should I always answer my cell,when my boyfriend calls?

Question

Every Saturday my boyfriend calls at noon, then at 9 pm, he never tells me what he is doing except, stuff, this is the first time im going out with friends this saturday in a while, he knows Im going out and i think he will call just to check up on me, should I answer if he calls,( oh he never calls me on saturdays till late at night )

Answer 1

It seems unusual that he calls you at the same time (like a schedule or something!) I can tell you from experience. Be your own person.That means don't wait around for his phone call. He already knows that your going out and if does call and you don't answer, he has no reason for getting upset with you. If he does get mad, ask him why? Does he expect to be at your beckon call? Sorry, a relationship doesn't work that way.

Answer 2

If this is the way he's always acted, then either there is no problem, or a very big one. If this is new, and it's not because of a job he's at, school, or any other activity you KNOW he is doing(a t.v. program, game, etc.) then it's time to be a bit concerned. If he is still takeing you out on dates you should be fine. If they are just movies, is it because he is watching his wieght or is broke? If so, this is fairly normal, as I do the same thing. He might have unlimited text and very few minutes on his phone. Does he talk to you in person? Do you have any other problems or concerns about this?Are you one of those types that go on and on over the phone and really say nothing the entire time?

Answer 3

You don't ALWAYS have to pick up the phone. Is this a long distance relationship? It sounds like it.

Anyways, he might get hurt, depending on what kind of guy he is, but calling and not talking about much every weekend sounds super lame.

Answer 4

Hm... so if I understand correctly, you think that your boyfriend is going to call to check up on you while you are out with friends. Why? Is he afraid that you're going to be with another man or something? This makes me worried because it seems like he might be somewhat controlling, or at least insecure about your relationship. I think you're gonna have to decide what to do about this one.

Answer 5

Playing games in relationships is silly. Answer if you want to, or not if you don't. Don't ignore his call as some silly way of trying to get him back for not calling you as often as you think he should or telling you everything you want to know.

If things about him bug you, then discuss it. COMMUNICATE. Don't try to worry him by not answering your phone, and assume he'll associate that with the issues you have about him not telling you everything about his goings-on.

Answer 6

At least he calls you regularly. You should be happy that he calls you. Some guys will go days without calling their gf. Take his calling as a sign that he cares and loves you, and at least you will know that he is not doing anything bad... like cheating.

Answer 7

Thats up to you I don't think he should be checking up on you but there's nothign wrong with just picking up saying Hi I'll call you later when I go home but right now I'm with my friends

Answer 8

Are you sure you have a cellphone and not a tight leash, girl? Sounds a lot like your BF has some distrust issues.

Answer 9

you can call him and tell him he is only one in your life.
and you can ask him not to call you so you have some fun.
if he says no then tell him (do i ever call when you are have with your friends no!). and when he ask what are you doing and he did not tell you what he is doing when you ask say stuff, make him know what it is like to be in your shoes.

good luck girl

Answer 10

may be he likes the sound of your voice and he maybe enjoys you talking to him it's sign that he actually cares but it can also mean that somethings up but look at the positive acpects of the situation