My ex dumped me for his co-worker and he told me he never coming back that he is in love and when i asked him if he will make this relationship work, he replied we'll see.
I am so hurt and deep down i wish him no bad luck , I am just trying to find some comfort for the moment.
what are your experiences or thoughts?
2007-10-12 10:02:03 · 21 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES!!! Relationship Karma... or as I call it "you lose them how you win them" and it can be the littlest thing too... It's pretty self explanatory but it goes like this... so he dumped you to be with someone else, then that is how he is going to lose his "co-worker" it might not happen over night, but eventually it will happen... but I think that people that harm others for their own happiness WILL get hurt themselves, it's only fair...
2007-10-12 10:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Believe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in Karma completely. I've put my trust in Karma. He will get what's coming to him in this life or the next and the best we can hope for is that you'll be there to see it happen to him. The best thing you can do now is work on your self. Spend some time on yourself and just try to let go of all the heart ache and stress this break up has caused you. Then when you feel ready to move on go out there and live your life like it's the last day. Sooner or later you'll get a phone call from him, asking you back, saying you were right... And you know what the best feeling is when that happens? Realizing that you don't want them back and telling him that you're never coming back to him. It's true that the best revenge is living well. Karma can't hurt you for it and they get the smack twice over. :)
2007-10-12 17:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear friend, Karma has little to do with this problem. Let's see, hmmm... Is he willing to make this relationship work? You get a great big "we'll see". Are you kidding me? The phrase We'll see, is one parent's use on their children when they ask you for some ridiculously expensive toy for christmas (and ya pretty much know they are not getting it). It's normal to be hurt, but stupid is another story altogether. To say that you don't wish him bad luck and then ask about Karma........hell ya your mad, you should be. Let him go and with any luck the co-worker will dump him and you can enjoy that. Then get yourself up and out there, instead of wondering about Karma, go find someone that does not use "We'll see" in their relationship catagory.
2007-10-12 17:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by marinemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say that I did believe for your sake. But hence I don't believe in karma. I am sorry. I do think that you make your own luck and life. So if your ex I am sure will ruin this new relationship too. Not many ppl learn from their first mistakes and don't change too much. Take Heart, now you are free to find a man that really appreciates you.
2007-10-12 17:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by jbenishmlt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After years of treating women like garbage, I feel what goes around comes around. After several marriages and many years I found myself sitting on my daughters patio alone with her mother, my first wife. As I sat there an overwhelming feeling hit me and I told her I was sorry for what I had did to her more than twenty years ago... I am not in love or love or have romantic feelings for her, but I sure do feel wrong for what I did to her years ago. And you know what, It's this simple: People should treat all people with respect... Even a wife...
Yes, I believe what goes around comes around.
Your ex will no doubt find his way, and if he has any feelings he will understand the way he disrespected the people who loved him and cared for him, but be advised; there are those that have no regrets or feeling about those they step on in life. It's just a part of life. That's why someone coined the phrase: Move on.
2007-10-12 17:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by ggraves1724 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe in karma. At least not in the "cause and effect" sense (ie, "I did something bad, now something bad is going to happen to me as a result"). I don't think the universe works that way.
What I think is that the way people treat us is a reflection of how we treat them. If we treat people well, they will treat us well and our lives will be happy, and vice-versa.
In your case, why would you be mad at your ex? It hurts to get dumped, but you knew that was a possibility all along, right? Its over. Move on. Wish them both the best.
2007-10-12 17:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that you don't have to DO anything to him to feel the results of Karma. But that being besides the point this may be a blessing in disguise now you are free to find a person that REALLY cares about you. But if you are really angry make sure the next time you see him you look smokin hot and happy and maybe then he'll figure out that he lost out!
2007-10-12 17:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by lachulablanca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe in karma. A similar thing happened to me 15 or so years ago. Thing is, sometimes karma happens quickly, other times it can take many years. IT hurts a lot at first, and probably will for months to come. But you will heal. Take the time now to take care of yourself. Eventually, youll meet someone who REALLY cares about you.
All the Best.
2007-10-12 17:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do believe that and I've lived long enough to see it manifest itself time and again. But it doesn't take the most linear track you might expect. That means, you may never see evidence of karmic backlash taking place in the life of someone who has "done you wrong", but it happens just the same. Karma isn't punishment, per se, it's just a philosophical adjunct to the truths inherent in physical law...that for every action there is an equal yet opposite reaction. Positive energy extended outward radiates positive energy back in; negative energy extended likewise radiates negative energy back to its source. Take care to realize, however, that this applies to all of us in everything we do (not just what happens to be on our minds at the time). Good luck.
2007-10-12 17:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did you do to make the karma bite you in the a** he's dumping you after all Besides is it possible to imagine yourself in a relationship with someone you do not love and you need to let him go
2007-10-12 18:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋