Im not confident at all, but im not completely ugly. She compliments loads of other guys and tells me how good looking her exs and guys in bands are. I can honestly say that the last compliment I got from her was in August when she said I 'look nice' when I stretch to yawn. I mean, wtf is up with that. At the same time, she absolutely hates it when i say how certain famous people are good looking (and ive only ever said it infront of her about twice). Shes also fishing for tonnes of compliments from me, which i give her every day. I get more compliments from my best friend, which is abit bad considering that he is a guy and she is supposed to be my girlfriend.
She has alot of guys that would have her if it weren't for me and it just makes me feel like I am way out of my league with her. Can any one explain? Im 17 btw.
2007-10-12 09:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by ihateyourpity21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All she is doing is taking. I don't think that she is worth your time. Find a girl who loves you for you. Just tell her that "All you do is take,take,take, and I don't have anything more to give you"
2007-10-12 09:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by LiveLaughLove 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldn't say that you should dump her. I had this same complaint about my current boyfriend and he asked me why I never complimented him. So its a two way street. As far as her not being physically attracted to you at first that scares me a bit but most girls feel attraction based on personality. The more I like a guys personality the more attractive he gets and I didn't immediately think my bf was the best looking but after being with him as long I have appreciation for his looks because he is a good looking guy. He wasn't what I was normally attracted to either but he's been the closest man to my heart as of yet.
2016-05-22 03:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by meredith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have more troubles than fun when you're with her.
My suggestion is to talk to her openly and honestly... yes, I know, that doesn't happen often for teenagers (and it doesn't sound cool), but you have to do it to find out where your relationship is going. Discuss your concerns and see what kind of reaction she has. If she gets angry, then she's not a good girlfriend in the first place. You may as well dump her before she drags you down even further.
2007-10-12 09:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by sir_b_man 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know how that is. heres what you have to do. start talking to some other girls. what happens is when your with your bf/gf for a long time, they know they already "have you." she needs something to respark her interest in you. this isnt necessary good, because these relationships never last. but if you want to try then talk to some other girls. make comments about other girls. it'll make her feel how shes making you feel. i hate to say it, but girls dont like guys that are always there for them, and always giving them compliments. those are they guys that end up being a girls "best guy friend." Although they deny it, girls like to date guys that are assholes to them. So show your girl that if she doesnt want you other girls will, and that'll make her jealous and want to hang on to you. trust me.
2007-10-12 10:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your self esteem boy. What others think of you doesnt matter what you think of yourself is what is important. We all want to hear good things about ourselves but it is when we rely on those compliments for how we feel is when it becomes a problem. I am 43 and my bf rarely compliments me but I know that I am a catch and I just think he is not very complimentry to anyone not just me. So sometimes that is the way it goes.
2007-10-12 09:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by livelongandprosper2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, don't play her game. She seems to be all take and no give. You never want that in a relationship. Ask her point blank what she sees in you. If you don't trust her answer, then time to bolt.
2007-10-12 09:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Andre 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you ARE out of her league...she's a piss ant.she needs to get some help-she's the one with confidence problems.YOU need to get a REAL lady,one that will love and adore you.this chic sounds like she deserves nothing more than a foot up her a%&
2007-10-12 09:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by berlytea 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sucks doesn't it? My boyfriend used to give me compliments, but now that we are dating for 2 years, never does at all.. it hurts
2007-10-12 09:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
go to the mall, sprary some girl perfume on yourself, then meet up with her, act suspicious and she'll come around
2007-10-12 09:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Insecure she is because she talks about other guys but who is she with you!!!! but anyways maybe you need to compliment her a little more. she is probly playing that game some girls play trying to get their boyfriends jealous because they like to feel important enough that u would get jaelous for her
2007-10-12 09:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jade Marrie 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋