Two weeks ago I finally met up w/ the guy I had been talking to via online.
I thought it went awesome. He played with my hair, held my hands, kissed me, etc. He called me that same night too.
Anyway, the whole next week he texted me, IMd me, etc….
Then this past Sunday I brought him soup cause he was feeling sick and we made out a little bit and
Then he asked me to leave about 20 minutes into it cause he said he “wasn’t into it”….he said “probably cause I’m sick”.
Anyway, this whole week he has IMd me like it was nothing…and I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from him.
Today he wrote to me and asked me “do you have plans for the weekend?” The he went on to say “were those words inspired by me” with a huge smiley face?
I had sent him a little poem last night…..
When I get online, well within 20 minutes he IMs me…..
We are both in late 20s.
DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT? I FEEL LIKE I’M GETTING MIXED MESSAGES WITH THAT WHOLE THING ON SUNDAY.
2007-10-12 10:06:45 · 36 answers · asked by jadamoonstarlovesu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure he was probably being truthful when he said he wasn't into it because he was sick. If he calls you and texts you a lot then he is obviously interested. I would say that men generally tend to be more straightforward and say what they mean. My advice is to take it for what it was. I doubt he was trying to send you mixed signals, and it probably really was just because he's sick. Don't worry about it and have fun!
2007-10-12 10:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Benji M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to stick with him until u know him a little better. u dont seem to know him very well if u r just now meeting him. after all he could just be lying about a lot of stuff online but u will never know unless u stay with him. if u still think that u r getting mixed signals, dump him, if he really liked u he would try to show it the most that he can
2007-10-12 10:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but may be afraid of admitting it, it's common.
He was sick, I really don't like having someone's face in front of my face when I'm sick, so, that's explainable.
Also, with an earlier answer, I agree that you are moving too fast, give it some time, don't rush in to things.
My best advice, go slow, have fun together but don't go too far too soon.
Enjoy your weekend, I hope everything works out for the best.
2007-10-12 10:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you met an "internet wierdo". Dump him!!!
He is playing games with you.
Meet a guy in real life who is worthy of you, and don't be so quick at giving yourself away.
This internet guy probably just wants sex.
Meet a real life guy!!!
You sound like a real sweet person.
He asked for you to leave after 20 minutes because he probably had another internet date coming over!!!
Do not trust internet guys!!!
Good luck and may God bless you.
2007-10-12 10:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a break! He might really have been sick. The little bit of time you have had is NOT enough to base any kind of decision on. If you like him and he wants to see you, then keep going for it. If he keeps up that behavior, it might be that he is insecure about his sexual abilities, so don't jump to any conclusions!!Hope you have a GREAT weekend!!
2007-10-12 10:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by marystoy_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he thinks you're moving too fast. Could be that he didn't want to screw up something good by fooling around too early in the relationship so he made you leave. I'd go on a couple more dates. You'll figure out the signals eventually.
2007-10-12 10:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by waterlogged1214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Kick back on the poems and anything too aggressive. Let him be in control and pursue YOU. You should think about responding....but not inviting, pushing, giving too much....soup, burning cd's cookies, poems...save all those cards in your back pocket. Just be available and leave him guessing a little biy where YOU stand.
2007-10-12 10:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I don't really want to make out with my man when I have the flu or something. Give the guy a break. If he's tossing his cookies or feeling like crap, that's why he "wasn't into it."
Go on another date and see how things go.
2007-10-12 10:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think hes being ok. But did he ask you to pop round with soup ? Theres nothing worse than being bothered when your sick, especially by someone you dont really know that well. Dont get pushy. Plus dont rush into things with internet dating.
2007-10-12 10:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by sarahmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's pretty clear he likes you.... the thing with sunday, he was prolly worried about getting you sick and felt bad....now if it happened when he was perfectly healthy and no other issues, then I'd say you were getting mixed signals.
2007-10-12 10:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋