Okay right so this i've liked since forever found out that I liked him, last year we used to be really good friends. I used to talk to him all the time then, I found out he liked this really nasty girl and started to ignore me. i think she told him that i liked him to start a rumor. But anyway this year he found out that i really liked him. Even though he's not going out with this girl I can't tell if he likes me. I really don't want to talk to him cause it would be extremely akward.
2007-10-12 10:25:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be awkward (at least for a moment) but no more awkward than running around not knowing one way or the other. Besides, if this is a guy you like (and were once close friends with) then he, more than anyone else, would be someone you would want to develop skills communicating with....and it can start right here. Now you can try all sorts of clever schemes to figure out if he likes you or not, but there is no better way to know for sure than to just ask him in conversation at your earliest opportunity. I wouldn't rely on trying to have someone else intercede on your behalf....these things always work out badly, and you've already been the victim of rumors once, anyway. So the best way to keep that possibility to a minimum is to do it yourself. Go ahead and take a chance...you may be pleasantly surprised. Good luck.
2007-10-12 10:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so he started to ignore you because there was some nasty girl. Get used to that sweety, cuz us guys are pigs. At a young age, we dont care how nice you are, or how good of pals we are, or even how knock down beautiful you may be, we are after one thing and one thing only. So when a nasty girl comes our way, we will ignore all those who really love and care about us, so we can go after the nasty. But if you want to talk to him, then go talk to him. Maybe that good friend will come back out of him. Until the next easy, nasty girl comes along.
Dont ya just love us stupid males.
2007-10-12 17:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh....teenage anxt...what can you do?
If you like him, then you should talk to him. How will he know for sure if you like him if you won't even talk to him? Confidence is all it takes in this situation. It's a compliment to like him! So be confident, smile at him, ask him to dance, try and get into a group situation with him...whatever. Just be sweet as pie make sure you look good when you go to school. Say hi, be shy, be confident at the same time (an oxymoron it seems, but you'll get what I mean as you gain more experience with men). This is the BEST time of your life when it comes to innocent relationships--most of all have fun and don't stress about it. He can tell if you're stressing, plus stress gives you zits!
2007-10-12 17:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by dahlia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is shy, I am sure he would ahve come up to you by now and said something if he really liked you back, but if you really must know, then have an aquantince or a friend do it for you, have them causualy bump into him at school or where ever and get them to say,"Hey, did you hear a rumor about (whatever your name is) liked you?" or they could say, "(your name inserted here) wanted me to give you her phone number, so she can talk to you", and then if he calls then it means he is interested, and if not then he is not, or really to make it look any better, you should give him your number, and ask him to give you a call! Do you have his e-mail address, or his msn or yahoo messenger? Maybe you could get it from one of his friend's and just write him a note, so you don't accauley have to face him.
2007-10-12 17:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about it, if you still like him, let him know. Say,"Hey so I heard people have told you I liked you." If you don't feel the same anymore let him know it was a crush, and you wanna be just friends. It is only awkward if you let it get awkward. Keep it friendly, and try to make jokes about it to make everyone feel more comfortable about it, if you need.
2007-10-12 17:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Michael Faust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him and if he feels the need the bring up the subject of that you like him then you guys should work it out, if you think it would be so bad not talking to him b/c he found out then do what you think would be best
Good luck! =)
2007-10-12 17:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he likes you, because why would he stop talking to you if he did? plus if he was a real friend or a good guy he wouldn't ignore you even if he doesn't like you.
2007-10-12 17:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by C17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it a try talking to him, it won't hurt you!
the same sort of thing happened to me a couple years ago, we were best friends and i tried telling him i liked him.. but he just sort of ignored me and went to hang out with a bunch of different people but now we are pretty good friends again because i decided to step up and say hello again! [=
2007-10-12 17:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by a!yak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really nasty evil girl but i guess yu should write a note or something and give it to him.
2007-10-12 17:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by tmiywill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he liked her cause she puts out, and probably thinks your going to put out now that he knows you like him because he was told by a girl who puts out. GUYS ARE DUMB !!!So get a New Crush OK!
2007-10-12 17:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by sChNiTzEl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋