..
When I get online, well within 20 minutes he IMs me…..
We are both in late 20s.
DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT? I FEEL LIKE I’M GETTING MIXED MESSAGES WITH THAT WHOLE THING ON SUNDAY.

2007-10-12 10:06:45 · 36 answers · asked by jadamoonstarlovesu 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy before he went to prison and now he's been there for 9 months. I've been waiting on him, he should be out next summer of 2008. My question is do you think that a guy can come out of prison and be faithful? He'll be on probation for about 5 to 10 years he said when he gets out and he said that he's just gonna work take care of his son, from another woman we don't have kids together, I don't have kids at all, and spend the rest with me. What are the odds of a man being faithful when he gets out?

2007-10-12 10:02:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex dumped me for his co-worker and he told me he never coming back that he is in love and when i asked him if he will make this relationship work, he replied we'll see.
I am so hurt and deep down i wish him no bad luck , I am just trying to find some comfort for the moment.
what are your experiences or thoughts?

2007-10-12 10:02:03 · 21 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 09:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Breaking up sucks balls..I am hurting sooo bad my chest hurts.?
My bf and I of 4 1/2 years are finally calling it quits. It got to the point where we got physical with each other and it's not healthy. We unfortunately live together for now and I feel like my world is tumbling down. I see him and it is hard to look at him because all I want to do is get back with him. My question to all of you is..We have made many attempts to break up and have had many serious conversations and we end up GETTING BACK TOGETHER..I do not want that to happen. Because we end up on this emotional roller coaster. It will be good 2 weeks and all hell breaks loose the next. Since I live with him how can we survive this break up without going sour. I feel so lost. We also talked about counseling but never followed through it. Is it worth saving a relationship when someone has been unfaithful, lies where they go, or feels like a prisoner.

2007-10-12 09:57:47 · 40 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my boss is much older then me (i'm 27) but he is sooo handsome. He always has women hitting on him. well, i'm attracted to him ..and i know he digs me too cuz he'll make comments here and there. the thing is....we are both married. he has an open marriage. idont. i'm really attracted to him...and want him soooo bad. but I know its VERY wrong. what do i do?

oh, couple days ago...we had drinks after work. i was really tipsy. when he walked me to my car. he gave me a kiss on the lips...a little peck. the next day everytying was a blur to me. when i came into work i asked him if we had kissed cuz i thought we had. he said yes. but it was innocent....just a good bye kiss.

does he want more?

2007-10-12 09:57:45 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long do the bride and groom have to send out thank you's? I attended a wedding over 2 months ago and gave a gift and haven't recieved a thank you. Is this weird?

2007-10-12 09:56:41 · 16 answers · asked by missy 2 in Weddings

i really really dont get on with my parents.the only times we are getting on is when we're just not talking at all. it's just ridiculous. I have recently missed the bus home a few times after going to town after school, meaning that my parents have to come and collect me from the bus stop a bit later, i have also not been doing that well in school, mainly beacuse i have been focussing on my social life and my friends. I'm not particularly popular, but im not a loser. I do do my homework etc. ut i do also have friends and try to see them at least every friday after school in town. My parents were really mad with me today when i missed the bus again and lied about why i had missed it - which they found out about. I know I'm not doing well in school, but i dont care to be honest. The problem is that they do. I'm just fed up with it all. I love my friends and they are the most important things in the world to me right now, I love my time at school beacuse of them, i just hate home so much

2007-10-12 09:54:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So, I was invited to one of those passion parties, called Pure Romance, for women, by women, and my boyfriend is totally against me going? I think it is retarded that he is so against it, and he won't even give me a good reason (says, I dont know, I just dont like it)... Am I totally dumb and don't see the reasoning behind it or..? (we have been together for 2 years, live together, etc.)..I am 19 he is 21.... I even told him, it is to get stuff for both of us (and it is!)

2007-10-12 09:53:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, I love him, and I think he is great, but the one thing that keeps me from getting as close to him as I would like to is that I have been is that I have been in love with my older brother's best friend for about 5 years. In the past year and a half the two of us have actually become a lot closer than ever before, we have become real close friends instead of just being associated through my brother. I don't know if it's still just my childhood crush, or if I really love him, but it feels so different with him than with my boyfriend, and so much more real. I love my boyfriend, and I don't want to hurt him, but it seems like my real feelings are for my brother's best friend. What is the best way to figure out what is the right thing to do that is fair to both of them?

2007-10-12 09:52:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What did the elf use to make him taller--Elf raising flour.
How do you catch a squirrel--Climb up a tree and act like a nut.
Give me a word with analyze in it--My sister Anna lies in bed all day.
What did the traffic light say to the car--Dont look, I'm changing

2007-10-12 09:48:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not confident at all, but im not completely ugly. She compliments loads of other guys and tells me how good looking her exs and guys in bands are. I can honestly say that the last compliment I got from her was in August when she said I 'look nice' when I stretch to yawn. I mean, wtf is up with that. At the same time, she absolutely hates it when i say how certain famous people are good looking (and ive only ever said it infront of her about twice). Shes also fishing for tonnes of compliments from me, which i give her every day. I get more compliments from my best friend, which is abit bad considering that he is a guy and she is supposed to be my girlfriend.

She has alot of guys that would have her if it weren't for me and it just makes me feel like I am way out of my league with her. Can any one explain? Im 17 btw.

2007-10-12 09:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by ihateyourpity21 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter goes to a speacial school as she has speacial needs she has often told me that a girl at school hurts her today she came home with a scratch on her chest the teacher rang and told me this girl my daughter doesnt like had done it and said it was a miss understanding normaly id tell her to hit back the girl in question has downs i dont know how long i can leave it or how much my daughter sould get to put up with.

2007-10-12 09:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

by a year. 15 year old girl dating a 14 year old guy.
your thoughts?

2007-10-12 09:46:11 · 25 answers · asked by philly cheese steak 2 in Singles & Dating