I will make this short and sweet. I Met a guy last year we shared a kiss. We fast foward a year late i saw him . I left a note on his car he texted that I was Really nice and a powerful presence also he said their was something very alluring about me but also said he was seeing somebody else. I blew it last year i was really shy. I have been kicking my self all year i really like him . How do i get him to spend time with me and maybe give me another chance he is a professor and I am a manager two different world . I have no reason to bump in to him any sugestions
2007-10-12 13:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by kelly_bua2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sadly, I think this is a lost cause. He's involved with someone else. Even if that relationship doesn't last, too much time has passed for him to reconnect with you. I feel bad that you missed out with this guy because you were shy. But who knows, maybe it's for the best.
You can take from it that he found you attractive - that was a very nice thing to say, and he didn't have to say it. So feel confident about your "alluringness" and flirt it up with some other guys. Keep looking around, and you'll find someone else who's really nice with a powerful presence, I promise! :D
2007-10-12 13:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by slishou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you you should respect that he is seeing someone. Because if you was with him and someone was trying to hit on him then you wouldn't like that at all. All you can do is to be friends. You never know when yall hang out that he she how laid back you are then he might go for you. But don't interfere with what he gots. Just be there for a friend and see where that goes.
2007-10-12 13:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by ZeeZee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend already. Don't be the "other woman" if it's ment to happen, eventually he will be single and he's free game. Until that time, make sure he doesn't loose your number. Keep in contact via e-mail once in a blue moon, so he knows you haven't forgotten about him.
2007-10-12 13:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you straight out he is seeing someone else. That's your answer. You're not in the picture. Use this as a learning experience - next time you meet someone you click with, don't be so shy
2007-10-12 13:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by bluebell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ALREADY TAKEN. Got it? Or can't you respect that? What's he supposed to do? Drop her for you? Leave him another note telling him that you would be available if things ever don't work out with the one he is with. Then wait your turn.
2007-10-12 13:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he's seeing someone else. . . move on. He probably was involved when you shared a kiss.
2007-10-12 13:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend there is nothing you can do... move on\
if he becomes single..... ask him to go on a freindly date.....
do lunch cause then he wont feel pressured....
if you do a good job and he enjoyed it... next time ask him for dinner. and just progress
2007-10-12 13:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE ASK HIM OUT FOR SOME COFFEE TO CATCH UP ON THINGS. IF IT ALL GOES GOOD SET UP SOMETHING ELSE TO DO LATER ON. GOOD LUCK!! =]
2007-10-12 13:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Just Say It Again And Mean It 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he hitting on oyu bt telling you youre alluring if he is seeing someone ? sound slike he just wants NSA
2007-10-12 13:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Leea 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You blew it, Move on #
2007-10-12 13:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋