Some guy asked me out 10 times even though i said no, someone told me that they like my breasts, and someone said that they wanna come in the girls lockeroom with me. Srry just wondering, i just think that its gross and if i should take that seriosuly.
2007-10-12 11:06:04 · 55 answers · asked by A$,! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh, this is true
they are all from 3 different guys by the way
2007-10-12 11:17:30 · update #1
Yes, and it is not OK!
Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable in the work place need to be reported. Protect not only yourself, but others. You shouldn't apologize, you were the one that should be apologized to.
2007-10-12 11:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by wendy a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course it's harrassment. Though if the first guy was only asking you out and nothing else, he wasn't doing much harm. With the other two, they sound like a couple of creeps. But this is the trouble with society today, isn't it? You can get away with most things until you put rubbish in the wrong bags, call a coloured person black, insult certain religions, etc., etc. So even it you were to report anyone for harrassment, chances are nothing would come of it. The best thing in these cases, is to have a ready answer for them, a real good put-down, make them look foolish.
2007-10-12 11:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just asking you out, it can be annoying but its not sexual harassment unless he specifically says he wants to have sex with you on the date and gets graphic. If he says hes going to follow you into the lockeroom so he can see your breasts, then yes that could be considered sexual harassment, and you should bring it up with someone in authority. I'm guessing you're talking about a school lockeroom, in which case, let your school administrator know about it.
2007-10-12 11:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by JackAcid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy who has asked you out 10 times needs to hear a definite NO, NOT NOW AND NOT IN THE FUTURE. Guys are going to make inappropriate comments about girls till the world comes to an end. If the same person keeps saying things, then it is harassment.
2007-10-12 11:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should take that seriously. Someone telling you that they like your breasts is not flirting, it is harrassment as is someone continually asking you out. And it might be a good idea to make sure you don't go into the girls locker room alone until this situation gets under control.
2007-10-12 11:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey look I am a guy and lets think.
Are "they" serious or just fooling around?
If just fooling around to, you know, irritate you girls than wait for few days to see what happens! IF continues, don't hesitate to tell them that you are not okay with this (tell it frankly). Even if after this they continues, complain straight away to some one older than you like your dad or teacher.
IF they threaten you, don't just sit there, go and complain the authority right now? Things can turn ugly later.
2007-10-12 11:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by adids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably like 13 and will cause these immature little boys a lot of trouble if you report them for sexual harrasment! stop and think about if they are being rude and you feel threaten, or are they being immature and you just need to tell them that if they dont leave you alone, your going to have your parents call their's!
2007-10-12 11:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by BadboY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something similar happened to me....most of the times its mostly talk...the guy that doesnt stop asking you out .....you have to talk to him about it ..set him straight ...tell him you dont fell comfortable when he asks you out...anyway your going to say no....okay the guy who likes your breasts is just being perverted....also the third guy...but anything that makes you uncomfortable and is sexual ..is sexual harrasement ...if you continue to feel bad and already talked to them ..tell someone that can help you ..like a principal...just report them
2007-10-12 11:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by monkeyshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is many a girl who wishes she had that problem. Have a look at yourself before you go any further does your manner or way of dressing invite the attention you are getting. I am not defending here but sometimes the wrong signals are given
2007-10-12 11:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is really not sexual attack, notwithstanding it truly is borderline sexual harassment. It relies upon on the "sufferer's" reaction. If he/she says no many times, it truly is easily harassment. If she would not supply a sparkling answer, likely not. both way, the "attacker" is a loser. the guy who did it truly is exceptionally a lot a loser too if he/she did it without desirous to. If the wrongdoer makes use of violent coercion or blackmail to get the guy to do it, then it may count number as attack.
2016-10-09 02:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by trip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋