Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

Our relationship didn't last that long, and there was a lot of arguing in the relationship. After she dumped me, we stayed friends, but I didn't see her for 2 months after that. When I finally got to see her, she barely had a new boyfriend, and is still with him. I feel like I'm in love with this girl because I can never stop thinking about her, yet it makes me sad because I wish she was back in my arms. We're still friends and we still joke and play around like we did before we got together, but it's just not the same. I know that the guy she's with is better than me, but what can I do to convince her that I love her more than that other guy? What can I do to have her back with me? I know it's my fault that she dumped me, and I wanna tell her that, but what can I do? I don't want to make her life harder, but I don't know if telling her is the right thing. I need help, please.

2007-10-12 08:12:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been recently dating. We got into a discussion and needless to say, our conversation did not end in good terms. We did not speak further that day or the next. Thing is, today is my birthday and he has yet to call. I didnt think we really had a problem not strong enough for him not to call. Should I bother calling him and ask whats going on or should i let him go?

2007-10-12 08:07:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 08:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by Tranina W 1 in Family

He says he will come and dance on my grave when I die. But it was he who dumped me, and he is older than me! Why does he hate me?

2007-10-12 08:00:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The problem is that i have an evil stepmother, (i'm 21 , Florida) .
My father has a medical condition that is getting worse and worse, he owns a house and money from his business.
If he dies , does her wife gets everything . I mean everything.
his wife has a 5 year old boy with my dad.

I dont want to sound like i want his money or anything like that , but i just want to know if she is going to get everything, i think she does not deserve it , i know she is just with him for his money, she knows how much he has.... ( its a long story ) . I just want it to be fair when my father dies. i wish all his money would go to donations or whatever except her getting all of it. How can i prepare for a legal battle in the future if she decides to get everything my dad has.

2007-10-12 07:59:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 07:58:44 · 37 answers · asked by LordVader 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex & I had been 2gether 7 yrs. & 2 kids besides my oldest daughter who is not his but who he raised since 2 yrs. old. He pretty much don't have anything to do w/ her since our split, I can't tell you how many times I heard "she's not my kid, I told her she could call me if she wants to visit", well now she hates him & doesn't want me back w/ him. Everyone I know hates him & wonders why I seem to always fall into his traps. I still luv him so much but he's an awful person. He won't even help me support his 2 kids, he only pays 250 a month daycare becuz he says he can't afford anymore. I look at him & know he's not what I want, we are on different paths, completely different ppl & mind sets. Honestly how do I really kick him to the curb?? I can name off a million irrogant, selfish, mean things about him but why can't I stop luving him. somone has come into my life willing to marry me 2morrow if I let him, he's a great guy & is great to my kids. He really would be a great husband

2007-10-12 07:56:17 · 16 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They told me that it's not possible, because some of them would start having feelings for the other; but suppose the woman is ugly, can she, then, be friends with a man? He won't have feelings for her rather than friendship?

2007-10-12 07:54:54 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive been with this guy for a while now and at first thought i loved him i mean hes really sweet but its just not exciting for me and i think i said the 3 little words too fast. hes so sweet i dont know how to break it to him...i dont want him to cry :(

2007-10-12 07:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by Firefly1234567891011121314151617 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy used to give an eye contact to me since 2-3 yrs. I approached him and we r friends now. But at first he hesitated to talk to me..i dont know why. Then he talked nicely. My problem is....sometimes he talks very nicely,...he makes me laugh...he shows that he cares.. But sometimes he gives very to the point answers to me...and converse as if hez just doing a formality. Not only this...sometimes he completely ignores me.I m so confused becoz of his mood swings. What do u think...why is he behaving this way??Are they really mood swings or do u think hez just being nice?Should i ask him directly whether he really wanna talk to me or not?

2007-10-12 07:48:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 07:46:54 · 11 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want a separation at the very least, but he is unwilling to do so. I am so very unhappy and also have my children to consider. Regardless of the emotional abuse from the past, he has received help and treats me wonderfully now. It is simply too late.
Am I being selfish?

2007-10-12 07:46:22 · 19 answers · asked by tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every Saturday my boyfriend calls at noon, then at 9 pm, he never tells me what he is doing except, stuff, this is the first time im going out with friends this saturday in a while, he knows Im going out and i think he will call just to check up on me, should I answer if he calls,( oh he never calls me on saturdays till late at night )

2007-10-12 07:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by JOY Z 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 07:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by Pat P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 07:39:25 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel☺ 5 in Singles & Dating

im going with 2 guys and i've been with my boyfriend for 3 in a half months now. i found me a new boyfriend and i told him that i was single for now and my boyfreind he's in some kind of trouble and has to go to alternetive school for 18 weeks so he can;t call or come see me. my new boyfriend goes to my school and has my number , so he can call me anytime. my and my boyfriend we been together for to long to break up now. please help!!!! need help from friends

2007-10-12 07:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by sweetz 1 in Singles & Dating

interested in knowing your favorite song for a broken heart, when nothing can make u smile. a song that is not angry or complaining about a bad boyfriend but looking ahead and lifts you up. the radio sucks bc u never know what u'll get then it makes you feel worse...so i'm constantly changing stations lol

2007-10-12 07:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Brightside 1 in Singles & Dating

First off I’m 18 and when I dated him I was 16/17. He did not treat me right, he was the type of guy that would sit there and scream and yell at me in front of his friends and make me upset in front of everyone. He lied to me about who he was, what girls he has been with, and what type of guy he was, he basically used me to make him better. We are from two different towns so he doesn’t know my friends and I didn’t know his friends ( so it was easier of him to lie to me) well he left me because. A. I gained weight and b. he was talking to another girl ( after a year of dating) well I left his stuff on his door step and that same night his car got keyed, I did not do it! They blamed me, he spread rumors about me, and now two years later he still spreads horrible rumors about me, I got pregnant and had a miscarriage that was the final straw why won’t he tell people the truth, I’m so hurt by all of this, now I’m losing friends to him still I feel like he is out to get me, he is also 20 dating a 15 year old, 20,0 dollars in debt, got his car reposed, I mean I can go on and on.. Help me I’m thinking about moving away from this!! What do you think?

2007-10-12 07:35:06 · 18 answers · asked by lauren j 1 in Friends

In the beginning of our relationship I was the one who didn't care about us being together long term. Now it's almost 6 years later.. I have to innitiate everything.. sex, After we fight, I am the peace maker, I'm trying to make it work but it just seems so one sided. I am just tired of playing games, I'm ready to settle down and get married, start a family and he is just beating around the bush I'm 25 and he's 29. I think I'm going let him go.

2007-10-12 07:34:25 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffani 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last weekend I broke into the Nikon Theater at Jones Beach in NY with a girl at night and smoked a fatty while laying on the stage star-gazing...... that was cool!

2007-10-12 07:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by Bri Bri 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 13 year old girl and my mother is always causing controversie with me and my best friend. Every time my bff invites me over my mom will either say yes or no. Usaually no. Then 10 minutes later she will change her mind, and a lot of times, she does it again. I have no idea why, because she has no reason whatsoever not to trust me. Here is an example: Last night my friend called and asked if I could come over. My mom said yes so that was the plan. Then she found out she had to go to her Grammy's house. So I asked my mom if I could go with er there instead. She said no and I asked her why and she said it was because she didn't know her grandparents well enough. Note: I have gone camping with them 2 hours away for 4 days before, and have spent the night at thier house twice in the past 6 months.) So I told my friend I couldn;t come. I got off the phon with her and 15 minutes later my mom said yes. So I called my friend back and told her. Now, this morning, I woke up in a great moodready to get my schooling done, chores done, laundry done and get ready to go with my bff. But my mother informed me that i had t do quite a few extra chores before I could go, and that I had to put 6 full hours or work into school as apposed to the usual about 3 and a half hours i usually do; which gets the job done. I got very upset at this, as I wouldn't ever have eenough time to complete all those tasks in time to be picked up at a decent hour. So I started to cry. Note also: I had JUST woken up and got out of bed, expecting a normal day. I realize my mother was in a bad mood because she had to work all day, which only happens on a rare occasion, but I was just sooo upset that she felt she needed to "take it out" on me! She told me I couldn't go, 10 minutes later, I could. Then couldn't again. (Literal times, here folks.) So when my friend arrived home from school she called excited about having me over and when I told her AGAIN that I coudn't go, she was FURIOUS! I told her maybe
19 minutes ago

she could come over to my house tomorrow, and she was all mad and was like: OMG HANNAH NO! NO! I AM SO SICK OF THIS. And so now I don't know what to do. :( She's mad at m and I am realllyyy upset. What do you think...?

2007-10-12 07:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my man is locked up and wants me to wait??

2007-10-12 07:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to ve sex a few times but he did not get erection...he is a very supportive , dependable and decent person who loves me , takes care of me ...should i stay married to him ?

2007-10-12 07:31:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there not enough men out there? Or they're complete jerks and not worth pursuing a woman's interest?

2007-10-12 07:31:19 · 5 answers · asked by mitchchan 5 in Singles & Dating

And yes we were supposed to be exclusive with each other.

2007-10-12 07:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Singles & Dating

I need to know how others would take the following info: My husband's lifelong best friend is a great guy, always giving hugs when you see him, to everyone. However last time I saw him, I caught him looking at me more, and touching my ribs if I was alone in a room. We were all talking and this friend mentioned that he saved a letter my husband wrote him about how my husband thought I was the one when he first met me. This letter is from 20 years ago and my husband's friend never responded to the letter but saved it. He compliments me on things like a ring that I was wearing that he liked. I just get a "feeling" from him. Am I reading to much into this? What do others think? I am afraid to say it outloud to anyone as I don't want any of our great friendships ruined.

2007-10-12 07:30:52 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 19 and he's 20. i want to move in but he says no. I dont think were too young but he says we are. Why doesnt he want me to move in with him? we've been dating for over a year. Does it just mean that he doesnt really care about me? I don't get it.

2007-10-12 07:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 07:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by Beachblonde B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 07:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do u think it is right for me to me back with my boyfriend if he cheated on me once before? because i really care about him

2007-10-12 07:21:07 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating