grandma hates me?

Question

im 15. my gramma is busy. she's sick with a cold. i havent seen her for two weeks and i miss her. she is always hanging out with friends. i call her every few days. whenever i ask her to do something, she makes excuses like "im busy or "i dont feel too well." but yet she still can hang out with her friends. i used to see her every few days and now i see her every few months. i cry for her every night. help! i hate her now! she wont even call me.

Answer 1

You sound very immature and childish. Is your behavior and attitude the reason "Grandma" doesn't want you around as much?

Answer 2

Don't say you hate your grandma. I know you're hurt because she hasn't spent time with you, but there has to be some logical reason. And your grandma doesn't hate you, either, and I'm sure she doesn't want you to feel that way.

You have to remember that her friends are all around her age, and you are only 15 years old. Maybe she just needs some relaxing time with her friends while she's trying to get over her sickness. My grandma does the same thing, and when she's feeling better, I go and see her again.

This cold will fly by in a few days, and as soon as it does, you can go and see her. Until then, you should probably just let her relax for a few days. I promise she doesn't hate you.

Answer 3

Read what you just wrote!!!! You only call her when YOU need sometihing. Maybe she is tired of you doing that. Why not call her just to say hi and that you love her and to find out how she's feeling without asking her to do something for you. Or go visit her just to visit, not to request something for yourself. You might find that she will welcome your calls, instead of hearing you voice and thinking "Oh God, what does she want now?"

Answer 4

Let your grandma know how you feel.

She may not realize what is going on.

Most grandmas care for their grandchildren.