my man is locked up and wants me to wait??
2007-10-12 07:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on why he was locked up.
2007-10-12 07:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have serious reservations about being with someone who committed a crime serious enough to send him to jail...there's a HIGH chance it wouldn't be an issue (we wouldn't be together anyway).
Of course, not knowing why he's in there I'd say if the relationship had been strong before we went in, 6 months isn't an unreasonable amount of time to wait. Military partners/spouses often wait much longer for their loved ones to return from deployments (and often no visitation during that time).
2007-10-12 14:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with Erin, it depends on why he was locked up. My bf spent three years in jail and I met him a year after he got out, but if I had known him then, I would have stood by him and waited for him to get released. Good people make stupid mistakes and pay the price.
2007-10-12 18:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by phatchick182004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you really love him, stay with him. People make mistakes and bad choices, that does not make them bad people. There are plenty of support groups for those who are standing by their men in prison/jail. Look for one on the yahoo groups.
2007-10-12 14:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by jess4u2c2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, and what if its another 6 months after that, then after that?
i wouldnt stay with someone thats in jail, they usually end up going right back anyways even if they get out
2007-10-12 14:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then just wait but if you think you'd be better with someone else then forget about him .
2007-10-12 14:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him wait but if you think its just a fling try to move on. Would he do the same for you?
2007-10-12 14:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Curly Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my god if he is your man why the need to even ask this question ?
2007-10-12 14:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by margo322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋