There's this one super hot woman that I'm completely crushing over, but she's a totally b*tch, so how can you stop crushing on this person? It should be easy, right?
2007-10-12 13:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just start talking to multiple women. The only reason that you're taking disrespect from a total b*tch is because you don't have 2 and 3 dates per week to go out on. See, a woman just being hot isn't good enough. She has to be hot and be able to fix a hot meal and be a good person at the same time. You're not demanding enough from women because you're not dating enough women. You should go out on 2 - 3 dates per week with different women until you find the woman who will reciprocate your desires and have a personality that you can vibe with.
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2007-10-12 14:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, "Am I crushing on her because she's hot (that is, purely based on exterior beauty) or because she's a B ! T C H? (that is, purely based on interior ugliness)." Maybe the fact that she's a B ! T C H actually makes her MORE attractive to you. Kinda sick, huh?
2007-10-12 14:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by FANatic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractions don't go away just because they don't make logical sense, so no, it's not easy.
Make sure you stay busy with your friends. Play b-ball until you collapse from exhaustion. Be the guy that makes everyone laugh and feel good. And keep looking around for someone else to catch your eye. If you're laughing and smiling, it'll be easier for her to see you. ;-)
2007-10-12 14:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by slishou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a crush..i dont think it would last long. maybe you just fantasize with her since you said she's one super hot woman. that's normal. having crushes is normal but it doesnt mean to be serious.
2007-10-12 14:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this: Visilize ten years down the road. You are maried to her, she has not changed. In fact, she's even more of *****.
If this don't help you, just run out right now and buy her a house.
2007-10-12 14:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, I tend to lust after hot women who are that way too. It's analogous to how a lotta girls like bad boys.
Anyway, it's okay to infatuate. I don't even try to stop mine. But don't act on it. If you know that she really isn't your type, fantasize, but just don't fool with her.
2007-10-12 14:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep reminding yourself that she is a "B", eventually your crush will turn to resentment. That will help you stop crushing over her.
2007-10-12 14:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That why you like her dummy. Stop saying "crushing" makes you sound like you are 10. Well you probably are.
2007-10-12 14:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are in to S&M and you like that shes a controling b'itch.
2007-10-12 13:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋