Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

I never got attention from men when I was younger. I was very shy. I got married at age 22 and I am now 37. One guy starting paying attention to me about a year ago. I came out of my shell and am not shy anymore. Is it wrong to enjoy him paying attention to me or am I just normal. Also I notice myself being more social and getting noticed more by others.

2007-10-12 14:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by h 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever met somebody on here that you click with SO well that you talk to them nearly everyday?

2007-10-12 14:14:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i met a girl from a dating site.

The vibe was kind of weird. She said on her profile that she can be shy/serious at first so maybe im wrong but, my initial read of her vibe was bad.

She didn't seem very talkative on the date, and i was definitely the driver of the conversation. But when i did get her talking, she made good eye contact and seemed interested. The only weird moments were during silence and she tended to stare down at the table.

At the end of the date I asked her if she wanted to go out again and she said "yes, definitely" and i was very surprised by this.

Do you think she means it?

2007-10-12 14:13:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say you have been married for 3 and a half years and he has threatened you many times but has yet to do so......do you still think he will?

2007-10-12 14:10:28 · 20 answers · asked by naomihank 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We just recently found out that he lost his virginity to this girl. My husband found a love note. I am not comfortable with this. I dont think he is mature enough. My husband seems proud of him. I am very angry. I dont know how to handle the situation?

2007-10-12 14:09:18 · 19 answers · asked by Vicki l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I still really like my ex. It's been two years since we broke up, and we're still best friends. He's the only one who noticed when I was depressed for a few months last year. I find him staring at me, smiling when I look back. He is extremely nice to me, helping me with everything, and just smiling at me, cheering me up when I have a bad day. We're total opposites, but completely compatible. The only problem is that he used to do drugs and drink, and I'm not sure if he stopped(we're only in high school) he is nasty to people other than me, calling one of my best friends gay and getting him picked on by everyone, randomly shoving people into lockers, and almost blowing his face off a year ago. He cheated on me, so I like him so much, but I just can't trust him. Should I go back out with him, he's been asking, and I've been turning him down. He seems to comprehend how much he hurt me, and seems to be truly sorry. I'm just so confused. HELP!

2007-10-12 14:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by The Broken Doll 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy at my friends party who was beautiful my type ON POINT. Hes brazilian (I always end up with foreigners)& hes my style. At first he didnt seem that interested in me he was txting on his phone & not trying to talk to me that much. Soon he started loosening up, he had a beer or two&we started talking. He was trying to play footsies with me (awww ha) & then we started cuddling, &I noticed he was around me for the rest of the night We were holding holds& he tried to kiss me but I pulled away. Him & his friend got arrested that night for drinkin, so dumb. B4, he left he told me to call him. I txted him asking if he was ok,&he didnt respond. When he got out of lock up, he called me & told me what was up&asked me what i was doing & stuf. I was like we need to hang out &hes like ya definitely so he said he'd txt me later. He did that night, later I told him my myspace link so he'd find me, but he never responded& its been 4 days. What is going on? He seemed to be into me..
3 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.
Additional Details
3 hours ago

PS. I'm 19, and he's 18.
2 hours ago

When i said he is brazilian and i always end up with foreigners, I meant I find it funny because I am always attracted to them. And no, I am not stereotyping them, most of my friends are brazilians and they've changed my life (in a positive way) My ex boyfriend is brazilian. Trust me, I am far from thinking that "brazilians" end up in jail.
I'm latin myself.

2007-10-12 14:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by Rhonda 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else share my pain? I made a 1/2 sheet cake..spent about three hours making this beautiful decorated cake from scratch. It wasn't for any special occassion but it was for us. I just went in there so the kids can have piece after they just ate and the entire center of the cake was cut out and gone!!!

He fully admits to it but the stranger thing is..I've been home with him all day and he wasn't alone at all...How and when did he pull this off?

...and is eating the center of the cake grounds for divorce!

2007-10-12 14:05:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 14:01:42 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A bout two weeks ,it's my mothers' birthday.I want to know anothers idia , because she have every thing that I think to bye for her.

2007-10-12 13:57:02 · 8 answers · asked by arpi 3 in Friends

There's this one super hot woman that I'm completely crushing over, but she's a totally b*tch, so how can you stop crushing on this person? It should be easy, right?

2007-10-12 13:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 13yrs and have 3 kids together since April he has been coming and going out of the household and I am finally ready to say no more I am emontionally drained and I want to show him he can no longer keep coming and going. Do you suggest a legal seperation at this point or divorce

2007-10-12 13:54:06 · 13 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance'e was married for 10yrs, but divorced in PA 5 years ago. And we'd like to get married , but he doesn't have a copy of his Divorce Decree (he's lived out of country for the last 4yrs). We want to marry next month... how does he get a copy of his Divorce Decree and what needs to be done to get it? Is a month long enough?

2007-10-12 13:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by Mystoree 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 13:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by Love is life 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 13:47:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex while we were still married took out a loan against a house I signed over to her,but it shows that the loan was in my name also but I never signed anything on that loan. Then later she sells the house and not only do I not get anything from the house, she doesnt claim any of the money she made on the house as income. Is that legal?

2007-10-12 13:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by Christina M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See tonight i was suppost to go a my high school's football game but my mom at the last minute wouldn't let me go. So now im stuck at home with absolutely nothing to do and no one to talk to. Is there anything i can do to get my mind off the fact im so lonely?
Anything that will keep me entertained would really help.
Thank you :)

2007-10-12 13:42:02 · 22 answers · asked by Paige C 1 in Friends

Today I was on the phone with my long distance boyfriend and I made a comment that went something like "let's be honest, no man could stay married to a woman without be able to have sex". He goes, well your dad does. Then starts going off on how my parents can't possibly have sex. I don't want to hear it so I hold the phone away from my ear and start going lalalalal. I put the phone back and here "fat bellies". I yelled his name at him, started lala-ing again and when I put the phone back to my ear I hear him going off on fata$$ bellies smacking together! So I hung up on him because I have asked him before not to make insentive comments about my mother or her weight. He keeps calling me and trying to talk to me but i'm ignoring him. He thinks i'm overreacting and doesn't even seem to get that it hurts my feelings. He hasn't even come close to an apology. So, am I overreating in how i'm treating this or am I justified?

2007-10-12 13:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She said I had to call her to tell her what I'm doing. This seems like asking permission to me, but I tried it. Every time I do it, she gets very bitchy - I get the silent treatment when I get home.

So, I don;t really see the point in calling - it doesn;t help. Any suggestions?

2007-10-12 13:41:17 · 38 answers · asked by Jamie F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there many people that could suit you in the world, and you just have to pick one you like (kinda like shopping), or do you believe there is one soul mate or person you are meant to be with and it will unfold in the right timing? What are your views?

2007-10-12 13:36:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 13:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by newcomerfun 1 in Singles & Dating

So i have this big deliema and wanted to just throw it out there and see what people think. In a nutshell, i am really restless at heart. i love to travel, see new places.. but the majority of the world i haven't seen and still want to do so. and i was getting all geared up to leave after Christmas. everything is all worked out there.

HOWEVER

I have a job offer to work at a radio station doing my talk radio show on a bigger scale than i am now. keep in mind, i'm only 19, but i've worked a ton of different jobs, and i KNOW this is my passion. i am going to be the next big talk show host. i can feel it in my blood. its my dream and my passion.

Saying that, I'm not sure what i should do.. travel, and get it out of my system, or keep after the radio.

Some of my friends tell me that if radio is truly meant to be then it will still be here and opportunities will work out when i get back from traveling.

But what if this IS my one break. My 1 shot..

Thanks for any feedback

2007-10-12 13:33:45 · 5 answers · asked by ~Hobo_Blood~ 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm going to be in a wedding tomorrow
i'm the maid of honor
and i need help with a website to find hair updos or downdos
cuz i don't have anyway to wear it
so any help would be greatly appreciated

2007-10-12 13:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by jaclyn y 1 in Weddings

Besides jeans what else is the style! If you have links that would be good to see what they are wearing.... Thanks in advance

2007-10-12 13:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by MissMagpie 2 in Singles & Dating

I will make this short and sweet. I Met a guy last year we shared a kiss. We fast foward a year late i saw him . I left a note on his car he texted that I was Really nice and a powerful presence also he said their was something very alluring about me but also said he was seeing somebody else. I blew it last year i was really shy. I have been kicking my self all year i really like him . How do i get him to spend time with me and maybe give me another chance he is a professor and I am a manager two different world . I have no reason to bump in to him any sugestions

2007-10-12 13:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by kelly_bua2000 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so he`s a sophomore. but i`ve never talked to him before.
and i`m a freshieee btw.
here`s some hints that i keep getting :
-he looked right at me when he was talking to someone [ just a glance but still ]
-he`s beginning to turn up everywhere
-he stares at me alot
-he watches me play in tennis ( he`s in guys tennis )
-when i was playing today at the courts w/some girls, he comes in w/some guys to play
-when he was leaving, he was looking back ( i know cus i caught him :D )
-stares at me from a distance

plus he`s hot. hahah sorry ; had to add that.

thanks you guys (:

2007-10-12 13:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it considered short for a woman? What about 5'6 1/2? Is it better to be 5'7 or taller? This girl i know doesn't like being 5'6, she thinks she's short. A detailed answer please. The best one gets ten points!

2007-10-12 13:19:32 · 83 answers · asked by Do_As_Infinity 5 in Singles & Dating

Hello I am 23 years old and married to the man that i have been together for 7 years. I have two boys the oldest being 5 years old. I am a stay at home mom and my life is pretty much my kids and husband. Dont go out with friends or talk to any other adults, my life is my family anf i love them. Dont have any regrets. Today i was reading some messeges from my husbands phone. He is 25 and he is in sales. There was some text messeges that had been under the delete file. It was messeges from a girl that he had known from along time ago. The messege stsrted with him saying how r u doin my love and what r u doing tonight and jsut plain talk but the thing is in all those messeges he calls her my love and hun, which is usually what i call him. HE SAYS IT DID NOT MEAN ANYTHING BUT AS I RECALL I DONT REALLY CALL FRIENDS MY LOVE. Ther was nothing more but that and i feel hurt. Am i wrong?

2007-10-12 13:19:30 · 36 answers · asked by mommielovefun21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thing have been said that are not true about me

2007-10-12 13:18:01 · 34 answers · asked by quanah pooh 1 in Singles & Dating

Something funny? Memorable? Let me know, I need ideas!

2007-10-12 13:17:17 · 24 answers · asked by boodoll33 5 in Weddings